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posted August 04, 2002 01:52 PM         

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Hi.
I'm not sure if it's just me personally, or if I can blame my moon and venus conjunct in Leo... :-D
but I seem to have multiple "relationships", if you call them that, going on at the same time....
I'd like to know what you guys can tell me about a certain relationship.
His data:
06/18/87 Springfield, MO?
time unknown
Her data:
09/12/85 Grosse Pointe, MI
20:23

We have this really powerful connection. He fascinates me, and I feel that feeling is mutual.
Being a Gemini, he is not always very easy to read.
I just returned from an out-of-state trip (we were visiting his family and our mothers are friends). While we were there, he was out of town, but his sister asked me, almost out of the blue, if he were a couple years older, would I go out with him?
That prompted me to think harder and look deeper.
I'd love anyone else's take on this relationship, and I am happy to answer more questions cause I don't really want to bore everyone with my personal life...

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posted August 06, 2002 02:18 PM         

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Just don't want this to get buried too far down in the stack of requests...

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posted August 06, 2002 02:29 PM         

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Hi Virgo
Thanks for bringing this up to the top.
I've got a few other charts that I've promised to look at, but I'll take a look for you, hopefully tomorrow.

Can you just confirm something?
You've put a question mark by MO as his birth town. Are you not sure of exactly where he was born? As that's important to know.
Sue

PS: Is there anyway you can find out his time of birth? As need that to be accurate

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posted August 06, 2002 03:22 PM         

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Cat-
My gut feeling very strongly says that he was born in the afternoon, cause around 11 or 12, the moon moved from pisces to aries, and his impulsiveity fits very well wiith that.
This same gut tells me that his rising is either Libra (most likely), Sag, or Pisces.
I'm almost 90% certain he was born in Springfield, MO but he is a part of that "anti-astrology" family that I mentioned before, so....
I tried asking him about birthtime and he is not sure (and he is also adopted, at age 3 or 4).
Thanks for agreeing to take on this, even if it proves to a little challenging. We are only friends right now, so nothing's urgent.

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posted August 15, 2002 12:40 PM         

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I'm just bringing this to the top.....

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posted August 15, 2002 12:55 PM         

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Hi Virgo
Thanks for reminding me.
I'll take a look tonight for you

Sue

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posted August 16, 2002 10:02 AM         

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Hi V-AA, I took a look at your charts and your intuition with each other is exceptionally strong, but sometimes clouded. Your verbal communication is also strong, but sometimes feisty, and other times you may feel like you're talking to a wall. You have a really great ability to discuss anything and communicate, but when the transits hit those harsh aspects, you will both need to be patient. There's actually a great deal of Love aspects between you. There's some karma too. It may require patience to develop a fun and compatible physical relationship, though. The sexual chemistry is strong enough, but acting on it may not be as smooth as you think it should be. Be patient with each other and try to get to know each other slowly.

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posted August 16, 2002 11:20 AM         

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Auriel,
What you said is so true! It's amazing to know that this much is obvious just through comparing our charts...
Just two quick questions:
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acting on it may not be as smooth as you think it should be

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What did you mean?

2)Why would our verbal communication fluxuate so much from strong and feisty to times feeling like you're talking to a wall?
Thanks so much for taking a look.

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As if we were someday to love"-Venus Trines at Midnight

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posted August 18, 2002 10:28 PM         

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Sue/Cat...
Any luck finding time to look at the charts? I don't mean to be a pest, but I'm curious to hear your take on this.

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posted August 19, 2002 06:07 PM         

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Well, um, sexually some people just click and it just feels perfect. Other times, it's not so smooth. You two have the sexual chemistry, but the love making may take some adjustments on both of your parts for it to be really awesome.

With the communication, it will depend on the transits. You have several communication aspects. Some of them are soft and others are challenging.

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posted January 03, 2003 12:18 PM         

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Hi, I know that this is sort of an old post, but thought I'd bring it back up to the top, as I'd be curious to hear others' takes on this relationship as my family and I just came back from a brief visit to that family, and the connection between my Gemini and I keeps deepening. He seems even more sensitive to my feelings, affectionate in general, and his attention was such a nice presence...When we were at this new years eve celebration (in, of all places, a church), he went up and got me a fork when I forgot to grab one, and had served me some dessert while I was at the washroom...just silly little considerate gestures that warm my senimental Leo(moon and venus) heart...
And to top it all off, when we arrived home last night, I checked my long term aspects in my chart at astro.com and it said that as of the first day of our trip, Dec. 29 til next october, pluto is trining my natal venus and, to quote the site, as a result of this:
"This influence emphasizes the creative and romantic aspects of your life. It can bring a new relationship or deepen an old one. A new one that comes at this time will be notable for the strength of the feelings involved. It could hardly be described as casual. There is a compulsive quality about the energies that drive you and your partner together, but this is not at all negative. It will merely seem to both of you that this relationship was inevitable, and you will both find that it is a learning experience of the best possible kind. You will learn a great deal about the energies within each of you that are at work in a relationship. You may discover that love is less conscious and that you act much more from blind compulsion than you realized. But this realization is the first step toward becoming conscious of your feelings."
This new facet to the relatioship I just described fits amazingly with that aspect...

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posted January 06, 2003 10:12 PM         

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Just bringing this back up to the top....

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posted May 07, 2003 10:42 AM         

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i don't know if cat peruses through this forum much . . . you may want to e-mail her a gentle reminder

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posted December 15, 2003 07:05 PM         

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to the top.....

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posted December 16, 2003 12:04 AM         

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Have you tried drawing the synastry out yourself on a piece of paper? You would get a lot out of it Try it, pretty please

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posted December 16, 2003 07:48 PM         

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I just wanted to add that with your Venus in Leo, his Sun in Gemini would complement you very well, as Venus in Fire signs gets along very well with Air signs, especially Gemini and Libra. It sounds like he has a Sag rising, if so then the connection is really powerful, I have a Sag rising and I am very much drawn to Virgos even with the square, and I bond to Virgos deeply.

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posted January 09, 2004 12:04 PM         

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Natasha...what makes you think a Sag rising is more probable for him? Just curious as to what lead you that direction...
In regard to my Venus in Leo, yeah we do seem to complment each other well, as he brings out the playful kitten side of me, and we appreciate each other in ways no one else does. + me = I hope!

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posted January 09, 2004 11:16 PM         

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Virgo-Aries:

I'm going by your original query as to why you seem to have multiple relationships or from one to another.

Just wanted to share with you something that I'm currently coming to terms with. I'm learning that since I've realized that what I REALLY REALLY REALLY want is to be married now, I need to be very clear in how I conduct myself.

I'm 42 and never wanted to be married. Life was a journey, I was a bit of a gypsy, a writer curious about every aspect of life, why would I want to trade all that in to be devoted to a husband?

Well, quite true, in the traditional sense, I DON'T want to be the devoted wife, yet, not only do I want to be married now, but I can say with 100% honesty that I am READY.

So as long as you ask yourself, what do I really want, and answer it to the best of your ability (life is a journey), then you can basically expect the outcome to be equal to how you conduct yourself.

There have been MANY MANY times when I questioned if I was hurting myself by going out on a limb at times. Life has a way of carrying you along and the next day, you wipe away the evidence of the tears from the night before, you toughen up, keep a stiff upper lip, and get back into the real world.

So just be careful, I would say. WANTING something is not the same thing as being READY for it...

with love & support,

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posted January 10, 2004 02:50 PM         

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Hi Virgo Artist, I think that a Libra rising would be less likely to be adopted, that is my objective opinion. But you would know for sure, if you dwell on it for a while, if you are attracted to Libra risings usually, then you may know better than I.

You are right that air risings do well with earth suns, because my last two were gemini and libra rising. But Sag risings are known for being warm and considerate. Has he given you any gifts? fire risings love to gift small gifts of attention, such as a cookie, or even a helping hand once in a while.

Natasha
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posted January 10, 2004 04:45 PM         

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Woah, Natasha, that is such a neat observation, about Fire signs loving to give little presents....I never thought of it that way. I, as an Aries rising, am well known to those I love as giving small little senimental gifts often..so along that train of thought....
Yes, He has definitely given me little gifts often...always things that touched me (a little vending machine ring the second time we met, and when I knew he was "into" me, as he paid a lot of attention to me, followed me around in general and taught me to play pool, as well as two years later, a CD he had of my current favorite group, then last year, a picture he took on a recent trip of his). He is a very warm soul, great with kids, and a bit on the immature side himself, but that is why I love him... Now that I think about it, his heavier build would also fit with the rising sign as opposed to Libra and at first impression, he's not wishy washy or vain. Yikes...your conclusion, the more I ponder it, seems so right on, it's scary...

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posted January 16, 2004 10:52 PM         

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Hi Virgo-Aries Artist, I just wanted to wish you all the best with this guy. I really like Geminis usually and it sounds like this one may have the good qualities (playfulness, kindness) and not the less desirable ones (wishy-washiness, moodiness)- lucky girl! I have some experience with Gems, and truly, they can be difficult to cope with at times...but it sounds like the bond really is strong between the two of you...take it slow and enjoy your relationship in the present b/c being an Aries sun and Leo moon I know how easy it is to get swept away with projections into the future (not that I think you're doing that)...it's those romantic daydreams and expectations that can take away from enjoying the good times of the present I think.

All the best, and keep us posted please!

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posted January 19, 2004 12:00 PM         

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I have some experience with Gems, and truly, they can be difficult to cope with at times
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Mmmmm... He's being alot more physically affectionate during this visit, and wants to be considered a "best" friend of mine. He's hung out with me a ton too, and given me a DVD. Will write more later, but I'm very happy.

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