Posts: 54
From: Kuwait
Registered: May 2003

posted May 20, 2003 09:11 AM         

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Im 21 and ive never been in love, although ive been in many relationships. I dont believe in love at first sight, but i met this guy and it was unlike anything i have ever felt before. We kept bumping into eachother until we finally talked. we instantly fell in love, we had so much in common, we completed eachothers sentences Things were going great until he suddenly stopped answering my calls. To my friends he claims its because he thinks im still with my boyfriend, who I left for him. Now he won't talk to me, if he sees me somewhere he hides, I have done EVERYTHING but its no use. My friends say he probably met someone else. Maybe he did, i dont know but were so RIGHT for eachother. Its been more than a month and i still cry when i remember the 2 months we spent together. I just cant get over him. Im a pisces female and hes a male virgo. What do u think?

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posted May 24, 2003 02:55 PM         

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Awe. That just sucks. Could be anything. You said you left your current at the time beau for him? Perhaps that started him thinking that you're capeable to dropping HIM like a hot potatoe for someone else as well?
Perhaps the tension inherent in the opposition aspect (Virgo/Pisces) was too much for him to bare?
Perhaps he's shallow Hal and decided that you just don't do it for him?
Could be anything, but it's beyond your control. Time will heal, and you'll live to love another day. If it's meant to be, it WILL be, and believe me, there won't be a damn thing you'll be able to do to prevent it. Same is true for the opposite.
Be good to yourself and move on. The meer realization that you'r moving on may tweek a heartstring in him. Then, if he does come around, you may very well decide at that time that you don't want HIM anymore. (hey, he snoozes, he loses right?)

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posted May 24, 2003 03:15 PM         

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Hey, thanx alot. yeah im feeling a lot better now that I decided i should just try and move on, and ur right, if it's meant to be then all I can do is wait. What exactly do u mean by the tension? I thought our opposin sun signs should attract?

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posted May 24, 2003 05:09 PM         

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The opposition is funny. It's a love-hate tug of war. It's really the same "flavor" of energy, but it's polarized into opposite ends of the ring. With the Virgo/Pisces opposition it's the "To Serve" energy. Virgo does this with all systems geared to the "finite" or "tangible" world, (hense the perfectionism that Virgo has a reputation for) and Pisces does this with all systems geared to the "infinite" or "intangible" world. (hense, the psychic abilities that Pisces has a reputation for)

We're both drawn to our opposite sign, and repelled by them at the same time. It can involve some serious compromising to "gel" with these people, as they seem to be everything we're not, but yet the same. It's hard to explain. Do you follow?

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posted May 25, 2003 05:49 AM         

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Yes, I relate completely!

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