posted November 18, 2002 04:05 PM         

According to the charts, how compatible are we?

Me: 8/25/64
Sun: Virgo
Moon: Aries
Rising: Capricorn
Mercury: Virgo
Venus: Cancer
Mars: Cancer
Jupiter: Taurus
Saturn: Pisces
Uranus: Virgo
Neptune: Scorpio
Pluto: Virgo
True Node: Gemini
Chiron: Pisces

Him: 10/11/69
Sun: Libra
Moon: Libra
Rising: Unk
Mercury: Libra
Venus: Virgo
Mars: Capricorn
Jupiter: Libra
Saturn: Taurus
Uranus: Libra
Neptune: Scorpio
Pluto: Virgo
True Node: Pisces (What is this?)
Chiron: Aries (What is this?)

posted November 19, 2002 10:41 AM         

since you are in the learning stages of astrology, might i suggest for you to learn about your charts? this way, you derive the greatest benefit of examining things through your own lense and understanding of the situation---which i think is the most productive use of inquiry when one is seriously interested in more.

a great primer that i started out with is, "The Only Astrology Book You'll Ever Need," by Joanna Woolfolk.

best.

posted November 19, 2002 11:31 AM         

first off, you didn't ask a question

second, i need to have your birthdates, birth times, and birth cities in order to look up your charts.

third, i am offering my time and energy to read your posts and charts "anything more" sounds discounting, please don't do that.

thank you.

best.

posted November 20, 2002 10:42 AM         

i looked at both your charts and the synastry. i couldn't help but feel that you are sensing something is missing? i just sense it in you for some reason with this man.

may be i am wrong.

anyhow, i can see in your chart you are feeling quite anxious these days about marriage, partnerships, romance, children . . . the basic nesting instincts. this is because transiting saturn is sitting on your north node in the 5th house of romance, and the planet is also on the cusp of the 6th house. saturn will soon be approaching your venus in the 6th house as well, intensifying this hankering need you may have. however, if you have already fulfilled this need in you---there would be no need for extra effort. but i suppose saturn will be reminding you again of some purpose you have not fulfilled.

best.

posted November 20, 2002 11:53 AM         

You said, "I looked at both your charts and the synastry. I couldn't help but feel that you are sensing something is missing? I just sense it in you for some reason with this man."

Is is only me that senses something is missing or does he too think something is missing? I think it's me. What is missing is that we live 250 miles away from each other. I basically see him on the holidays and some occasional weekends. I would like to see him more than that (waiting on him). He tells me to slow down and things will work out. He tells me to remember to let him pursue me and not vice versa. He tells me to be patient and things will work out. He tells me I can have what I want if I just let him take control of the situation... This is where the anxiety comes from. If I do what he asks will he do what he says. I know I have to trust and have faith, but you are right about the marriage, romance, partnership, etc. (you knew that). We are good together and I don't want to scare him. So what do I do. Can I win (I know I can)? Virgo's love a challenge, but my patience is short. Help me before I go crazy. I see him again in seven days, I'm trying to keep it together until then.

Normally I wouldn't care so much, but he's special in many ways and I'll leave it at that.

posted November 20, 2002 01:09 PM         

"We are good together and I don't want to scare him. So what do I do."

in my kindest suggestion to you, it would be really good for you to learn and understand yourself, the real you. to learn the "whys" of certain things about yourself. why you feel you can't wait, why you feel so impatient . . . why, may be because you feel so unsure to the point of insecurity . . . and then after you delve deeply into the you of you, you can find and develop what you need to regain balance and the composure that only you can give to yourself. no one can give you emotional security and well-being, only you.

let me ask you this hypothetically, if he were to one day, change his mind with no explanation, what will you do?

posted November 20, 2002 04:38 PM         

I'm still working on the whys. I just think it's hard to DEVELOP a relationship when you are so far apart most of the time. I've heard the saying absence makes the heart grow fonder... He's more loving each time I visit so I always look forward to that.

But I'm lost with your question "if he were to one day change his mind with no explanation". Change his mind about what? Not to pursue? Not to see me? Not to express interest??? Not to try?

Those my be the things I'm preparing myself for with the anxiety. I guess if I'm waiting for the other shoe to drop, when it does I won't be to suprised.