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Topic: Sun-pluto aspects
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Quinnie
Knowflake Posts: 541
From: Belfast, Ireland
Registered: Jul 2002
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posted August 28, 2002 10:39 AM
 
I have recently started dating a guy who has in his natal chart sun squared pluto. The thing is that I also have sun conjunct pluto in my natal chart and in synastry we have his sun squaring my pluto and my sun conjoining his Pluto. They are both close aspects and I really believ we are feeling the full force of a deeply intense situation. The only thing is there is also great confusion as he does not know what he wants out of the relationship and his caution is making me feel insecure. Can u maybe help out with some advice on what to do next.
Here are our details if u want more info.
I'd appreciate the help so much.
What I really need to know is, I've heard that sun-pluto aspects can be short lived and I was wondering about your opinion on this matter and if we have any long-standing aspects that need patience because I don't have much patience myself and is that all thats needed.
I also think I am experiencing pluto squared my natal venus transit, maybe this has something to do with things, we haven't bee together long and are really at beginning stages but already it hurts so much.
his details... 10th January 1981
around 16:30 pm
birthplace in Lurgan, Northern Ireland
My details... 18th Oct 1980
06:59
Belfast, Northern Ireland
Thank u so much
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Morning Storm
Knowflake Posts: 1778
From: Columbus, GA USA
Registered: May 2001
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posted August 29, 2002 11:07 AM
Hi Quinnie, one of us will get to your question as soon as we have time. Can you do me a favor and edit your message to put the month ahead of the day? Tha way I can copy and paste it. Thanks!   ------------------
To fall in Love, is to rise. . . .
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Bissie
Knowflake Posts: 558
From: Hotlanta
Registered: Dec 2001
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posted August 29, 2002 01:09 PM
hey Qinnie,
Pluto people have been always mysterious to me,
you have Sun/PLuto conj - that makes you intense, all right.. but can you tell me more, please, i would love to hear more :when you fall in love - do you feel that like obsessesion? do you try to hide that feeling and to keep it cool until you kow what the other feels? are you always suspicious of the other`s feelings/will you open up and tell your feelings to the partner or it will takes you time? does your emotions are stable or going up and down ? Would you suffer in love-pain quietly and silently or you would open up and tell him how you feel ?
jeez, i have so many questions, will be gratefull if you answert to the half of them oh, and by the way - Pluto contacts in synastry doesn`t mean the relationship will be shortlived, in fact the magnetism of that overplay is so strong, it will drive you together no matter what...
think of Mr. Richard Josef Burton and his beloved Isabel - they have Sun/Pluto conj at 0 degree (and some other stuff) in their synastry and they have ben known as one of the most romantic and passionate couple of their time IP: Logged |
Quinnie
Knowflake Posts: 541
From: Belfast, Ireland
Registered: Jul 2002
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posted August 29, 2002 01:22 PM
yes auriel ofcourse I can ... Thanks chick
It's 10/18/1980
06:59
Belfast, Northern Ireland
Thats mine and his is
01/10/1981
around 16:30
Lurgan, Northern Ireland
I think thats everything.
I can work charts out usually but when it comes to interpreting my own I'm a little too emotionally subjective so I would appreciate your help.
Thanks again.
cat from Belfast
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Quinnie
Knowflake Posts: 541
From: Belfast, Ireland
Registered: Jul 2002
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posted August 29, 2002 01:33 PM
Hey Bissie
How u doing?
You are so right about what u said. I'm finding that my obsessive side is being magnified in this situation and in any love relationship and it's really tearing at my soul but I think it's a great test for myself and I keep saying hold off of the emotional angst for as long as u can because the transit will soon be over.
I am indeed so intense and have been through some very difficult transformations that have been very powerfully effecting those around me, not that I'm saying that I'm a powerfully influencial person but just that my feelings are so overwhelming that I cannot deny anything and feel compulsed to do everything that brings me passion.
I think, I believe that I also have pluto conjunct ascendant and lilith ( dark moon) also.
And if there's any one saying that I go by in life it's 'Know thyself'
I don't know what else to say in the matter except that I think that u are also an intense person too bissie, have u got a strong pluto influence and how does it make u feel in relationships?
Actually the relationship thing is so new to me as intimacy is something that scares me but the more it scares me the more I want to know all about it.
Any way I'm beginning to sound vampirish, I'm not really! Honestly hehe
Thanks for your replies peeps.
Bissie tell me about yourself and that pluto influence please
Love and light and intense blessing s
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Bissie
Knowflake Posts: 558
From: Hotlanta
Registered: Dec 2001
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posted August 29, 2002 04:33 PM
Hey there Quinnie,
sweetie, thanks for your reply but you didn`t answer to some of my questions - when you are obsessed with a thought or idea, or a person - do you hide your feelings because you consider that a weakness and you don`t like the others to see you weak? or do you go stright ahead and tell the object of your attention what you feel, are you the chaser or prefer to to be chased in the love arena?
seems as though most Plutonians prefer to hide their feelings, no?me...I have Mercury/Pluto conjucntion at 0 degree in my 7th house...Mercury is my Sun ruler, so as you guess - I have obsessive mind....- I will turn every stone until I get to the very core of any object that I am currently interested in...exploring the smallest parts of its existence,
while at the same time the object of my attention (when it is a person) even has no idea he has been disectioned to molecules..hahah!  IP: Logged |
Quinnie
Knowflake Posts: 541
From: Belfast, Ireland
Registered: Jul 2002
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posted August 29, 2002 07:27 PM
Oh I see I forgot to answer, well I am a total extremist. I like to seduce though but I have learned the hard way that to keep those feelings bottled up only means that they will errupt over a period of time. I have a hard time comtrolling my emotions that way and so now i prefer to act on my insticnts until I feel it serves me no longer well, I am always playing with situations and becoming more aware of how manipulation is used in all situaions but most importantly understanding true power is such a major issue. For example to understand all the roles we play are manipulations of our script and using the power of such a script we learn that these roles are just images and that all relationships have a certain control theme with one person being victim the other bully but essentially two people who play these parts play them becaus ethey cannot be both at the same time and so interaction with each other allows them to experience their will and power over each other, that is until they give up their will and power and then it becomes pure free will to love and be equal.
Ok I went on abit there but I am passionate and I guess it can scare some people sometimes but my emotions are always on the edge and I really feel inner transformations as cycles now that I can attune to and relax more when |feel anxiety or volcanic erruptions.
I'm up and down. I prefer to keep my feelings hidden but there is also the deep desire to let everything go and no longer be afraid of my feelings and who I am.
Does this answer your questions Bissie?
I hope it satisfies your probing mind.
Do probe away if u want I know all about ir, I've had major probers of the psychiatrist kind already because I was a troublesome teenager.
Love cat from Belfast
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