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cartoon Knowflake Posts: 18 From: bangalore, india Registered: Jan 2002
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posted February 26, 2003 12:42 PM
Hi Auriel,I have problem here. I was in Brussels with this guy..my ex-teamlead... He was like the best thing that happenned to me.. We were so similar in all respects ...it was as though we were born joint at the hip... Then we came back to Bangalore and then all of a sudden everything was over..I mean he stopped talkin to me for 2 months... and then suddenly he came up to me and we started talkin again...he said that he was gettin too emotionally attached and the distance. Evrythin was okthen and I felt later on that he was taking undue advantage of me and ...basically takin me 4 granted... we didn't speak to each other for 4 months after that.. We started speakin on Feb12 again now...ok...both of us were happy....and now again...kind of coldness....no Hi ..Bye...nothin.. I then discovered that when he said that he loved me...he was sseing someone else. I am so heartbroken...what shall I do? My Details, 18 sep 1979 Udipi, Karnataka,India 10:27 am His Details 6 th sep 1976 Bhatkal,Mangalore 12:26 pm
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morgana Knowflake Posts: 876 From: Registered: Nov 2002
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posted March 01, 2003 02:31 PM
I'd say move on, you're wasting your time on this guy. I'm sorry, maybe you were expecting Auriel to answer... , morgana IP: Logged |
theFajita3 Moderator Posts: 1404 From: Sunny South Florida, USA Registered: Feb 2003
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posted March 02, 2003 11:05 PM
HI Cartoon! Morgana has a good point. You sound like a wonderful girl with a big heart, forgive him, yes, but you deserve to be treated much better. And I know those cold treatments, they are not nice and you don't deserve them. I know it's tough. I am 22 and I have met MANY guys whom I felt joined at the hip with and I just have to know there will be more. You are great and I wish you luck, and if you two do stay together just try not to let him take advantage of you. I am sorry though I know heart hurt is really bad ------------------ food is the only art that nourishes! IP: Logged |
cartoon Knowflake Posts: 18 From: bangalore, india Registered: Jan 2002
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posted March 03, 2003 08:45 AM
Hey, thanx both of u...really kind of u to reply.. I am not a bad person..I dont deserve such treatment. And he's like got the image that he can do anything with me and get away with it..b'coz I am so meek..I wont retaliate or make a big noise abt it. If only, he could realise that he's hurt me so much.I hope he doesn't do the same with the new girl..Love, cartoon IP: Logged |
Aphrodite Moderator Posts: 3280 From: San Francisco, CA, United States Registered: Feb 2002
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posted March 03, 2003 12:15 PM
Just curious cartoon, what is your relationship like with your Father?IP: Logged |
cartoon Knowflake Posts: 18 From: bangalore, india Registered: Jan 2002
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posted March 03, 2003 01:01 PM
Well...I am very close to my family...but most of all to my mom...she's like my best pal...with my dad.. I know he loves me..I mean I'm the eldest amongst the kids..He has never been open with his affections but I know he loves me deeply. Yet, I dont like the way he treats my mom.If it were some other lady, she would have left him a long time ago...but my mom is a wonderful lady-I admire her most for her tolerance. Funny you should ask..I mean , do you notice anything in this area? Yes, this guy did remind me of my dad a lot.Infact I got close to him because I felt kinda protected when I was with him... IP: Logged |
Aphrodite Moderator Posts: 3280 From: San Francisco, CA, United States Registered: Feb 2002
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posted March 03, 2003 01:20 PM
Hello Cartoon,I asked because it is an aspect that must be considered in your relationships (present and future) with men. Aphrodite IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 16464 From: Columbus, GA USA Registered: Nov 2000
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posted March 04, 2003 12:02 PM
Insightful observation, Aphrodite. ------------------ "Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark IP: Logged |
Aphrodite Moderator Posts: 3280 From: San Francisco, CA, United States Registered: Feb 2002
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posted March 04, 2003 04:16 PM
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