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LambWithAStinger
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From: Cedar Hill, Texas USA
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posted January 16, 2003 02:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LambWithAStinger     Edit/Delete Message
Hello, everyone! As you may be able to tell from my natal info(03-29-1962 at 9:21pm, Little Rock, AR), I'm a walking contradiction of sorts. LOL. I have experienced some difficultly in maintaining intimate relationships, and am wondering if there is anything in my chart at the root of this issue. I am a novice when it comes to interpreting natal charts (actually, I've only read computer generated natal charts for myself, and read a few books to help me gain some insight). The thing is, I met someone recently with whom I immediately felt a strong connection (11-15-1954, birth time unknown, Los Angeles, CA), and am taking my time to get to know. On taking a look at some of our synastric aspects, I noticed that there are a lot of karmic connections. I hope that someone would be willing to take a look at our synastry/composite chart and tell me whether my intuition is on the mark. And while I realize that the strength of a relationship depends upon the ability of the persons involved to exercise their free will, I've always believed that an astrological interpretation of that relationship helps point out any potential positive/negative areas for which to look out. I believe I have a pretty interesting "planetary configuration" (LOL); however, I also think I have a lot going on that takes a great deal of patience and understanding to deal with -- heck, most times I'm my own worst enemy (Sun&Venus in Aries, Cappie Moon, Scorpio Ascendant and a Pisces stellium. Help! Any insight would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.

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Aphrodite
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posted January 17, 2003 12:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aphrodite     Edit/Delete Message
Hello there,

Welcome to the website. If you'd like, I can help you answer 1 question. Let me know whenever you get a chance, as to what it is you'd like specifically looked at.

Cheers,

Aphrodite

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theFajita2
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posted January 18, 2003 03:05 AM           Edit/Delete Message
Lamb with a stinger I am scorpio asc. too.

And I don't think you are neurotic! As my mother says, "everyone is weird/crazy when you get to know them"

See, everyone!
Aphrodite will give you good help!

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LambWithAStinger
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posted January 18, 2003 09:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LambWithAStinger     Edit/Delete Message
Thank you, Aphrodite. The following appear to be the significant(?) aspects in our synastric charts:

My Ascendant conjuncts his Sun and Saturn, and squares his Mars;
My Moon sextiles his Sun and Venus
My Mercury trines his Sun and Venus
My Venus opposes his Neptune, and trines his Pluto;
My Mars trines his Saturn, and squares his Midheaven;
My Jupiter trines his Mercury;
My Uranus sextiles his Neptune, and conjuncts his Pluto
My Neptune conjuncts his Saturn; and
My Midheaven squares his Sun and Venus, and conjuncts his Pluto.

I don't know how to interpret these aspects. They were generated using AstroMart software, and I attempted to understand what they meant by looking them up in LG's Relationship Signs. From what I can gather, they are pretty favorable aspects. Intuition tells me that this is someone brought into my life for the long-term. My question is -- and, hopefully this counts as one question ;-) -- can you briefly summarize what these aspects may or may not mean?

Thank you so much for taking the time to respond.

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LambWithAStinger
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posted January 18, 2003 09:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LambWithAStinger     Edit/Delete Message
See? I told you I loved Fajitas!

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Aphrodite
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posted January 18, 2003 10:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aphrodite     Edit/Delete Message
Hello Lamb,

To tell the truth, I work a lot with my intuition and mind's eye when I look at charts---in addition to the astrology that I've learned over the years. In essence, I won't be much help in interpreting the aspects above without a guidepost of what you'd like for me to look for. Also, I synthesize data and see how whole charts interact with each other in my own work.

Hope this makes things clearer.

Aphrodite

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Aphrodite
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posted January 18, 2003 11:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aphrodite     Edit/Delete Message
Hello Lamb,

I now have both of your data plugged in. It would be great if his birthtime is available. But this is okay, for now.

I think the major area of concern right now since you have both just met, is the possibility of deception. It's in the synastry and composite.

Aphrodite

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LambWithAStinger
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posted January 19, 2003 12:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LambWithAStinger     Edit/Delete Message
Hello, Aphrodite. It's been an thrilling two weeks since I met him. We've seen each other thrice, and we talk daily (usually for several hours). Our first telephone conversation lasted nine hours. (Seriously). I think the shortest we've had has been about 30 minutes. And we talk about EVERYTHING. The funny thing is, there is a compelling attraction -- mental, physical and spiritual, but there has been no action taken. The most intimate thing we've done thus far is hug when parting our ways. I sense that there is great potential in the relationship -- it seems that the foundation of the relationship will be friendship in the truest sense of the word. I also sense that he fears that I may become bored with, and abandon him . . . or that he wants to be sure that I am serious(?) about him before he decides whether or not to pursue anything other than friendship. Then again, perhaps we are only meant to be friends.

I would have to say that I fear being deceived by most men (mostly based on past experiences when I've not paid heed to my intuition, which is fairly strong). I think the lesson being offered to me here is patience (of which I have very little). While my intuition tells me that this may be a lasting and fulfilling relationship, the monkey mind won't allow me to trust what I don't know. I believe we both have very passionate natures, and once committed are very loving persons. However, I also believe that we both are allowing our past to color the present and in some strange way are looking for a guarantee of something which can't be guaranteed. Or maybe we both see the reflection of ourselves in each other and fear the very thing for which we've prayed. Does this make any sense to you? We both fear deception -- real or imagined, so we want to be sure before we invest our time, energy, emotions?

So, I guess my question is, does this relationship appear to have the potential to be a long-lasting, committed relationship without dishonesty or infidelity? (Sorry for the compound sentence). I believe the the concern with deception is just that: a "concern," with both of us hoping that there will not be any deception between us and holding back until we (in our own space and time) know this to be true.

I will try to obtain his birth time, but I haven't quite figured out how to ask him without telling him why I want to know.

I guess you can see that I'm rather long-winded (LOL). I really appreciate your insight.

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Aphrodite
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posted January 19, 2003 04:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aphrodite     Edit/Delete Message
Hello Lamb,

Everything has potential, with the right kind of gentle love, wisdom, and faith to make them grow.

"I've always believed that an astrological interpretation of that relationship helps point out any potential positive/negative areas for which to look out."

Which, I believed to have answered, as it is indicated in the synastry and composite. As long as you are both aware, and sincere with each other with communications, deception will not be a problem. Because then, you will have mastered the lesson the stars indicate.

My best wishes of love and luck to you.

Aphrodite

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LambWithAStinger
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posted January 19, 2003 12:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LambWithAStinger     Edit/Delete Message
Thank you so much, Aphrodite!

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theFajita2
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posted January 21, 2003 09:47 PM           Edit/Delete Message

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