posted April 30, 2006 08:35 PM              

I believe the closest to mine is the guy Cardinalgal is involved with. Actually, the use of the word "involved" is the best to describe a relationship with an Aqua man for a while. Better call them friends! They are sort of "volatile".

While involved only or "thinking" the relationship is casual, Aqua men work fine.They are fantastic friends, lovers and partners. They'll be there for you. But restrain yourself to push an Aqua guy into things.

He'll take the decision about how the relationship should evolve in his own time. And the awaiting worth. Thats when we found out how patient a Taurus can be. A relationship with an Aqua is an endless learning.

I'm a Taurus, Libra rising and my beloved Aqua, Taurus rising. We were acquaitances about three years, then we became friends, then lovers and one day we found ourselves totally engaged in a great relationship.

It was along way. Very long way. That time was used to test grounds. To build up things, like trust. We are now in a solid relationship for ten years.

I believe there is no such a thing like- what can I do to seduce an Aqua. Like I said; its a looooooooooooong way til get there. Aquas seem to be very particular. What usually works for the rest of mankind just fails if an Aqua is your aim.

Trust, fell comfortable with the partner, along with a strong intelectual connection are the most important things for an Aqua.

As for Aquas sex drive, I can't say that much. I only know mine and I can't generalize using his behaviour as a standard for the other Aqua guys out there. But we are strongly physically attracted to each other and sex is great and rewarding.

Aquas don't show off their affection openly, but they can be very affectionated in private. And yes, they can say I Love You, but not this often, as the need of reassurance most of us have would like to hear. But its there and you'll know he loves you.

Hooked, I wish this could help you to figure out your Aqua guy and good luck. Please, remind these words Cardinalgal so wisely posted in this thread:

"Don't be needy or clingy. Love them no matter what they do. You're big enough to do that."

Its a rule of thumb to deal with Aqua men indeed.

I hope this post makes sense. English is not my born language.

posted May 01, 2006 06:33 AM              

Sexy, open minded, unpredictable, funny, intelligent, non-clingy and honest....and a little unavailable, not too obvious, a little mystery goes a long way with an Aqua

Sense of humour is a must....they must feel "you get them"....!!!

posted May 02, 2006 09:58 AM            

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!

posted March 15, 2007 12:23 AM              

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Aquarius will not accept chattiness as a positive characteristic

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posted March 15, 2007 02:46 PM            

I am conversing with a young Aqua male now that likes chattienss, and will talk to me over the phone for EVER! He is SO strange, though...and really, finding one stranger than him would be a real long shot! He is into the goth thing, has multiple piercings (uhhh one down there...) tattoos, likes to paint his figernails black and wear black lipstick when he can get away with it---

Aquas are strange period!!!

posted March 15, 2007 06:21 PM              

I'm an Aqua-girl kind of "in love" with my Aqua twin-S-Elf-Male (we are born on the same day, just different earthly "years") and I just know he's the one, and he k-nows I'm the one. But it's like this huge pink elephant in the middle of the room that everyone sees but doesn't talk about. That's how it is to BE an Aquarian and to LOVE one (sometimes it's hard to be sooo strange and sooo uncompassionate, when everyone around is sooo in love and sooo romantic).

Patient is your best friend if you want to truly be with an Aquarian of any kind. They can be impulsive, over-interested and you-feel-like-the-only-person-in-the-world to them. But suddenly, after two weeks, you won't hear from him or her for many days... they just found something else to be interested in...
don't take it personal! Whatever you do! It's not your fault. It's not that your not a smart, loving person...

And besides that.. everyone here tries to advice you to BE someone or something ("not too interested" and so forth) - Well, I can just say that your Aquarian male will figure all that hard-trying-seducement from a miles distant...

If you click you will know it. And if you are patient and eeger to learn him/her to really express their love you will have it...

I love being Aquarian, but I can trust you it's hard being the one who doesn't manage (AT ALL!) to talk about the big, pink elephant in the middle of the room... (And being in love with an Aquarian when you are one yourself can be twice as frustrating... not to mention if you want to be the only strange, weird, independant, intellectual, up-in-the-sky-person in the relationship.)

But it's illuminating! And the meeting between two Aquarians can bring tears to their eyes...

Quite ! ;-)

posted March 20, 2007 05:58 PM            

Well, I've been dating my Aquarian for a little over ten months now (although I've liked him for over 2 1/2 years) and... I don't really know how they flirt. We talk a lot about philosophies and such, and we do talk or write (we both write poems about each other) about our feelings... similar interests, and when I talk about something new he researches it. Like, he bought an astrology book because I talk about it frequently, and then when I told him I believe in reincarnation he started researching it and we still plan to have a conversation about it sometime soon. Plan activities, I'd say, 'cause that's when their personalities shine through.

My Aquarian is WONDERFUL; I absolutely love him, and he is emotional enough that my paranoia doesn't affect me TOO much. He's got Scorpio Asc, Aquarius moon (conjunction, so I guess it makes him more in touch with his emotions), Mars in Aries (conjunct mine), Jupiter in Pisces, and Pluto in Scorp, 12th house. Also, we have to MAJOR exact conjunctions; his Neptune is the same degree, same sign as my Moon, and his Asc is Exact Conjunct my Pluto!!! Of course, being that we're both young and it's unfortunately a long distance relationship, we are taking our relationship very slowly (Fixed sign; he's the one who suggested it; I"m a Cancer, Cap moon, Aries Asc, btw) so I don't have very much advice about being intimate other than emotionally. It turns out we both stalked each other a little bit before he graduated 2 years ago, lol, and almost every time we talk we learn something new about each other, so that's definatley something good... and creating memories TOGETHER, which is why activities are important. We're going to a firewalk next month, then I'm going to meet his Mum, then a past life reading and our school's "prom" plus we're going to start learning how to ballroom dance... activities=VERY GOOD!

Also, 1Scorp, he wanted you to be blunt. The steps that Natasha gave were almost exactly what I actually did! He graduated, I sent him a graduation card and offered to write to him in the army, he wrote back and said that would be great, then my letter got lost in the mail so he didn't hear from me again for six months or so... then the next time we saw each other we had our first date and the first letter he wrote me after that confessed that he loved me (in writing!!! Most Aquas probably wouldn't want to express themselves in such a seeminlgly binding way) and I was pretty vague when I wrote back because I had JUST decided that I could accept it if he just wanted to be friends, so I was like, "I have similar feelings for you" after he wrote "I have fallen in love with you." I don't know if that was a good thing or bad, 'cause he's got three planets in Sag, so he's pretty blunt...

posted June 03, 2013 11:56 PM            

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Originally posted by sue g:
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Sexy, open minded, unpredictable, funny, intelligent, non-clingy and honest....and a little unavailable, not too obvious, a little mystery goes a long way with an Aqua

Sense of humour is a must....they must feel "you get them"....!!!

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This is pretty spot on.