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Grasshopper
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From: Vermont
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posted September 13, 2002 01:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Grasshopper     Edit/Delete Message
Ok, sensitive, fragile ego, here. (glares at everyone that snickers)

I've seperated from a formal love of mine, and I have this wracking guilt over it. After all, I left, and there wasn't anything particularly wrong with her. So, if there's nothing wrong, I should go back and see if it works, right? Obvioulsy only I can decide if Wendy is good enough for me, or if I'm really looking for Tinkerbell. And obviously in either case, I need to work thru this whole "guilt" thing. But it does make me curious about what the stars say.

Me: 8/8/74 Rutland, VT 12:05pm
Her: 1/8/74 St. Petersburg, RU 5:24am

Thanx for any insights.

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Cat
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posted September 13, 2002 01:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Cat     Edit/Delete Message
Hi Grasshopper
Don't feel bad about posting here
Everyone needs to talk about things sometimes

OK first of all - are both places of birth in Canada? (I gotta check...as I'm in England and so don't know all of the Canadian/USA abbreviations).
Secondly different counrties write the birth dates in a different way numerically....
So your's was easy 8/8 but is hers 1st August or 8th January?
Sue

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Grasshopper
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posted September 13, 2002 01:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Grasshopper     Edit/Delete Message
I was born in Rutland Vt, USA Aug 8.
She was born in St. Petersburg, Russia (well, it was the USSR back then, but anywho) on January 8.

Thanx

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"The reason why birds can fly and man cannot is simply that they have perfect faith; for to have faith is to have wings." ~JM Barrie

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Cat
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posted September 13, 2002 03:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Cat     Edit/Delete Message
Hi Grasshopper
Hmmm. I'm wondering what your reasons for leaving where....and now your second thoughts.....not looked at your chart yet.
If I don't get back to you later (it's 8:30pm here now) then I'll get back to you tomorrow.

Oh...I forgot. I'm assuming 12:05pm - you did mean just after 12 noon...and that Rutland Vt is Rutland Vermont.
Sue

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Grasshopper
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posted September 14, 2002 12:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Grasshopper     Edit/Delete Message
You've made all your assumptions correctly, Cat

I left bc I felt as though I were no longer growing. Obviously, I didn't say, "Hmm, I'm no longer growing." It's been some time before I could simplify the reason. My second thoughts are because I have a hard time finding anytning specifically wrong with my former partner. A strong part of me says that if I can't see a specific behavior that was a problem, then their wasn't a problem and I need to do what I need to do.

In a nutshell ...

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"The reason why birds can fly and man cannot is simply that they have perfect faith; for to have faith is to have wings." ~JM Barrie

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Cat
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posted September 14, 2002 01:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Cat     Edit/Delete Message
Hi Grasshopper

Ok thanks, I'll either be back to you later tonight or in the morning (English time).

Sue

PS: You know you have Venus in Cancer
so you're very affectionate, love family life, your home, children etc. You're very romantic and this placement can also make you dream of the "Great Love".
Now in saying that....you also have Mars in Virgo.....So that will make you very choosy/picky

Oh and interestly enough......
Your natal Venus is in your 9th house which can indicate you could marry a foreigner or find love abroad

Uranus squares your Venus though in your natal chart - very tight @ 1 degree. Now thiswill tend to make you want to look for new sensations in love and you probably get dissatisfied by affairs that quickly turn into purely conventional relationships. You like an adventure so you'll "get bored" if your love life is not that little bit unusual.

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Cat
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posted September 14, 2002 03:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Cat     Edit/Delete Message
Hi Grasshopper
Well, first of all...
I want to say to you that you should not base your decision as to if you should "go back" to your girlfriend on astrology alone.
You really must follow your heart. Astrology is meant as a guide but free will is everything. I hope that makes sense to you

I'm going to list some of the aspects that you have together. Some are good - some are not so good....but that is quite normal in any synastry. All relationships need some challenges or they would be too boring

Ok so here's some things for you to think about......

Your Sun squares her Moon and it's very tight - 0 degrees
This would show that they will definately be some conflicts and arguments.

Your Moon squares her Mercury and again it's tight - 0 degrees
You are probably going to have problems understanding each other on an everyday basis. Your interests will most probably be different and sometimes conflicting - which could result in arguments.

Her Moon conjuncts your Saturn - again pretty tight @ 1 degree
This is a nice aspect. She'll be able to bring some fantasy to you as you may be too serious but you'll give her "grounding" which she'll appreciate. So your difference in character will complement each other. Don't be to strict with her

Your Mercury squares her Mars - again tight @ 1 degree
Again this can cause problems - a lacking in understanding each other and your ideas can be very different - this could lead to arguments.

Your Sun opposes her Jupiter - very tight..0 degrees
This aspect shows that whilst you get on well you first meet, sharing the same ideas and tastes....over the years, your ideas may change and you may not develop in the same way. Which could result in you no longer understanding each other.


Your Moon sextiles her Jupiter - again very tight @ 0 degrees
This is a very nice aspect! It shows that you go very well together and that you can understand and have confidence in each other. It will give you the ability to develop side-by-side in the same way, and will have many joint projects. It's a nice aspect for a happy family, where your children can grow up in a very happy atmosphere.

Your Mars squares her Neptune - again very tight @ 0 degrees
This is a tough aspect. It can indicate, lies, aggression, and even violence You could each try to destroy the other with the "weapons" at their disposal, strength against lying.

Her Sun sextiles your Jupiter - again tight @ 1 degree
As a couple people will really like to be with you. You're very charming, agreeable and you both know how to entertain your friends in a generous and warm way. As a couple, you go very well together and should love each other in a discrete and sincere way.

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Cat
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posted September 14, 2002 03:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Cat     Edit/Delete Message
Hi Grasshopper

This is part two.....
With a side message to Mercury!!!
OK Mercury - well we all know you've just gone retrograde and you're causing problems already
I have tried to post this full message about 6 times

Anyway....aside from my rant at Mercury...lol
Here's the rest of it Grasshopper....

Her Mercury sextiles your Jupiter - again very tight @ 0 degrees.
This is a great aspect. It shows that you are an ideal couple, very prosperous, happy, have a good intellectual understanding, great confidence in each other, and a successful family life.

Her Moon trines your Jupiter @ 4 degrees
Nice aspect. It shows you go well together, understand and have confidence in each other. You can have a happy family, where your children will grow up in a very nice atmosphere.

Mars trine Mars @ 2 degrees
Nice aspect You will desire each other and satisfy each other's sexual needs. So as neither of you will be frustrated - you should develop in a pleasant atmosphere. You could do great things together.

Your Mercury sextiles her Pluto - tight @ 0 degrees
Nice aspect - you should get on very well.

Your Mercury trines her Neptune @ 2 degrees
You should have a good spiritual understanding.

Sue

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