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Topic: apologize to raj
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quiksilver Knowflake Posts: 61 From: new jersey, usa Registered: Nov 2001
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posted December 21, 2002 11:20 PM
i have just revisited this site after some time and noticed a posting from carlo (no idea who he is) which i found to be highly displeasing and offensive....in response to raj's feelings regarding "magica" (not sure who this is either, but no matter), carlo replied "dude, get over her. she's not that good in bed. trust me..." or something to this effect. first off, since when does this become ANYONE's business, and since when is this an EVOLVED individual's means of judging a person? i find it sickening and disgusting. although i know none of the circumstances , i know enough to realize that this response comes from one who is too much of this realm and one who truly is not enlightened. you are a disgrace to this site and my sympathies to raj for having to endure such arrogance! is there anyone who agrees with me on this point? (not that it will influence me one way or the other). i would think that women in particular would be incensed by such an ignorant statement and felt compelled to address this issue.... IP: Logged |
theFajita Knowflake Posts: 2007 From: Boca Raton, FL USA Registered: Sep 2002
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posted December 22, 2002 05:23 AM
I can say that it see,s to me that i am not in the posisitoin to right , but in Carlos defecncse he he not mean!------------------ Food is the only art that nourishes! IP: Logged |
theFajita Knowflake Posts: 2007 From: Boca Raton, FL USA Registered: Sep 2002
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posted December 22, 2002 05:23 AM
I can say that it see,s to me that i am not in the posisitoin to right , but in Carlos defecncse he he not mean!------------------ Food is the only art that nourishes! IP: Logged |
theFajita Knowflake Posts: 2007 From: Boca Raton, FL USA Registered: Sep 2002
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posted December 22, 2002 05:24 AM
sorry im the moneing I;ll fix that oK------------------ Food is the only art that nourishes! IP: Logged |
quiksilver Knowflake Posts: 61 From: new jersey, usa Registered: Nov 2001
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posted December 22, 2002 10:35 AM
fajita,i was unable to decipher your entire posting, however, i did make out your indication that carlo is not "mean". this may or may not be the case but has nothing to do with my point. my point is that this way of thinking is terribly antiquated. to make this kind of a statement is evidence of a mind that seems not to be considering virtue above physical pleasure and that is what i have a problem with.... IP: Logged |
Alena Knowflake Posts: 556 From: Registered: Oct 2002
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posted December 22, 2002 11:20 AM
There's alot of joking around on this forum. Did you ever stop to think he may have been kidding?IP: Logged |
Oxychick Moderator Posts: 2486 From: neither here nor there Registered: Jul 2002
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posted December 22, 2002 03:48 PM
If that's joking, it's the kind of statement that borders on being hurtful and insulting. I'm not saying anyone is mean, but Quicksilver is right in that that statement can very easily be taken the wrong way. We all have a right to communicate freely here, but we have to keep in mind that conveying our intentions through written posts can be somewhat limiting. What may not sound hurtful to me may indeed hurt someone else. We just have to be conscious of how we express our ideas. ------------------ "What lies behind us and lies before us are small matters compared to what lies within us." -Ralph Waldo Emerson IP: Logged |
theFajita Knowflake Posts: 2007 From: Boca Raton, FL USA Registered: Sep 2002
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posted December 22, 2002 05:50 PM
Whoa- I wrote that. Earth to fajita, sorry!------------------ Food is the only art that nourishes! IP: Logged |
Jaqueline Knowflake Posts: 1088 From: Rio de Janeiro , Brazil Registered: Oct 2002
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posted December 22, 2002 05:57 PM
Fajita dear...are you alright ? Love Jakie IP: Logged |
theFajita Knowflake Posts: 2007 From: Boca Raton, FL USA Registered: Sep 2002
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posted December 22, 2002 06:43 PM
Thanks Jakie, I am ok now. partied a little last night, I had no business coming on linda-land, I didn't even know I had written those jumbled words till today. But thanks for your concern Danita------------------ Food is the only art that nourishes! IP: Logged |
Jaqueline Knowflake Posts: 1088 From: Rio de Janeiro , Brazil Registered: Oct 2002
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posted December 22, 2002 06:51 PM
Thanks God Danita I know exactly what you are talking about Love Jakie IP: Logged |
theFajita Knowflake Posts: 2007 From: Boca Raton, FL USA Registered: Sep 2002
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posted December 22, 2002 10:48 PM
Thanks Jakie, love you!------------------ Food is the only art that nourishes! IP: Logged |
Carlo Knowflake Posts: 1449 From: El Lay, the Reel World Registered: Nov 2000
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posted December 23, 2002 02:37 PM
I was kidding around pal, trying to get the kid to loosen up and basically get real over a girl he is asking us all to astrologically tell him when he will marry a girl who he has only spoken to once! My feeling - and since Lindaland is like a family, I would not pull punches with my own brother - is let's not get too ahead of ourselves, I mean really! When will I marry her he asks, in all seriousness, and I think, he must be joking. So I tried to loosen him up, see if he was kidding. It would be like me telling you that I saw your girlfriend the other day...well, just the top of her head. You could cry and kick and scream, yet if I was saying it in reference or response to something specific, I would expect you to say something back or ignore me. The kid never came up with any sensible answer to why he thinks he actually has a snowball's chance in hell of marrying a girl who he has spoken to once (at the time, and I assume, still just the once). In other words, it was a reality slap, and we all need them, even you, since you live in New Jersey. Doh! Just kidding I went to college in NY, so I get to take the free shot lol So you're offended, okay. Raj, I apologize, if you're listening. I didn't mean to insult you of this girl, I just meant to say what I said before: in my opinion, you have no chance marrying a girl you only spoke to once, and wasting time writing two or three lines to her each day here, when you should be taking her out, despite all the "forces" who would keep you apart. Please. This is the 21st century, people, get a life. Call her up, or give it up, I say, in all caps, actually. You have some different, or perhaps more mature advice, New Jersey?...then kick it. Otherwise, I don't and won't speak about it anymore...let the boy have his sweet dreams Love, Carlo IP: Logged |
quiksilver Knowflake Posts: 61 From: new jersey, usa Registered: Nov 2001
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posted December 25, 2002 01:53 PM
Hey Carlo,Actually I do agree with you. I gotta admit. Sometimes (and I know from firsthand experience) these Taurus creatures (and I believe Raj is a Taurus, correct?)are so one track minded and totally blinded that they abandon all the common sense that they are so noted for! I can't for the life of me understand how or why Raj is so enthralled with Magica. She never seems to reply or even acknowledge his existence. Now maybe there are circumstances that I am unaware of, in all fairness. Even so, one cannot claim to "love" another while hardly knowing a thing about them (except in the universal sense of love, of course). It seems that Raj has been captivated by an illusion. In any case, I believe that there should be a balance to all things in this world. Love is no exception. Krishnamurti (a very wise man though I do have trouble with some of his beliefs) has counceled in several of his books that it is not "love" if there is a sense of "clinging", or of pushing too hard. Love should not be a struggle. It just "is", even through the darkest of circumstances. One cannot and SHOULD not force these things. To do so is indicative of some "soul work" that needs to be dealt with. In closing, Carlo -- sorry for snapping at you like that. I am a Pisces and it was out of character; except that I have Leo rising. That troublesome Leo!!! And to Raj, you stubborn Taurus... how about trying to let go a bit and let destiny take it's course? You don't seem to be getting the desired results with your current "modus operandi". Why not try a new approach? I know, I know. Change is frightening. But it's the stuff that life is made of. And that's pretty exciting, don't you think? I'd love to hear your thoughts on this!!! IP: Logged |
Carlo Knowflake Posts: 1449 From: El Lay, the Reel World Registered: Nov 2000
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posted December 27, 2002 12:38 PM
and that's really all I was saying. The "raj-is-Taurus" theory makes it even more likely, as you said I am looking forward to seeing Jersey Girl, do you know anything about it, other than it stars J. Lo and her new man (both Leos)? I love Kevin Smith flicks, I still have to see that one about Slappy the clown, I think it was straight-to-DVD? Yeah, take the girl out, who cares what forces oppose you. Come strapped and annihilate all haters or just forgive them, Carlo, the better Piscean way...oops, ya'll shoudn'ta heard that BB, Carlo IP: Logged |
quiksilver Knowflake Posts: 61 From: new jersey, usa Registered: Nov 2001
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posted December 27, 2002 02:32 PM
Hey Carlo Glad that all is forgiven and no hard feelings About Jersey Girl, not sure about it actually! Hmmm.... I'll have to find out. And yes, Ben and JLo both being Leos-- I wonder if that will help or hinder them? We'll see!!!! You know what I think? I think Raj WANTS us to spend all this time arguing over what is none of our business anyway. Well, controversy over. From now on, I say we just IGNORE it all! There are much more enlightening things to think about. ciao! IP: Logged |
Carlo Knowflake Posts: 1449 From: El Lay, the Reel World Registered: Nov 2000
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posted December 29, 2002 10:33 AM
well, Tom C. and Nicole K. both have Venus in Leo, I think a couple degrees apart, and look what happened (tho I think it was more because of a Scientologist/Catholic difference in the long run). BB Thorton is a Leo and Angelina's Mars is 15° Leo, exactly conjunct my Venus. I always tell people that she and I would make a good pair I've been playing the Tombraider on my Playstation for so long I would have to leave my wife if A.J. ever came for me lol She has a huge stellium in Aries too. Too much Air/Fire for me I think maybe not, she has Venus in Cancer conjunct my Jupiter, so who knows IP: Logged |
theFajita Knowflake Posts: 2007 From: Boca Raton, FL USA Registered: Sep 2002
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posted December 29, 2002 05:04 PM
I don't know Carlo I have a funny feeling if AJ came along you would deal just fine with her ------------------ Food is the only art that nourishes! IP: Logged |
Carlo Knowflake Posts: 1449 From: El Lay, the Reel World Registered: Nov 2000
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posted December 30, 2002 02:29 AM
omg, I don't now what to do, there is a message on my machine, she called!!!IP: Logged |
theFajita Knowflake Posts: 2007 From: Boca Raton, FL USA Registered: Sep 2002
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posted December 30, 2002 02:49 AM
I wouldn't be surprised if one day it does happen.. ------------------ Food is the only art that nourishes! IP: Logged | |