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posted July 28, 2002 11:18 PM         

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I am a Gemini born 6/14/65 at 4:50pm in Santa Ana California
My boyfriend was born 8/10/61 at 4:08am in Denver Colorado
I love him but I am just not sure if he is the ONE!!! I just need to know if I am going to marry him. Will I be a good match for him or make him unhappy?... He is looking for a new job and is very stressed out due to a pending lay-off

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posted July 29, 2002 08:50 AM         

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Only your Free-will can decide that.

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"Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark

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posted July 29, 2002 07:06 PM         

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Welcome nicolleb.

I'm with Randall regarding your question. Do you want to marry him, and if so, why?

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posted July 29, 2002 09:51 PM         

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There are a few more non-astrological questions that might help you decide. Can you tolerate spending large amounts of time with him? Do you plan to have children, or not? Does your boyfriend agree with you? If you both decide yes, would you (as a child) have responded positively to a father like him?

I realize that these questions are quite blunt and "in-your-face", but in my ONION, a good marriage is a thoughtfully obtained marriage- where love, romance and passion reign supreme, but the details of life are not forgotten.

Ultimately, it is up to you and to him. If, after thinking about these things, you both still decide you want to get married, go for it!

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posted July 29, 2002 10:08 PM         

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Very wise (and caring) words, Spiritua!

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"Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark

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posted August 02, 2002 11:14 AM         

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Great questions!

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To fall in Love, is to rise. . . .
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