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Topic: How do you deal with the lonely feeling?
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Sagaquari
Knowflake Posts: 85
From: Rochester, New York USA
Registered: Oct 2002
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posted November 05, 2002 09:35 PM
 
What do you do when you feel lonely?
When friends just don't seem to be what you need?
When you need someone to hold you and there isn't anyone there?
What makes you feel better? How do you deal with it?I cry and write poetry.  IP: Logged |
StarLover33
Moderator Posts: 1987
From: King Arthur's Camelot
Registered: Jun 2002
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posted November 06, 2002 03:15 PM
I think and think until it stops hurting!   IP: Logged |
pidaua
Knowflake Posts: 1820
From: Annapolis, Maryland USA
Registered: May 2002
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posted November 06, 2002 08:58 PM
Sometimes I let myself cry it out. Then I take I burn some sage, light some candles and take a bubble bath. I look at my little buddies, Phoebe and Fletcher, my goofy cats, and realize that they love more than anything and I love them just as much. I think, being alone or being lonely isn't so bad, even though it feels like my heart is breaking, because I know that God still loves me and will always be there for me, even when I am too busy for him. I also tell myself, no matter what I have gone through today, it will never be as bad as what my Apache ancestors went through when almost everything was taken away. I hope things are okay Sagaquari. You sound a bit down.
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"Loyalty to petrified opinion never yet broke a chain or freed a human soul in this world--and never will." Mark Twain IP: Logged |
StarLover33
Moderator Posts: 1987
From: King Arthur's Camelot
Registered: Jun 2002
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posted November 06, 2002 09:33 PM
I had a really bad day at school and today I was nearly crying but then when I started playing some chess and reading posts on the site, I felt a lot better. High school is a bummer! IP: Logged |
Sher bear
Knowflake Posts: 161
From: Canada
Registered: Nov 2002
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posted November 07, 2002 12:34 AM
I've been quit sad and lonley latley, but honestly, since discovering this site late Saturday night, my heart is growing warmer knowing that there are truly wonderful people who care.....hang in there sweetie...Sher bear...XoXoXoIP: Logged |
VenusWarriorPrincess
Knowflake Posts: 303
From: Beach
Registered: Jul 2002
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posted November 09, 2002 08:00 PM
Hey Sweetpea!  Lonely?
With all these people around in your house, how could you POSSIBLY be lonely? 
Perhaps we need to PHYSICALLY come over there to create a big mess and do some serious damage. Hmmm... WHICH is better?
Any comedy clubs in your area? If so, invite a fun friend and go out. Laugh and be with other people. If this doesn't work, it is due to conflicts in your inner world. Your emotions will draw attention to where you need it the most. In that case, nothing will work for you outside of dealing with your inner sanctuary, because your situation is deeper than what's on the surface. If this holds true for you, just know that you are in a transitional state right now. This state is essential for your growth and understanding of yourself and where you need to make necessary changes. It is your time of reflection and physical/mental recuperation. The body is adjusting to a new program. Let it do it's thing. It will help replenish all that you've lost.
You are making some substantial decisions right now which will later enrich your life beautiful Sag girl. 
You are setting up your future relations by doing this. This can't be so bad.
I say, let's have another toast to GOOD TIMES ahead!  That's right, KNOW that they are coming and that this is just a passing phase of more growth and the associated growing pains!  IP: Logged |
Sagaquari
Knowflake Posts: 85
From: Rochester, New York USA
Registered: Oct 2002
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posted November 09, 2002 10:00 PM
VenusWarriorPrincess- I hope you know how wonderful you are! You are saying exactly what I need to hear!  And I make enough of my own mess!  IP: Logged |
VenusWarriorPrincess
Knowflake Posts: 303
From: Beach
Registered: Jul 2002
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posted November 10, 2002 02:47 AM
Miss Sag,  IP: Logged |
rainarcher
Knowflake Posts: 23
From: Brussels
Registered: May 2002
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posted November 10, 2002 08:29 AM
hi sagaquari i just wanted to give you a big hug.And remember we are all connected and part of the one Mind = LOVE !!!!! and light, Paz IP: Logged |
Sagaquari
Knowflake Posts: 85
From: Rochester, New York USA
Registered: Oct 2002
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posted November 10, 2002 09:42 AM
 Thanks for the hug! I never, never, never turn down a hug! Unless the person has critters crawling on them!  IP: Logged |
VenusWarriorPrincess
Knowflake Posts: 303
From: Beach
Registered: Jul 2002
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posted November 10, 2002 02:09 PM
Feeling better today Sag girl?More HUGS for you... (squeeze) IP: Logged |
Carlo
Knowflake Posts: 1449
From: El Lay, the Reel World
Registered: Nov 2000
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posted November 15, 2002 11:06 AM
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