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Topic: A story of two venus's
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glitter
Knowflake Posts: 12
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Registered: Feb 2003
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posted February 22, 2003 05:48 PM
 
Hi, This is my first time posting. I'm a little confused and want to know if I'm heading in the right direction. My boyfriend (9/28/73-9:28am EST) is A Libra with Scorp rising and Libra Moon. I am a Taurus (5/17/71 9:19 am) with Cancer Rising and Aquarius Moon. On many things we are on the same page but many others we certainly are not. According to everything that I've read he's supposed to be the social butterfly and I'm supposed to be the home body but, I think in our case it is reversed. He likes to stay home all the time and I am used to always hanging out with my friends and going places. He doesn't like me to drink or smoke. Things I used to like to do once in a while and makes a big deal if I do. In turn, I get very angry and resentful. If I have been drinking (which I rarely do now) I take out all my boxed up feelings out on him, so he thinks that drinking makes me angry. I have never been like that with anyone in my life. What is it about our charts that makes us but heads like this sometimes? In other ways everything is great, these are just certain instances. Should I be concerned?IP: Logged |
Randall
Webmaster Posts: 16464
From: Columbus, GA USA
Registered: Nov 2000
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posted February 22, 2003 11:12 PM
Welcome to Lindaland!  ------------------
"Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark IP: Logged |
theFajita3
Moderator Posts: 1404
From: Sunny South Florida, USA
Registered: Feb 2003
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posted February 23, 2003 01:25 AM
Hi glitter! I sort of know what you are talking about! My exboyfriend was very controlling and if I would just bring up going out with a friend it would start so much crap and the answer was always no. And when I would drink, since that lowers inhibitions and fears a little, I would be less "scared" of him and say things normally I would be afraid to. And yes resentments tend to come out when drinking. I wish you guys luck but at the same time think maybe you should ask yourself if you are happy in the relationship. Well please keep us posted and lots of luck to you and please stick around you'll probably learn some interesting stuff, I know I have  ------------------
food is the only art that nourishes! IP: Logged |
glitter
Knowflake Posts: 12
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Registered: Feb 2003
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posted February 23, 2003 06:18 PM
Overall, I am very happy. I'm older now and I've done all the partying anyone could possibly do. I think I'm just moving into a new phase in my life and it's hard sometimes to leave the past behind. I was just wondering if anyone had any insights into how the two of us interact, astrologically speaking. Anyway, Fajita, girl, you get around. I see you everywhere on this sight!! Thanks for the response. IP: Logged |
theFajita3
Moderator Posts: 1404
From: Sunny South Florida, USA
Registered: Feb 2003
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posted February 24, 2003 12:27 AM
Heehee yep I suppose I am a little post happy I just like to be a part of Lindaland Well if you are happy that is GREAT, I know it can be tough about leaving partying behind. But just because we are getting older doesn't mean we can't have fun anymore I do hope things work out with you two.. ------------------
food is the only art that nourishes! IP: Logged |
jjjax
Knowflake Posts: 285
From: Sydney, Australia
Registered: Jan 2003
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posted February 24, 2003 01:18 AM
Glitter, your boyfriend and i have appear similar in our astrological description (for lack of a better, or correct term) Im a Libra with Scorp rising and Aries Moon. Hes a double Libra. so surely he can see multiple sides to everything. As a Libra i dont mind a debate, and i love that people have there own opinions on things, but i dont like to argue. If people get angry i feel the need to retreat, it upsets me. I dont know your boyfriend, but if it were me, i would appretiate you telling me how you feel, telling me why you like to smoke, drink, go out with friends. Talk to him so he can understand, but try not to get angry. Librans are sociable, they love people, but they hate large crowds. You said: "In other ways everything is great, these are just certain instances". Its those damn libra scales i tell ya! As Linda says in sun signs... "Libra is first up, then down. He swings one way, then another. Suddenly, like the scales ~ perfect balance! It's heavenly". Just know that that is how he works, you dont have to understand (he proberly dosent). But i think the key with a Libra is discussion, at least i know that works with me. Hope even a small amount, if any of this can help! All the best! Jax IP: Logged |
glitter
Knowflake Posts: 12
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Registered: Feb 2003
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posted May 27, 2003 07:19 PM
Well, doesn't matter now. We broke up. Still living together but looking for a new place. We just couldn't see eye to eye on a lot of thingsIP: Logged |
lioneye68
Knowflake Posts: 2836
From: Canada
Registered: Apr 2003
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posted May 27, 2003 09:05 PM
Hoy boy! I know what THAT'S like, living with someone after you've mutually decided it's over.
It's very nerve wracking, but when it's over you'll feel like a giant weight has been lifted off of your shoulders.IP: Logged |
Randall
Webmaster Posts: 16464
From: Columbus, GA USA
Registered: Nov 2000
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posted May 28, 2003 02:32 AM
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"Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark IP: Logged |
glitter
Knowflake Posts: 12
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Registered: Feb 2003
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posted May 28, 2003 10:40 AM
I know, I will feel relieved when this is all over. I moved here from a completely different city to be with him. So, now i'm going to be pretty much be on my own now. That doesn't bother me as much as being in this in between stage of trying to find a place to live and getting all my stuff together. I'm a ball of nerves. called in sick to work today (don't tell) just so i could go apartment hunting. it's all i think about right now anyway so i might as get it out of the way. IP: Logged |
Aphrodite
Moderator Posts: 3280
From: San Francisco, CA, United States
Registered: Feb 2002
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posted May 28, 2003 10:57 AM
  Listen to the intuitive music inside your heart to help you stay centered. IP: Logged |
Bendis
Knowflake Posts: 61
From: Baton Rouge, LA, 70802
Registered: Mar 2003
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posted May 28, 2003 02:23 PM
Welcome, Glitter!I can relate to some of what you said, my recent boyfriend is an Aquarius with a Taurus Moon and I am a Scorp with a Virgo Moon - we have lots and lots in common, but we seem to butt heads just as much. He's had the same complaint about me getting too emotional and picking fights when I drink, but it's the only time I feel I can just let it all out to him. We've actually decided to just be friends - even though we love each other a lot - and because of this decision get along much, much better. I don't know if this helps in your situation; it wasn't easy for us, but we know our differences are just too large for us to be "together" like that. ------------------
The unseen, the unknown, the mystery - this is what drives me; propels me forward on new journeys as dark corners of my mind are lit with the evergrowing bright light of my enlightened soul. - me IP: Logged |
glitter
Knowflake Posts: 12
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Registered: Feb 2003
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posted May 28, 2003 05:05 PM
Thanks for the input. I can't wait until all this is behind us and we can be real friends. P.S. to make matters worse I just found out his family is coming to visit and stay with us this weekend. This ought to be good. They couldn't have picked a better time right?IP: Logged |
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