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Topic: jealousy
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jjjax
Knowflake Posts: 285
From: Sydney, Australia
Registered: Jan 2003
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posted February 19, 2003 06:07 PM
 
Hi everyone Last time I asked for advice in this forum it was so wonderful and I got some great advice. Thank you all! Well I’m back with something else that I would like some advice on if anyone has the time  Ok.
Saturday night went out with a group to a Tapanyaki Restraunt in the city (Sydney). For any of you that don’t know of Tapankaki, it is a Japanese restraunt where the chef cooks in front of the group and you have to catch some of the food in, bowls and our mouth. It’s a lot of fun and I highly highly recommend trying it, the food is amazing 2! Anyways... sorry off on a slight tangent there. After going out for a few drinks after dinner my friends girlfriend got really jealous and basically made me feel like **** . A guy had been asking me to dance and I didn’t want to dance and he was starting to bug me, she had sent her boyfriend, my friend over to help me and then got jealous when the guy who was asking me to dance, she believed, thought that we were together. The whole night turned **** , everyone got the ***** and it was terrible. What happened wasn’t my fault directly, but I feel if I hadn’t been there then everyone would have had a great time! It always happens to me, a good night turns bad and it is always due to somebody having a problem with me. For example going out with a friend and her friends haven’t seen me in ages so they give me more attention than her. I am always subjected to these feelings of jealousy and I can’t stand it anymore. It happens so often that I feel as though it is somehow something that I am doing? Anytime I go out and have a good time the night turns out horrible by the end. I’m feeling like I’m just not any good and friendships and maybe I’m just meant to be alone? Oh I don’t know. What I do know is that I really need some advice! Is this all my fault??? Jax
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RubyRedRam
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posted February 19, 2003 09:16 PM
The problem lies with the female and her insecurity in her relationship. Its not your fault. If she was a true friend to you she wouldn't make you feel so uncomfortable. IP: Logged |
Randall
Webmaster Posts: 16464
From: Columbus, GA USA
Registered: Nov 2000
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posted February 20, 2003 01:23 PM
What Ruby said.  ------------------
"Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark IP: Logged |
theFajita3
Moderator Posts: 1404
From: Sunny South Florida, USA
Registered: Feb 2003
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posted February 21, 2003 12:08 AM
Yea trust me, when there is drinking and a jealous person around, there would have been fighting with or without you!
I know b/c I have been that jealous person before. It's rotten for them and they make it rotten for everyone around, and it's pretty absurd too.
Just know you didn't do anything wrong. He should have helped you and who cares what the other person thought. I bet the girl was embarassed when she sobered up. Don't worry Jjjax! Also, why can't they have restaraunts like that here in the States?? ------------------
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