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Oxychick
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posted October 25, 2002 04:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Oxychick     Edit/Delete Message

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theFajita
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posted October 25, 2002 08:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for theFajita     Edit/Delete Message
I don't know for sure but I am like you and see he is leo and just want to encourage you to let him in your life, if you are sure that is safe. I let a Leo go and am glad for the ones in my life!

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Oxychick
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posted October 25, 2002 08:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Oxychick     Edit/Delete Message

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posted November 04, 2002 11:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aphrodite     Edit/Delete Message
for once i need to say this outloud . . . you gemini types get me confused!!!

first, you say cancer phoey! then there is a whole long string about this frustration . . . and you just posted communication with that creature today!!!

okay, just had to get that off my chest. this post must be the other half of you talking. hehe

so, are you still curious?

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Oxychick
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posted November 05, 2002 12:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Oxychick     Edit/Delete Message

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posted November 05, 2002 09:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aphrodite     Edit/Delete Message
i see oxychick.

well, then it is only fair that i ask in return you tell me everything there is to know about gemini. i mean everything . . .

tall order?

just the truth.

will get back to you soon.

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posted November 06, 2002 11:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aphrodite     Edit/Delete Message
hi oxychick,

was there some sort of deception involved? i ask because his neptune is sitting on your descendant and squares your saturn and north node in the 4th house. also, his mars sits on your ascendant squaring your saturn . . . extremely heated discussions?

there are some aspects that show energies of a strong bond, albeit challenging. i suspect there are power struggles. but i can sense you two feel a sense of fated ness or other. just something you two feel.

i really can't tell you whether or not you should board a plane and visit. that's up to you, and i think you know something about this relationship . . . but are not ready to admit to yourself . . .

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Oxychick
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posted November 07, 2002 12:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Oxychick     Edit/Delete Message

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posted November 07, 2002 10:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aphrodite     Edit/Delete Message
oxychick . . .

here are my first questions:

what do geminis do when they are scared?

what makes them feel insecure?

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Oxychick
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posted November 08, 2002 06:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Oxychick     Edit/Delete Message
Oh boy...

First, remember, I am such an amateur when it comes to Astrology, and I only know how I THINK my Gemini Asc. influences me. I'm sure that others, including those with more pronounced aspects to Gemini in their charts, would be better able to answer these questions, but you asked me and I'll try to answer as best I can.

These questions remind me of an ex of mine, a Gemini. I try to think of our similarities re: weaknesses, etc. I think that for air signs it's just harder to show emotions. So when I actually try hard enough, and when he tried hard enough, it's a big deal. (he had an extremely rough surface as "the tough guy" and I've always had problems acting out lovey-dovey emotions) So imagine someone who lives inside his/her head all the time, who finally tries to turn a little of it outward, and the person on the other end isn't receptive at all. Basically, we broke up when he told me I was "too unemotional"-apparently, he had in some way been trying to establish a real, intimate relationship with me and I never noticed. I just see Geminis as big, playful kids. So if you hurt one, it's like hurting a child. And yet, Geminis have no problem cutting ties and walking away, at least on the surface. It's almost like a door shutting closed. I'm sure other aspects come into play here-for instance, I have a Leo moon, and I instantly feel jabs at my pride (but after my first few hasty movements, I am able to cut the ties and just walk away).
The Geminis I knew also talked a lot, A LOT, when something was bothering them, without saying it. I'm seeing this more clearly in hindsight right now. But I do it too. If I feel like I've been hurt somehow, I usually talk about the situation in an unemotional manner. But I'll talk a lot about it.

I've never known a truly insecure Gemini. When they're scared, I think they just remove themselves from the situation. But I'm really racking my brain and can't think of one Gemini who ever showed an insecurity. And I don;t know if it's that they're necessarily confident, but that they're just so removed from things that they are hardly ever bothered. I keep thinking of the chapter on Gemini-Aquarius in Love SIgns where Linda mentions the story of a boy who kept drawing a picture of a boa constrictor who swallowed an elephant. And throughout his life, people constantly mistake it for a picture of a hat. Then finally, someone comes along and realizes, on his own, that it;s a picture of a boa constrictor who swallowed an elephant. (This is in the Gemini Man-Aquarius WOman section, I think) So, no matter how many times people misunderstood the boy with the drawing, he kept drawing it ANYWAY. Do you see where I'm going with this? Am I making sense?

Also, I think it's fairly common for Geminis to have a number of people from their pasts with whom they no longer speak (it's the cutting of the ties, or burning of bridges if you will).

Hope I amswered your questions. And I hope I made sense.

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posted November 08, 2002 10:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aphrodite     Edit/Delete Message
hi oxychick,

thanks . . .

in sum on your answers . . .

1) geminis talk a lot when they're scared.

2) you have yet to meet a gemini with an "obvious" insecurity . . . right?

thanks!

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raj_105_2001
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posted November 08, 2002 10:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for raj_105_2001     Edit/Delete Message
Gemini is a multifaceted and complex sign, and only Aquarius can comprehend it (Even an Eagle cannot - Read Gemini-Scorpio Love Signs).

Magica is a Gemini and I love her precisely because of it.

Oxychick, I see that neither you nor him is a Gemini, then why does this discussion about Geminis pop up I don't know. You can gather a lot about Gemini in Gemini-Gemini Love Signs.

Years ago, one of my friends asked me what is the best sign of the zodiac. I avoided answering it. Gemini is the best, from a variety of causes.

As for your situation, my recommendation is to go for him. The air in you is just polluted. Wait for it to clear.

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posted November 08, 2002 10:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aphrodite     Edit/Delete Message
well i can say the same to you raj, why do you pop up with unloving criticisms all over the place? particularly on a linda goodman website for that matter, since she was adamantly vocal in that approaching situations with love is one of the most important ways we can unite.

not everyone thinks in the linear taurean fashion you do raj, one would think your geminian magica has already demonstrated this to you.

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raj_105_2001
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posted November 09, 2002 11:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for raj_105_2001     Edit/Delete Message
You are mis-taken there. I don't think linearly.

well i can say the same to you aphrodite, why do you pop up with unloving criticisms particularly on a linda goodman website for that matter, since she was adamantly vocal in that approaching situations with love is one of the most important ways we can unite.

I wasn't the one criticising.

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posted November 09, 2002 04:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aphrodite     Edit/Delete Message
raj,

actions and words speak for themselves.

i rest my case.

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posted November 11, 2002 02:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aphrodite     Edit/Delete Message
oxychick,

i will get back to you tomorrow.

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Oxychick
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posted November 11, 2002 11:18 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Oxychick     Edit/Delete Message
No problemo, Aphrodite.


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posted November 11, 2002 11:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aphrodite     Edit/Delete Message
hi oxychick,

"What is the significance of a Grand Trine?"

a natural, and eased harmony achieved with relatively little effort.

"Would my Asc. help to form one with my Pluto and Sun or Mercury or Mars?"

i personally do not use angles, except the vertex, in the formation of a grand trine. it is traditionally used for planets and asteroids. however, in your inquiry, yes, pluto, mars and the ascendant would make for a very tight grand trine. this suggests that your approach to the world is intense, aggressive, driving, and possibly volatile at times.

"how did you see that this Leo and I feel a sort of "fatedness"?"

one factor i saw is the vertex. the vertex is a senstive angle in the chart, and has been traditionally interpreted as a fated aspect linking certain events in life. between a parent and a child, a lot of times either person's moon will be conjunct the vertex. in a relationship, depending on where the vertex is situated and what aspects it makes, these factors may indicate how a fated feeling undercurrent is at work.

in this case, his uranus conjuncts your vertex in the 5th house of romance, hobbies, and creativity. something unconventional, spontaneous, or eccentric may exist in your relationship with him. it may even be a progressive philosophy about romance that you two share.

his north node (another karmic angle) in libra conjuncts your pluto in the 5th house as well. your exuberance and energy has helped him on his path in this life.

your sun, mercury and mars on your MC sit in direct opposition to his saturn, which sits on your IC. i suspect strong bonds, but a lot of oppositions, cold criticisms, and aggression has occurred between you two. these aspects considering where they are located suggests that things are not always happy at home.

also, his neptune in retrograde sits directly on your descendant.

"And yes, we have VERY heated discussions (is that because of his Leo sun and my Leo moon? Or our opposite sun signs?)"

it is due to a variety of factors, some of which i have already named above.

"is the situation favorable?"

i really can't help you with that question. i can only help forecast and provide myself as a mirror reflecting what has happened between the two of you. i'm certain you'll one day know the answer from within.

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posted November 15, 2002 11:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Carlo     Edit/Delete Message

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