posted February 02, 2003 09:50 PM         

if anyone can help me, i'd be so grateful! we've been together for just over a year and a half, and i'm about 9 weeks pregnant with his child. i'm sort of freaked, because of how intense our relationship is. we fight alot, but we are also SO strongly attracted to one another. it is either MAGICAL and heavenly or nightmarish..

i just need some real direction with this. i am always grasping, but we go around and around in these circles. i can't tell if we're good for eachother or not. ANY ideas or perceptions to help me understand this would be so wonderful!!

me:
february 4th, 1979
5:59 am
saskatoon, sk, can
(i should come up as 8 degrees cap asc. if not, put to 6:59 am)

him:
february 11th, 1978
7:07 pm
swan river, man, can
(should be 7 degrees virgo asc.)

posted February 02, 2003 10:18 PM         

When I look at your chart, it's exactly as you describe--intense, with both soft and challenging aspects. Although you may both be Aquarius, you have squared risings-- you have Sag rising and he has Virgo rising. Fortunately, they are not close to the same degree, or it'd make it even more challenging. Even still, it gives you very different personalities. Another challenge is your Moon squares his Sun/Venus conjunction. You will be emotional about it and he will become aloof and distant, which will make you more emotional, which will make him more aloof, etc. It's a viscious cycle, and only patience, Love, and understanding can break it. On the positive side, your communication is awesome and can talk about anything. So, if you want to develop a strong and stable relationship, watch the transits and know when to give each other space. Right now, he needs a lot of it. If you push him too far, he'll bolt. Uranus is conjuncting his Venus and opposing his Saturn. He has a lot of stress and internal pressure and you know as well as I do that Aquarians keep it all in and then just blow up one day. If he doesn't find a way to release some of that energy, his blow up day will be coming soon. Expect more than one of them. And remember, he has Venus oppose Saturn in his natal chart. He may not feel like he deserves to be so happy during the fun times or may be afraid they won't last. He really needs you to teach him that relationships can be healthy and happy. You need a lot of patience when you have a partner who has that aspect.

Good luck, and let us know if you need anymore help.

posted February 02, 2003 11:01 PM         

my chart usually comes up as sag ascendant, but that's because so many don't realize that sask. doesn't change time zones.

do you think you could take another look?

posted February 02, 2003 11:11 PM         

about my moon squared his sun and venus, yeah.. i know. it's squared my sun, merc and mars too! but i am learning to integrate that. seems this lifetime might be about stabalizing for him, as he has virtually no earth in his chart (just his ascendant and his busy sixth house), so i can see how that's such a challenge for him.

one particular challenge, i think, is our nodes. i am virgo north node (8th house) he is libra north node (2nd house). our south nodes/pastlives are *so* different.. i'm way too sensitive, he's too insensitive alot of the time. also, these are in opposing houses, and are the ruling houses of our respective IC/MCs. we have a lot of weird scorpio/taurus dichotomy energy between us..

oh and our moons.. mine's taurus, his is aries. not a good mix, i don't think!

anyway, that's just the little bit of understanding i've been able to wrap my head around. i'd really like some new perspectives, tho, cuz i feel like we're always struggling. things need to resolve somehow!

posted February 02, 2003 11:59 PM         

hm.. i just know that i've gotten lots of charts that come up as sag ascendant, and lots as cap ascendant. saskatchewan is the only province in canada that doesn't ever change time, and it seems that could be why i come up as sag asc sometimes, cuz some programmer folks don't seem to know that. i'm 98% sure i'm 8 degrees cap rising, as i've read both charts pretty thoroughly. also, my mom is *definately* pisces rising, not aries! we have to put her time ahead one hour too.

so you could try just typing in 6:59 am, or i think 6:10 am in winnipeg manitoba also comes up as 8 degrees cap.

weird purple one

posted February 05, 2003 05:31 PM         

A lantern jaw is a prominent, wide jaw. Brad Pitt and Jennifer Anniston both have lantern jaws.

Could you send me a pix? Send it to Auriel@Linda-Goodman.com . Please don't send it as an attachment. Copy it and paste it right on the message. I don't open anything with an attachment. Sorry, but there's a pathetic Soul out there who is in dire need of attention, so he's emailing everyone viruses and porn. Because of it, I don't want to take any chances with attachments.

posted February 05, 2003 07:06 PM         

i'm laughing and am very confused as to why you want to know if i have a lantern jaw! is that a capricorn ascendant thing? actually, my boyfriend has a lantern jaw, i'd say. why do you ask?

posted February 06, 2003 09:58 AM         

physically i do feel i look like a cross between my taurus moon, and my aquarian sun/merc/mars.

what would the characteristics of sag asc be?

posted February 07, 2003 11:31 PM         

Even if someone has Aries or Sag in them, which will narrow their jaw, they will still have the lantern jaw, if they are Cappy. It may not always be prominent, but it will be there.

To send the pix, you can paste it in the email and send it to me.

Sag is long and lean.

posted February 08, 2003 01:29 AM         

on the inside i'm adventurous.. that could be my venus in sagitarius, tho. but i'm *very* shy until i get to know someone quite well. i also had a childhood typical of that described for cap ascendant. my mom raised me alone, and she was very cold and ignored me. i had to be responsible for myself from early on. the cancer as my descendant suits me too; i can be very clingy and emotional in relationships. probably because that safe, nurturing emotional realm was unavailable to me as a child.

but i definately am not boisterous or overly social, unless i am very comfortable with someone (or drunk) . once i'm comfortable, i'm very chatty, but i think that's all my aquarius in my first house..

what else. hmm, when i was a kid every one thot i was much older than i was.. and now i'm starting to be told i look younger..

also, i've read into sag ascendant, and i don't agree with much of it. can't remember details right now, but my sun, merc and mars in the second house doesn't feel right. neither does moon in the 5th or venus conjunct ascendant. my chart with cap as ascendant really does feel *right* to me.. but i am up to being challenged on that!

anything else you want to know about my personality?

posted February 08, 2003 02:11 AM         

i don't really think i have a lantern jaw (do you?).. i'm curious; what about me looks capricornian?

posted February 08, 2003 01:26 PM         

Even with Cappy rising, your second house is still loaded with your personal planets in Aquarius. You might want to read about them again and meditate on it.

Have a great weekend!