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laraina
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posted October 31, 2002 06:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for laraina     Edit/Delete Message

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laraina
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posted October 31, 2002 08:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for laraina     Edit/Delete Message

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Aphrodite
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posted November 04, 2002 11:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aphrodite     Edit/Delete Message
hi laraina,

so happy to see you back

how long have you been together with this person? in which phase, if you don't mind me asking?

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posted November 11, 2002 01:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aphrodite     Edit/Delete Message
hi laraina,

i know you said exciting phase, but i just wanted to know more context, if you are willing to share.

still waiting for you.

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Carlo
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posted November 15, 2002 11:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Carlo     Edit/Delete Message

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laraina
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posted November 16, 2002 04:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for laraina     Edit/Delete Message

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posted November 19, 2002 10:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aphrodite     Edit/Delete Message
hi laraina,

"I still don't know why we are drawn together or if it has staying power."

ah well, the first part of your question--the answer is---that's the mystery of love

the second part of the question---staying power is what a couple decides to make of it. we all have energies and they vibrate to different levels in each of us. the staying power, in my opinion, is ultimately decided between two people and how much effort they are willing to put in.

synastry wise, there are challenging aspects. those cannot be denied---but if you desire it to be, you both need to work on them to achieve balance. this relationship requires work and will not necessarily start out stable and naturally easy. particularly when it comes to affairs of the *real inner you* shared between both parties. sometimes it has to do with communication problems, emotional misunderstandings, and quite frankly arrogance too. you won't be able to hide your inner you for too long with this man. he is probably intensely curious about it and whatever you do---don't lie.

"If we do have the conjunction between sun and moon."

yes, they do make make this aspect.

best wishes.

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laraina
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posted November 23, 2002 03:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for laraina     Edit/Delete Message
Aphrodite,
Thank you for your reply. That is good advice,I suppose,not to lie .So the aspects seem to say that basically we will have a hard time being honest and open with one another?
Well Thankyou for taking a look.
And I hope that you have a good break.

Take care,
laraina

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Carlo
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posted November 24, 2002 09:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Carlo     Edit/Delete Message
Wow...MSN actually offers free synastry (!)

http://astrology.msn.com/love/comppeople/

see it? Romantic Compatibility, Take the Test

who knew?

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laraina
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posted November 24, 2002 11:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for laraina     Edit/Delete Message
Thanks Carlo,
Gee! That's really interesting. Thanks so much for the serious reply.

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Randall
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posted November 25, 2002 12:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message
Laraina, Astrology gives us the insight to make things better by knowing why we act as we do, helping to avoid many conflicts if we truly listen to our charts...and Hearts.

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"Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark

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laraina
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posted November 26, 2002 02:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for laraina     Edit/Delete Message
Randall,
I love astrology and that is why I have come to this site,in hopes of bettering my knowledge, And opening myself up to other peoples experiences. I try to look at as many charts as I can to gain more knowledge,and I assumed that this was a safe place to ask questions. Unfortunately, I did not feel that with'Carlo' s response.
And I do not feel as though that person is very positive if anything that person seems to be a 'tad more'on the negative side.
I thought that this was a safe place to come to be open and honest ,and I am saddened that there seems to be someone who's intentions are not for the best or seems that judgement is okay. That is all
and I wish you all the best
laraina


"pretention is better left to the skeptics"

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Randall
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posted November 26, 2002 05:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message
Laraina, it's not easy balancing freedom of expression and Love and Light. It's a tough job, but I try to do so. Carlo can be a bit abrasive at times, and sometimes he does come very close to crossing the line. I would hope that you would continue to feel safe here and that anyone who can't say something nice would avoid saying anything at all.

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Foxxy
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posted November 29, 2002 11:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Foxxy     Edit/Delete Message
Hi Laraina!!

And Carlo, Where exactly is the synastry thing there? I seen a glib sorta 'romance' test, and I followed a few other links they give but I could prolly get as much outta my sun scope in Cosmo . .

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Carlo
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posted November 30, 2002 11:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Carlo     Edit/Delete Message
??? what is so "abrasive"? I was really surprised that MSN had a synastry test! maybe it is not some long involved one, and maybe the person who started the thread may not find it of much help, yet it's a start and I thought that was pretty cool that they even have it! what the hell? I think laraina was just a bit too sensitive here. I was just saying I think that it's great news when MSN actually will have a little synastry thing on their front page! even if it is as basic as just sun sign compatability, at least it is showing that astrology continues to be popular, and popular enough to have a synastry thing on the front page of MSN, and that is great news! and I had *just* seen it, and I was all excited, and so I mentioned it on this thread. Why do I even have to defend what I said?

Laraina, you took offense over NOTHING. I'll say to you what Bill Cosby says to his wife when he cannot figure out what the hell he even did:

"Laraina, I don't know what I did, but I apologize."

And it IS a good thing that MSN has synastry right on the front page, whether any of you see that and agree or not

Love,
Carlo

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