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posted May 03, 2003 04:30 PM         

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Well, this may end up sounding like a stupid question, but here goes...
There's this Gemini guy I know, and have known for like over 4 years since our families are friends. When we first met, he seemed enthralled by me (who was at that moment long-term obsessed with a Scorpio), and I just sort of sat back and enjoyed the attention. Over the years, it has always seemed like he was subletly, and sometimes not so subtley flirting with me whenever we visit, giving me little presents (you know how that affected my senimental Leo moon and Venus), and I ended up falling for him. Of course I didn't want to say anything cause it seemed a few times he had dropped very deliberate references to a "girlfriend" or girls that were chasing him, with a mischieveous glint in his eye that gave me the impression he was trying to get my reaction or jealousy fired up... One day during a visit in April of 2002, his brother asked me if I had a crush on his Gemini brother cause the Gemini thought I did, and I said no. Then regretting my little lie of omission, I wrote the brother and admitted I had been dishonest about how I felt. That got back to the Gemini, and he wrote me asking if it was true that I liked him, cause if I did that was ok cause he thought I was cool. When we visited over this past New Years, the Gemini again asked me, this time to my face, and I said yes. He was really sweet to me after that, taking all the traditonal courtesies.
Then this time, when we visited last week, he paid alot of attention to be, finding excuses for interaction and contact with me, yet still coyly mentioning a girlfriend, who he said later was unhappy with their relationship. The final thing that made me really begin to wonder if his feelings, long-term, were changing toward me in the romantic sense, was the last day of our stay, he asked if I would come downstairs cause he important that he needed to talk to me, then when I came down, and asked what he wanted, he turned on a CD in his stereo, and the song that he played was "Butterfly" by Crazy Town, you know, the one where the lyrics are:
"Come my lady
Come, come my lady
You're my butterfly
Sugar baby
Come my lady
Come, come my lady
You're my butterfly
Sugar baby..."
So do you think this means he's into me? He has a Pisces moon, Mercury and Mars in Cancer, and Venus in Gemini, so I have trouble reading him sometimes...
Anyone have any experience with guys who have Pisces moons, and how do they express affection?

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We hated gently, carefully
As if we were someday to love"-Venus Trines at Midnight

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posted May 06, 2003 05:37 PM         

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Could someone respond, please?

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posted May 06, 2003 06:30 PM         

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hi vaa, just enjoy the flattery if you so choose this is just me . . . if a guy knew i liked him, the ball is in his court if he wants to take it to the next level. you were open with him about your feelings, but did you tell him what you wanted to do with them?

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posted May 06, 2003 06:47 PM         

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Aphrodite....That's a good point about the ball being in his court. We live 1000 miles apart and are both still young.
What is your take on the most recent happenings I wrote of?
We are also a little less than 2 years apart, and I've heard he has issues with age, since he's younger...

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posted May 06, 2003 07:03 PM         

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hey! I just made a friend who happens to be a Gemini Sun/Pisces Moon (Aries Asc. though) and although I obviously don't know him well, he did talk about how he has his romantic side, but feels rather detached form things, emotionally that is. We talked for a while last night. Seems devoted though, with some long relationships. Of course, this is just one random guy. lol

How old is he? And you, if you don't mind me asking?

Perhaps he is just a bit awkward..or trying to overcome some shyness. The Geminis I dated all made their "move" rather unpredictably.

And I have a Leo moon too. Love little presents

Here's hoping things work out for the best!

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posted May 06, 2003 09:09 PM         

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How old is he? And you, if you don't mind me asking?

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Oxychick, no, I don't mind you asking, I guess I've just avoided mentioning age cause my mind has never been on my "age-level" and conversing with people older than myself was much more enjoyable....
I'm 17 and he's turning 16 next month. I've known him since I was 13 and he was 12.
What did you mean about him being awkward, or overcoming some shyness?

Yes, presents are so fun. Ahh.......hmmm...I still have the vending machine ring the Gemini mentioned above gave me four years ago, and I keep it in a special spot..such a senimental soul am I...

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posted May 07, 2003 10:31 AM         

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hi vaa, aww you sound like such a sweetheart i did the same thing in high school, save little things boys gave me. i still have the candy wrapper from a piece of chocolate from bobby, along with his hand written note saying he wanted to go to the prom with me in all honesty, i did the same thing you are doing . . . wait. hehe. but a wiser thing to do, and i wish someone told me this . . . is to date other boys in the meantime. spend your time doing things that make you *happy*. you like poetry, ja? join a poetry club so you meet other writers, and make more friends. i know you have written that you feel depressed. i know how that feels, i had been in depression for the last 5 years, and am slowly making my way out. i have a capricorn moon, and it wasn't until i learned about astrology that i understood why i had such silent black moods. it wasn't the most joyful experience, but i learned a lot. i just turned 24 a few weeks ago, so we are not that far apart in age. aphrodite

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posted May 07, 2003 09:33 PM         

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wait. hehe. but a wiser thing to do, and i wish someone told me this . . . is to date other boys in the meantime. spend your time doing things that make you *happy*. you like poetry, ja? join a poetry club so you meet other writers, and make more friends. i know you have written that you feel depressed. i know how that feels, i had been in depression for the last 5 years, and am slowly making my way out. i have a capricorn moon, and it wasn't until i learned about astrology that i understood why i had such silent black moods. it wasn't the most joyful experience, but i learned a lot. i just turned 24 a few weeks ago, so we are not that far apart in age.

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Aphrodite...
I wouldn't call what I'm doing right now exactly "waiting"...cause I have been keeping my eye open on a more local level (and actually, just got over being hurt/ignored by an immature macho-attitude-covering-oversensitivity Taurean within the last two weeks). I seem to attract weird clingy-type personalities who need some serious mothering that I have NO NEED to do...but still they give me puppy dog looks, and two in particular have a boatload of Cancer placements in their charts... So I'm still on the active lookout for a kindred soul.
And yet, I revel in the "special" relationship I have my this Gemini guy, my Gemini guy, who always brings me back to reality with his warm affection, and intelligent mind, letting me see what the other guys I see around me, and even the ones I think I "like", lack. We have this indisputable karmically intutitive bond, and bring out the best in each other. Oh, and on a random related thought...while we were visiting, we had brought a few little kids along with us who used to live with us as foster kids, but now just spend occasional weekends, but anyways...the littlest of the kids who came with us, a little Aquarian with a Pisces rising, and a Leo moon (like me, so we understand each other emotionally) came upstairs to find me cause he was upset. My Gemini, Tony, and I were sitting on the stairs going up talking when the littlest came up. I held the Aquarian and soothed him as be quieted down, and then the Gemini jumped right in and playfully got his attention, making him laugh. As I watched how well we worked together with the little Aquarian, I thought to myself, "I can imagine being married to Tony, and I can see how well we'd work together raising kids of our own". It was such a strong and pleasant thought, and it had a really possible feeling about the future that I've never experienced before and it made me wonder... + = ?

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