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posted May 05, 2003 01:47 PM         

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Proxieme, are you still bummed about the Scorpio class mate who turned down your request to go out some time? You should read what 1Scorp had to say about how she frustrates herself all the time when approached by someone with a "romantic" overture. She says she may actually be interested and wondering whethor or not they are too, and then when they make a move, she gets freaked out and says no, not because she's changed her mind, but because she thinks they're "coming on too strong" and Scorps, above all else, need to control the situation. ESPECIALLY when emotions are at risk... I'll try to find the thread for you, and paste the link here. Or, maybe some Scorps could jump in and elaborate on this line of thought...?? Anyone?

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posted May 05, 2003 03:50 PM         

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This is an excerpt from a convo 2 scorps were having in "Hi, 1Scorp! Hopefully This Will Help You! (Page 3)" I'm quoting 1Scorp in response to Sisterchasingmoon.

" You are so right! You can just word it a little better than I can. I sometimes think that I'm the one that stinks at taking hints!

I need for someone to say "HEY YOU! LET'S DO THIS"! Though, when someone is "that" direct I tend to get intimidated... I lay back for a while... think of every possible detail then I get back with them...

I'm glad to see I'm not the only one that goes through this!"

You see what I'm saying Prox?? That Scorp is probably the same way!!

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posted May 05, 2003 04:55 PM         

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Aw, you know Fishy funks - I'm feeling better now.
And it looks like we'll still be able to be friends. We had class today (gaw, I sound so young...eh, I am)...
Um, where was I?
Ah, yes -
We had class together today, and I hung back to see how'd he handle it, and he sat down right next to me, like always. We joked the whole time, although it was a little subdued & diffuse and it seemed like each time one of us would say something, we'd step back and go,
"Oh, um...um, oh," for a second - at least that's how it seemed from my end.
But, groovy tunes - it looks like things'll be back to normal soon enough.

Thank you for taking a concern & helping out, lioneye.

You rock.
You rock so hard.

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posted May 06, 2003 05:42 PM         

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Glad to hear your life is back to being a little smoother, Prox!

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-K
"Most people love with restraint
As if they were someday to hate
We hated gently, carefully
As if we were someday to love"-Venus Trines at Midnight

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posted May 07, 2003 09:56 AM         

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Eh, smooth or bumpy, life's still a ride to be taken
You just have to get good, thick tires.

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posted May 07, 2003 10:54 AM         

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I have the same coordinates as you- FIsh,Aquarius moon and Scorpio Ascendant- and when I saw your postings I found it not surprising that we were both in a funk.A looooonnggg lasting funk. A fish funk. Of course always relationship connected. I also found a big resemblance in the reactions to the funk. Shoulder shrugging fatalistic attitude that seems to characterize our acceptance of the 'ups and downs' we go through. I've always compared it to diving to the bottom, hitting the bottom ,giving a shove and going back up to the surface. I spend a lot less time at the bottom now going ...grumble,grumble...though these las t few days seem to prove the contrary!
I'm glad you're doing better! and if I could add one of htose huggy smiling faces flying all over the place I would!!

I'm galde that you are coming back to the surface..so am I..I suppose we just needed to re energize those batteries.

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posted May 07, 2003 02:46 PM         

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posted May 07, 2003 04:43 PM         

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(Now I'm curious as to what Aph wrote...)

brunnhilde - Heya
See: sympatico (is that the right word?)
I think that LG was right re: our kind of "positive fatalism".
What happens, happens, eh?
It's just ours to work with that.
Bleh. I'm still kinda there, though - doin' better by drips and drabs. It's not quite a relationship thing; I dunno what it is.
I'm glad you're feeling better - astro sisterhood!
Rah!

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