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candisces
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posted August 26, 2002 12:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for candisces     Edit/Delete Message
OK! I need help. Here's the deal. I have been having an on again off again relationship with this Taurus. I try to shake him but he just keeps showing up. The thing is it seems like he shows up to make sure I still care and haven't forgotten about him and then he checks out. I don't understand! I've read the love signs chapter on pisces - taurus relationships, but it doesn't seem to apply all that much here. I read that usually a pisces - taurus connection is one that has a long, karmic history and I definitely feel the pull. What does one do in these situations? Is there any way to overcome or work with the planets? Help!

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raj_105_2001
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posted August 26, 2002 12:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for raj_105_2001     Edit/Delete Message
Shaking a Taurus is not next to impossible. It is impossible. If Taurus has decided he has thought of it for a long time. He is never going to change any of his decisions.

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Cat
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posted August 26, 2002 12:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Cat     Edit/Delete Message
Hi Candisces
Nice to meet you

So that someone to look at your charts, you need to post both of your birth details..
day, month, year, place and time of birth.
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candisces
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posted August 26, 2002 01:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for candisces     Edit/Delete Message
I don't know the time for him, but I know everything else. I was born on March 16, 1980 at 5:25 am in San Bernardino, CA. He was born on April 24, 1978 in Gilroy, CA. I don't know the time, sorry. We met on August 18, 2001 in San Juan Capistrano, CA (I don't know if this information helps). I hope you can help eventhough I don't have the whole picture. There are a lot of little locational match ups and weird things that seem not to be coincidence that I could share if it might help shed light on things.

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Cat
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posted August 26, 2002 02:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Cat     Edit/Delete Message
Hi Candisces
Thanks for the birth details. Yes it would help if you could share that information. It takes a long time to look at charts and so it does really help if I know where I should be looking
I'm a little Do you want to have a relationship with him or for him to leave you alone?
Again so I know what I'm looking for. Charts as full of information
Sue

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candisces
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posted August 26, 2002 03:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for candisces     Edit/Delete Message
Thank you for your reply, Cat. I'm new.

You see, I think I do want a relationship with him. I've been with him in the past and I never loved him. However, recently I am beginning to feel very strongly for him. I just would like to know if there is anything in charts to explain and/or clarify the strange pull I am feeling (and I think he is too) as well as why he makes these big plays to be in my life and then disappears. The location we met at seems to have a big influence because whenever he is there is when he feels compelled to get back into my life eventhough I've made it clear that I want him to stay out of it. He doesn't live in the same town or close to this location, so it isn't as if he could be there at anytime. Also, it was strange, but before I ever met him I was attracted to his art.
Anyhow, I hope this helps you help me. I'm really confused about what's going on. Really difficult to communicate with him, otherwise I'd just ask him these things myself. That's another thing - difficult for us to communicate and it's usually not a problem for me to do. I don't know, maybe I'm just being silly and overanalytical.
I just always believed in astrology as a tool to help with people.

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Cat
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posted August 26, 2002 04:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Cat     Edit/Delete Message
Hi Candisces
It's late here now (I'm in England) so I'll look at your charts for you tomorrow.

Well yes, even I'm now.....
You say...... I've been with him in the past and I never loved him"

So what do you think has changed?

I get a "feeling" you don't know what you really want. I'll take a look at your transits and see how the planets may currently be affecting your feelings
Sue

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Cat
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posted August 26, 2002 05:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Cat     Edit/Delete Message
Hi Candisces
Ok this is a very quick. I haven't looked at your charts but while printing them off - to look at tomorrow, I instantly saw the following.........

You currently have Venus (well that speaks for itself) and Mercury (communication) transiting your 7th house (relationships).

Now your Mr Taurus has Uranus (planet of erractic change, sudden/bizzaire happenings) transiting his 7th house.

So that should tell you a little bit of what's happening.

Now as romance/relationships are obviously on your mind. Why are you considering him?
I'll still look at your charts tomorrow, but let me have your thoughts re what I've just told you
Sue

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Randall
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posted August 26, 2002 08:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message
Welcome to the site, Candisces!

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"Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark

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Morning Storm
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posted August 26, 2002 08:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Morning Storm     Edit/Delete Message
Welcome candisces.

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candisces
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posted August 28, 2002 04:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for candisces     Edit/Delete Message
Thanks Cat,
Well, I am considering this Taurus because he's an extremely handsome, sweet, talented and driven person. However, he just seems extremely emotionally backwards and runs and hides as soon as he feels something and gets close to me. He is the most likely to run off when he has opened up emotionally and leaned on me - or vice versa. Most often it's when he opens up. I really don't understand what's going on with him, but I'd like to. He has told me he is lonely but it seems it's self imposed. How can he not be lonely when he hides away from people who want to care for him and be his companion? To be honest, it's not as if I HAVE to be with him. I date other people because he doesn't provide me with the care and attention I need. But I'd like to be with only him and have him take care of my needs and vice versa. I know pisces women are prone to promiscuity and cheating on their boyfriends and I don't want to fall into this trap. Anyways, I'm one confused little fish which is why I wanted to see if y'all have any cosmic wisdom to help me on my swim upstream and away from the dark, Neptunian pools of escapism. Truth is, I'd like to just swim away, but I feel I should fight the current on this one.

Candi

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Cat
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posted August 28, 2002 05:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Cat     Edit/Delete Message
Hi Candi
Sorry for the delay in getting back to you - I'm having a couple of busy work days....

You say you'd like to swim away.....
Well before we really look into this, I think you maybe need to really think about how you feel. Do you like him? Are you attracted to him? Because if you're not...well you know what I'm saying

You "fish" may get confused BUT you can be very intuitive.....what's your intuition telling you?
Sue

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raj_105_2001
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posted August 29, 2002 11:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for raj_105_2001     Edit/Delete Message
Go for him, candisces.

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Cat
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posted August 29, 2002 04:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Cat     Edit/Delete Message
Hi Candi
How are thing's going with you and your Taurus?
Let me know if you still want me to look at your charts.
Sue

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pearly
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posted September 06, 2002 10:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pearly     Edit/Delete Message
Welcome Candisces!

All I can offer is this: RUN, RUN, RUN!!!

Well, I'm half kidding really. Yes, half kidding because I know for a fact that the Pisces/Taurus combo IS indeed very karmic and it will most likely be ALOT of testing and learning. Even if you wanted to, you probably couldn't run... eventually he'll catch you.

Of course that is not all that bad. When he finally decides he wants to, he will probably take care of you very well (emotionally, sensually and financially) BUT expect to do things his way (which still won't be so bad really). So what is the problem, you say?? hehe, You'll see

Just having a little fun here with you. Get used to it with your Taurus and definitely toughen yourself up!

Disclaimer:
I speak strictly from personal experience. Any similarities are purely coincidental. I make no claims that what I say is true. Every chart will be different.
(yeah, right. )

Anyway, best of luck to you. Feel free to share anything more, I'd love to offer any insight I may have to you. I am a Pisces and I have had the pleasure of a Taurus man (he is still hanging on...they never leave, by the way). If you want me to share anything else, I'd be happy. Oh, and try to get the birth times...

Take care,
-pearly

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booda
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posted September 07, 2002 01:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for booda     Edit/Delete Message
OK, lets get down to simple logic here!
I go to this store called "freebies"
They pamper me, feed me, tell me great things about me, and it's all FREE"
I have to do absolutely nothing but show up.
My ego and belly full, I'm ready to face the world again. I love this place, it's the best service I've EVER gotten. EVER!!!(hint)
I hope they never close down or go out of busniess, 'cause then I'd have to move across town and start going to "useme's" and well they don't know me that well (yet, anyway)

Take my arms, I'll never use them.
Take my lips, I'll want to loose them.
Take all of me.......

Billy Holiday

This is a Java Alert!
Booda

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booda
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posted September 07, 2002 01:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for booda     Edit/Delete Message
OK, lets get down to simple logic here!
I go to this store called "freebies"
They pamper me, feed me, tell me great things about me, and it's all "FREE"
I have to do absolutely nothing but show up.
My ego and belly full, I'm ready to face the world again. I love this place, it's the best service I've EVER gotten. EVER!!!(hint)
I hope they never close down or go out of business, 'cause then I'd have to move across town and start going to "useme's" and well they don't know me that well (yet, anyway)

Take my arms, I'll never use them.
Take my lips, I want to loose them.
Take all of me.......

Billy Holiday

This is a Java Alert!
(wake up and smell the coffee)
Booda

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pearly
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posted September 07, 2002 06:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pearly     Edit/Delete Message
Welcome Booda!

Love your posts! This one is especially entertaining...


Pearl

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candisces
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posted September 07, 2002 08:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for candisces     Edit/Delete Message
Hi Pearly,
You seem so sweet...other pisces are always so easy for me to get along with. Thanks for the advice. Well, I haven't seen or talked to the Taurus in three weeks. Which really hurts my feelings, since the last time we spoke he claimed he was going to be better about making "things easier for me" and coming around more often. Whatever, dude, you snooze you lose. Now I'm dating an aquarian/pisces (right on the cusp, definitely has traits from both signs), an aries (is March 23 on the cusp? He seems very much like an Aries to me) and a sagittarius. Anyways, I don't have feelings for any of them, at least not yet, but it's nice to have them around to take my mind off my absentee taurus. I need to find myself a nice scorpio man and settle down. HaHa! I LOVE scorpios, I've just haven't found one that I cared for romantically. Anyways, I am a chatter box. I know the Taurus will be back, but I think by then it will be too late. What do you think?

candisces

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pearly
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posted September 12, 2002 09:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pearly     Edit/Delete Message
Candisces!

Gosh, I almost lost this string! I went out of town, so I've been out of it a bit!

Anyway, good to see you in high spirits. YES, your Taurus will be back, and YES you must find yourself a good Scorpio eventually!

I have a question, do you think maybe you have some experiences that your Higher Self is trying to lead you to? I find that when I am meeting and attracted to people that are not "naturally" compatible with me, that I am going through a learning phase... a sort of growing time. Since you are finding these people in "relationship" roles (an Aries, Sag, and karmic Taurus ), then maybe you are trying to do some growing in the love area. It's just a thought, something I've noticed in my own experiences...

The Aries is definitely Aries (starts March 20) and I don't know about the Aqua/Pisces. He will be one or the other though and you can find out with his correct birth time. Personally I say, avoid Sag for anything serious... strictly for fun these Saggies are! I've had that experience, but we are still great friends even though at one point he was the end-all of my entire life! I was SO silly!

Anyway, are any of these guys interesting prospects yet? Keep me posted I still think you will have something to take care of with this Taurus. Just so you know, they take a LONG, LONG time to decide. Their patience is ridiculous in these matters. They will wait for YEARS! This is true. So, if you eventually do start something with him, it will be harder to dissolve if it is not what you end up wanting just because of the sheer history you will have by then! All that waiting... hehe

But don't worry, are you really ready to be serious yet? If you are, then choose carefully.

Well, take care, talk to you soon...

Peace-
Pearly



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candisces
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posted September 13, 2002 12:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for candisces     Edit/Delete Message
Hi Pearly,
Thanks for the insight! How are you doing? Are you married to a Taurus? Anyways, I think you're right. I'm sure I do have some lessons to learn from all of these incompatible men. Actually, I don't really like the Sag. He's very handsome and nice, but I don't like his hands (I never like Sag hands) and he's far too needy and nosey. As for the Aries, he's really cool. VERY affectionate, many kind words, generous, artistic, handsome...really no glaring flaws yet. It's funny, he is SO aries. But in a good way. Same birthday as my father, actually. Coincidence? Maybe. Anyways, I was reading about aries - pisces in love signs and it was talking about the favorable combination of masculine and feminine forces. The opposites attract thing. It's funny because he is constantly like, "Me Tarzan - You Jane." It's really important to him that I know he's the MAN! It makes me laugh. It probably sounds offensive, but it isn't.

Anyways, I'm just having fun spending time with interesting new people. I hope the Taurus stays away for a while. He really puts a damper on all of my fun. It hurts more than it feels good with him. Seeps into all of my life.

Hey, you're a Pisces. I have almost every aspect in Pisces. Sun, rising, moon. It's really funny because my brother is a scorpio but he has a pisces rising. We really look nothing alike. He's blonde haired, blue eyed, tall and lean. I'm black eyed, brown haired, short and curvy. But people freak out when they see us together. Say it's uncanny how similar we look. I wonder if it's because we have the same ascendant so we present ourselves in the same way. Makes me wonder. Do you find that if you don't take extremely good care of yourself you get ill and everything goes to hell. If I'm not ultra careful about everything: diet, exercise, sleep, drinking I can go from perfectly healthy and balanced to ill, broken out and low energy after one day of not sticking to the super healthy routine. Is it a Pisces thing? It doesn't seem to be this way with other people I know.

Hope you're doing well Pearl. I look forward to hearing from you.

candisces

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pearly
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posted September 13, 2002 03:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pearly     Edit/Delete Message
Hi again, Candisces!

I'm doing well, thanks. You just said so many things I relate to!

First let me say that the Aries can actually be a good sign for Pisces. They need quality attention, but seem to be fairly independent which tends to work for us Pisces. They are really opposite, but in a good way for sure. My best girlfriend is an Aries and I've dated 2 Aries men, both were awesome. If your Moons or other aspects are compatible it'll be even sweeter. It sounds like you like him a bit... cool.

As for myself, I am Pisces Sun, Venus and Mercury. My Moon is in Cancer and my Rising is Sag. The rising gets on my nerves, but other people seem to have fun with it, especially my Aries girlfrind....we both have Sag Rising! Basically it gives me a happy-go-lucky vibe and a bit of fire when you first meet me....but it's all surface (rising tends to rule the outward persona and ego). However, I do trip, fall and run into things more often than most, definitely Sag.

As for the Pisces health thing... YES!! You are so right! I have great health when I am taking care of myself, but if I slack off I get tired, stressed, headaches, general illness feelings (could be psychosomatic). I am very sensitive. However, when I am working out and being good, I am SO strong. I excel at sports if I want and can really have alot of stamina. I kinda like it in between though ...I love my relaxation! Baths and steams, lotion and sugar scrubs. Candles, music, dancing, creativity, meditation... oh how I LOVE fantasyland!

Which brings me to the Taurus. No, I am not married to him. He is trying to do that with me now but I don't want to. Basically we have been broken up for a year (we were together for 6), I moved to another city and am in another relationship and he is STILL trying. It is almost appealing to my Pisces sympathy, but I don't think I'll go for it. He has ALOT to offer, but I am in love with an amazing Scorpio and we are building something quite beautiful. He is extremely respectful and loving and such a wonderful . I recommend Scorps for Pisces! We both have Cancer Moons which is very comfy. His rising is Scorp too. He's very magnetic. I love it

Anyway, I am at a crossroads with it all though, and being Pisces, it makes me so confused. I love the Taurus immensely, but he is a bit oppressing for my fairytale-self. He is trying so hard to change and it is truly heartbreaking to watch him trying to be extra tender in dealing with me. Oh well, what can you do? The saga will continue....

Well, take care, and keep me updated on your Aries!

Peace,
Pearly

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PiscesPrincess
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posted October 01, 2002 07:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PiscesPrincess     Edit/Delete Message
I am also a pisces woman. Isn't it amazing how many pisces are interested in astrology. I have been fascinated in it for awhile. I was involved with a taurus man and will never travel that road again. He was extremely possessive, domineering, and not sensitive enough to my emotional needs. In order to leave him I had to move out of state and he still calls my mothers house to this day. Leaving a taurus is most definately a daunting task but it can be done. He was very affectionate and stable which are characteristics I need in a man but they were not worth my freedom, family, friends, self respect, and most importantly my sanity. You can pretend he's right to avoid an arguement only so many times. He was so incredibly stubborn. I couldn't stand it but if you can and you really love him then let him know and work it out. I'm sure he'll be more than willing. Everyone knows that pisces woman have the best lovin'.

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Captiva
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posted October 02, 2002 01:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Captiva     Edit/Delete Message
I have a similar problem. I posted it a few months ago, but apparently on the wrong board. I've been reading on the site and found a lot of useful information. But I still have a problem.
I am a Taurus, through and through. I am stable with both feet on the ground and worry a lot about finances.
Here's the problem. I have lived with a Pisces man for 4 years. Last May 2001 he quit his job and hasn't worked since. There is always an excuse. But the thing is: I could not ask for anyone to be better to me. He is wonderful. He cooks like a dream, helps me clean, adapts to whatever and wherever I am or want to be. He is great! Except he doesn't have any money at all. But boy can he run up the bills! He is now at a school in Texas that I had to cough up $4550.00 for him to attend for 8 weeks. He says when he finishes he will make gobs of money.
This also means he will go back to sea at least half the year. But fish return to water, right? I can live with that.

What I can't live with is my dwindling bank account. I have to think about my age, my health, my retirement. He seems to think I am made of money. It also cost me about $1000 to get him out there and settled for the 8 weeks.

Now what should I do? Should I give up on him even though he is very good to me. Or should I hold on and hope he does eventually get a job and STICK WITH IT! It seems money means nothing to him. If he's got it, great.
If not...that's ok too.

Can anyone help me?

My birthday is 05/02/54 3:50 AM in Gainesboro, TN.

Chris's birthday is 03/06/52 at 8:30 PM in Charleston, SC.

These are all the details I have. If anyone can help me I would so much appreciate it!

-Captiva

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