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Topic: Compatability
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Crystal_Belle
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posted August 02, 2002 11:47 PM
 
I like this guy at work my birthtime 12-13-72 6:49pm durham, nc his birthtime 10-17-70 6:30pm louisburg, nc right now we are friends. are we romantically compatabile?? Hello everyone  IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted August 03, 2002 11:35 AM
Welcome to the site, Crystal!  ------------------
"Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark IP: Logged |
Spiritua
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posted August 03, 2002 02:44 PM
Welcome to Lindaland, Crystal_belle!      IP: Logged |
Cat
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posted August 03, 2002 05:43 PM
Hi Crystal
Nice to meet you Have you got a copy of Linda Goodman's book "Love Signs"?
It's a great book to read for a general look at how the different signs can be compatible. You say you like this guy. How long have you known him and have you ever been out with him? It's quite involved to do a full synastry, so if it's just a general enquiry that you have - "Love Signs" will give you a lot of answers
Sue PS: Let me know if you have a specific question that you'd like me to look at for you IP: Logged |
Crystal_Belle
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posted August 03, 2002 05:55 PM
I have known him for a few months. I have liked him ever since I started work there. Even before I met him, they described that he was a little crazy. I immediately liked him at that point.
I have never been out with him.I have had 6 dreams about him. IP: Logged |
Crystal_Belle
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posted August 03, 2002 06:09 PM
Here is more infohis chart info: born on 17 Oct 1970 local time 06:30 pm
in Louisburg, NC (US) U.T. 22:30
78w18, 36n06 sid. time 19:00:50
PLANETARY POSITIONS
planet sign degree house
Sun Libra 24°08'04 07
Moon Gemini 05°00'32 02
Mercury Libra 17°32'23 06
Venus Scorpio 25°04'16 07
Mars Virgo 28°24'05 06
Jupiter Scorpio 11°35'53 07
Saturn Taurus 21°02'45 01
Uranus Libra 10°08'07 06
Neptune Scorpio 29°19'10 08
Pluto Virgo 28°13'10 06
True Node Pisces 01°22'32 11
HOUSE POSITIONS (Placidus)
Ascendant Aries 23°47'06
2nd House Taurus 27°31'23
3rd House Gemini 21°59'23
Imum Coeli Cancer 14°00'13
5th House Leo 08°09'16
6th House Virgo 09°47'11
Descendant Libra 23°47'06
8th House Scorpio 27°31'23
9th House Sagittarius 21°59'23
Medium Coeli Capricorn 14°00'13
11th House Aquarius 08°09'16
12th House Pisces 09°47'11 my chart info: born on 13 Dec 1972 local time 06:49 pm
in Durham, NC (US) U.T. 23:49
78w54, 36n00 sid. time 00:04:25
PLANETARY POSITIONS
planet sign degree house
Sun Sagittarius 22°05'45 06
Moon Pisces 24°48'20 09
Mercury Sagittarius 00°58'15 05
Venus Scorpio 24°03'09 05
Mars Scorpio 18°43'08 05
Jupiter Capricorn 13°41'23 06
Saturn Gemini 16°41'37 12
Uranus Libra 22°10'12 04
Neptune Sagittarius 05°36'37 05
Pluto Libra 04°16'11 04
True Node Capricorn 17°01'27 06/7
HOUSE POSITIONS (Placidus)
Ascendant Cancer 17°03'19
2nd House Leo 07°56'52
3rd House Virgo 01°45'51
Imum Coeli Libra 01°12'12
5th House Scorpio 06°52'19
6th House Sagittarius 14°07'36
Descendant Capricorn 17°03'19
8th House Aquarius 07°56'52
9th House Pisces 01°45'51
Medium Coeli Aries 01°12'12
11th House Taurus 06°52'19
12th House Gemini 14°07'36 IP: Logged |
Cat
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posted August 03, 2002 06:12 PM
Hi Crystal
I'm in England and it's late here now, so I'll take a look at your chart tomorrow.Try to read "Love Signs" - it really will give you a lot of info.
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Cat
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posted August 03, 2002 06:15 PM
We just posted at the same time  Can you just confirm what NC means? I'm English and so don't know all American town abbreviations. I'm guessing North Carolina - but could be way off 
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Crystal_Belle
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posted August 03, 2002 06:18 PM
North Carolina :-)IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted August 04, 2002 01:26 PM
We Americans sometimes take for granted our abbreviations are well-known.  ------------------
"Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark IP: Logged |
Cat
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posted August 05, 2002 04:55 PM
Hi Crystal
Well first of all, I feel we should take a look at your natal chart, especially as you're not actually in a relationship with him at the moment  4 planets sitting in your 5th house (romance).....So very important to you
Scorpio Mars Scorpio Venus, Sagittarius Mercury, Sagittarius Neptune. And Scorpio is your 5th house ruler - so you'll be quite driven towards that (especially with Mars sitting there).
You've also got Pluto transiting your 5th house - so big transformations should be going on there. Can you tell me, how has your romantic life been over the past fews years? Pluto is a slow moving planet and so has been in your 5th house for a few years now. Neptune - planet of "illusions" is transiting your 7th house (relationships).
Again that's been there for quite a while (Neptune tends to make us where "rose coloured glasses" and it's not a fast moving planet) It does tend to make us not see things too clearly - but you'll be pleased to know it won't be long before it will leave your 7th house. You do have some really nice aspects with him but until you actually are having a relationship with him, they don't really mean too much.
For example.....You could have great aspects with your favourite actor/film star/singer...but unless a relationship actually starts.......
Well I think you know what I'm saying
For now, just bear in mind that Neptune transiting your 7th house.
Now if he wanted to start a relationship with you - well I would yes - go for it
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Crystal_Belle
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posted August 05, 2002 06:07 PM
I have never been in a romantic relationship.
I have been a homebody for about 10 years.
I am currently taking medication for anxiety and depression. and I am breaking out of my shell now. I talk a lot at work I show my personality more. IP: Logged |
Cat
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posted August 06, 2002 02:08 PM
Hi Crystal
I'm sorry to hear that you have been suffering from depression Saturn is currently "messing" with you  He's transiting your 12th house. And that together with the fact that you also have Saturn opposed your natal Sun and also square your natal Moon, would go a long way to explaining why you are depressed So back to Saturn transiting your 12th....
Saturn transiting here frequently marks the end of a long cycle. The two years, or so, that Saturn spends moving through your 12th House is a good time to finish things off. It is not good, however, for starting new, long-range projects. For those, wait until Saturn crosses your Ascendant and enters your 1st House. You can make plans now, but it is not a good time to put them into action. Even if you try to, circumstances will usually cause delays until Saturn reaches your 1st House. Right now, you should be cutting your losses and clearing the decks for action. Saturn opposing your natal Sun....
When Saturn makes a aspect to your natal Sun, you get what you worked for, you get the fruits of your actions. Not what you think you worked for. Some books say that Saturn rewards hard work. Not so. It rewards Smart Work. If you work hard in the wrong direction, you get a different sort of reward. As usual with Saturn transits, if there are any problems, they will start to surface during the stressful aspects (the square and opposition). This is especially true of health matters since the Sun rules the body in general. As Saturn is transiting your 12th house (things that are hidden) - it would make you depressed. Try to keep busy.
As your Natal Sun is in your 6th house (work and health) and Leo is your 2nd house ruler (material values/ finances) it will be affecting those areas as well. Saturn square your natal Moon.
The Moon is your emotions and feelings, your instincts. Saturn rules depression, especially the stressful aspects (conjunction, square, and opposition). But there is always a way to minimize that. Keep busy, especially around the house. Don’t just sit there. As your natal Moon is in your 9th house it may also be affecting 9th house issues as well as the 12th house ones I've already mentioned. These are areas of your life where normal problems can seem particularly depressing right now. Your reaction will tend to be more emotional at this time, rather than logical. Relations with women can tend to be difficult during these transits. The best way to deal with these transits is to acknowledge the feelings you have. Do not suppress them. Then, check the reality of the situation. You will probably notice that your emotional reactions are out of proportion to what is happening. Take the rational course. Give yourself a treat to soothe those emotions.
As the Moon rules Cancer and Cancer is your ascendant and 1st house (the self) ruler - again your depression is very understandable The good news is that Saturn opposed Sun is now at 3 degrees and so the effect should be lessening. Saturn is square your Moon at 0 degrees (the strongest) but is moving so will be off that very shortly. In saying all of that, you sound as if you are dealing with this difficult transits You mention that you have been a housebody for 10 years. I'm a little confused, as in England a housebody is normally a housewife. Can you explain that to me?
Sue
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Crystal_Belle
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posted August 06, 2002 05:07 PM
After high school i stayed at home didn't go out much(homebody)except for the library. I was unemployed until December of last year.IP: Logged |
Cat
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posted August 06, 2002 05:49 PM
Hi Cystal
Why was that? That you didn't go out after High School.
Was there a particular reason that you didn't work until Dec last year?Sorry for all the questions but I'm trying to fully understand your situation to enable me to look at your chart. Full Chart interpretations take a very long time - which is not possible on a forum, so I'm trying to "see" which area I should be directing my attention on. I realise that it may cause you a problem in telling me on a public forum. If you prefer - click on mail at the top of this post and you can email me privately.
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Crystal_Belle
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posted August 07, 2002 05:11 PM
I didn't know what to do or where to go after high school. I was very unprepared. I attended some community college, until the courses i was interested in ran out. Then I just stuck around home and washed the dishes. In 1999 I went to a vocatical center. in August of that year I got a job at
The Body Shop wharehouse. I stayed there 3 months until i had a panic attack and quit. Thats when I started having deep severe depression, suicidal thoughts and strong anxiety. I gained a lot of weight too.My mom is overprotective, she is a Scorpio. IP: Logged |
Crystal_Belle
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posted August 13, 2002 08:53 PM
I haven't had a romantic life, so I wonder what the next few months hold for me romantically, astrologically speaking. IP: Logged |
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