posted October 15, 2002 05:41 PM         

I am in a changing phase of my life with a desire to create more in my working life and open to a new relationship.

I have had a connection with a man for over two years, but haven't met in person.(friend of a friend, we are aware of each other.

I am attracted to his work and strongly to him! hence my confusion as to whether this joining will be work, romance or both.

My birth details:

14 March 1970, Horsham UK, 08.05am

His
29 April 1970, Brighton UK, time unknown

posted October 16, 2002 05:28 PM         

when you write "open to a new relationship," what does this mean? would you mind providing more context?

i just ask because i have this funny feeling that may be you are still in a relationship with someone else (may be not intensely, just something is there) but are considering other possibilities.

posted October 16, 2002 06:35 PM         

I have been out of relationship with my last partner for some time and feel at peace with this.

posted October 17, 2002 06:42 PM         

I am new to this site, so a little unsure of howadvice and help is offered

posted October 25, 2002 04:06 AM         

Wow, a Pisces and a Taurus! There is always something very karmic or fated about this pairing. It can be sweet! Have you read Linda Goodman's Love Signs or Sun Signs? Those are great for info!

posted November 04, 2002 11:25 PM         

yes, there are definitely karmic connections, and you are drawn together most likely because you both compliment each other's personalities, or discover to have many similarities.

is this someone from work? just curious. the synastry shows that this is a possibility.

there are a few warning signs that one needs to be aware of.

let me know if you are still curious, and i will type them out.

posted November 05, 2002 02:46 PM         

I have now met this man, and our meeting was work related! I used to work in the design industry, but gave up working for big companies a few years ago and have been undecided as to whether to return to this field.
He is successfull and into the same type of work as me, we chatted about my ideas.

However, after meeting I have realised I don't want to go back into this area, only perhaps in the future working with the right person and the right projects. Creative partnership is important to me.

This man has been a mirror for me for a while, and when we met, I just felt I had met my equal. It was so easeful and I was so myself, something I have fond difficult around men. Meeting this man, really helped me let go of my previous career drive, it's not what I want. He does it so well!

This is such a relief and enabled me to feel true to myself, open hearted and more of a woman I suppose. It's all so weird, I just feel the energy of someone like this really would allow a relationship that is open and respectful of each others individuality.

I'm going on now, but this is the balance I have sought for a long time, relinquishing the struggle to be all things!! I now feel able to join with another and STILL be the best of who I am and let them shine too!!

Whether he is a potential partner of not, this process has been truely amazing. ALl developing through a string of events over 4 years, that culminating in our meeting.

Thank you for listening, this has been a private journey for me until now.

posted November 05, 2002 10:58 PM         

your chart compared with his shows a mutual sympathy to the arts, as your moons make a trine. your venus in the 12th house sextiles his mars, providing an indication for this attraction (dare i say, secret?). your venus also makes a trine to his neptune, another indication for unspoken affections and appreciation. he has mercury in retrograde in taurus, so i sense he uses art as a means to communicate, and you somehow understand this as your sun makes a sextile aspect to his mercury. Venus is a symbol of the arts, love, romance, etc. etc. a common theme in this comparison.

i asked if this was possibly work related because your venus makes an opposition aspect to his uranus, which sits in your 6th house of work and health. something about him causes a spark in you, albeit in a secret fashion. in addition his mars trines your uranus, hence more sparks.

the only things of worry are 1) the possibility of deception or a belief in illusory, imagined things with no real basis, as his venus in taurus opposes your neptune in retrograde in the 8th house in scorpio. and 2) his sun and saturn conjunct your mars and saturn, which on the one hand can manifest itself in silent power over expression and communcation. on the other hand, it provides a firm understanding of one another, and an ability to endure.

posted November 06, 2002 11:41 AM         

Your words ring very true. The connection here seems to be around, expressing originality through creativity. This is the attraction as well as a sense of sensuality and depth.

There is an element of secrecy and mystery around this attraction which makes me wonder if it will develop into anything. Whether I will break this 'spell', I would like to make things real but have enjoyed the mystery!

I am drawn to his focus and practicality and think that this combined with mutual understanding and appreciation could create a wonderfully expressive combination.

Time will tell. Thank you for your insight, it felt true to what I had been feeling. However much I would like to know one way or another how this friendship will develop, it remains unfolding and I am sure very karmic.

Much love and best wishes to you. Will keep you posted.

posted November 06, 2002 11:55 AM         

thank you very much for your response. i always appreciate feedback, as i am learning in this funny school called earth.

and please do keep me updated. i am curious as to how things manifest.

best of luck and love to you.