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Topic: Help, are all Scorpio men cheaters?
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PiscesPrincess318
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Registered: May 2003
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posted June 03, 2003 12:20 AM
 
I am head over heals in love with this amazing man. He is everything I have ever wanted in a man. Smart. Beautiful. Loyal. Affectionate. Passionate. We have been hot and heavy for the past few months and he says that he is in love with me too. We want to get married and everything that goes along with marriage. I have heard the rumors of what notorious cheaters scorpio males are and I am a bit worried. My mother rattled off several examples and told me to be careful. He seems really dedicated to me but I have a concern regarding his ex. They were high school sweethearts and were together for 4 years. He says that they are still friends but he has a picture of her hanging around and she still calls his house. When we go to his house there are messages from her and I am getting to be a bit suspicious. I stayed in touch with my high school sweetheart but when he called I told him about my new love and told him to back off. I expect my boyfriend to do the same but he gets mad when I bring it up and tells me that I am crazy and he loves only me and wants to be with me so I shouldn't worry about it. I don't want to ruin our relationship over this but I think that he is wrong for not giving her the boot. Am I being unreasonable? Any and all advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted June 03, 2003 02:43 AM
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pearly
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From: Neptune, Milky Way, Universe
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posted June 03, 2003 03:17 AM
Welcome PiscesPrincess!!  You are a princess... you need not worry about this silly thing. There is no bond like a Scorpio-Pisces bond, haven't you heard?  I'm just kidding with you a little here... I can understand how your situation could be a bit worrisome and I don't want to make light of it. I think you should know that Scorpios are extremely loyal and take bonds seriously. They do like toying with their ability to exercise control over others with their charisma, which could be interpreted as flirtatious... but you have nothing to worry about. Just remember... Scorps like strength and self-confidence in their partners, you should just be up front and hold your ground with your feelings about the situation, but don't accuse him of any wrongdoing. If they are friends, fine. I'm sure after awhile she'll get the hint that he has a bond with you.... Well take care! And Oh! Read Love Signs by Linda Goodman... IP: Logged |
eightdegrees
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From: Burlington, VT, USA
Registered: May 2003
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posted June 03, 2003 05:47 AM
No one can resist temptation to cheat like a scorpio! I wouldn't worry, seriously. Scorpios are fiercely loyal. IP: Logged |
RubyRedRam
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posted June 03, 2003 06:26 AM
One of my best mates (scorp) has been with his aries girl for 3 years. He has contact with his high school ex but would never EVER cheat on his girl and never has. He is totally loyal to her and would never cheat. She gets jealous about his past loves and it really causes problems in their relationship. Don't risk losing a good thing due to the fact that he talks to his ex. What happens before your relationship is his business and you should encourage him to obtain his friendships (as long as he lets you do the same). If he cheats, he cheats and you can move on and perhaps it wasn't meant to be. However, this might not happen and you woulnd't have spent so much time worrying over something so petty!!Good Luck!! IP: Logged |
RubyRedRam
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posted June 03, 2003 06:28 AM
Also, past history is always a good place to look. If a man is a repetitive cheater, good chance he might do it again....then you can be on guard but not restrict him. If not, then he's a stayer not a player.IP: Logged |
N_wEvil
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posted June 03, 2003 07:36 AM
the scorp i live with isn't loyal! but then again i beleive she's a particularly poor specimen.IP: Logged |
PiscesPrincess318
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posted June 03, 2003 03:47 PM
I really appreciate all of your advice. I read him your responses and he said that he will give her the boot to put this to rest since I feel so strongly about it. My eagle said that he is not a cheater and he also appreciates everyone's unbiased advice. he will probably become a member as well. I have read Sun Signs, Love Signs, and Relationship Signs. They are amazing books and I love Linda's writing. She is poetic, hilarious, and gets her point across. I love aries people. Thanks again to everyone. IP: Logged |
Lost Leo
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Registered: Sep 2002
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posted June 03, 2003 04:56 PM
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PiscesPrincess318
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posted June 03, 2003 05:21 PM
Lost Leo,Thanks. I know that I need to just shut up about it and trust him "blindly" but I have mars in aries to the first degree in my first house. I am incredibly jealous and cannot stand the thought of the man I love holding onto romantic feelings toward another woman. The thought of him holding onto her just in case it doesn't work out with us makes my skin crawl and I think that my jealousy is magnified by the fact that this is the only man that has just completely rocked my world to the point where I don't even think about other men. That fire starts to bubble up from my usually calm self and I can't help from making jokes and comments about it to him. Even my mom told me to just let it go but I can't for some reason. My competitive nature shines through and I want to crush her. I feel like a monster sometimes but I will take your advice and trust him blindly because he is totally worth it. Scorpio men rock. Leo's are second. Aries third. IP: Logged |
Lost Leo
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Registered: Sep 2002
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posted June 03, 2003 06:32 PM
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Cat
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From: England
Registered: Jan 2002
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posted June 03, 2003 06:51 PM
N-w
How do you feel about that 
Is it ok with you? Not sure if she's your girlfriend or just your room-mate. Sorry if I'm being too intrusive.
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1scorp
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posted June 03, 2003 07:01 PM
I caught ya Leo! Hey, I thought we were friends?! Is this where we're suppose to be posting topics like this?N_w: What is it with you and this scorpio girl? Is she that bad? Pisces: The keeping the ex on stand-by thing... All of my ex's are just that! I have no feelings for them what-so-ever. Once I'm finished, that's it. One ex and I still laugh and talk. However, I would NEVER get involved with him again. What I would do in your situation... well, I'd go off! I'm kidding. I would talk to this girl and "see" what's going on with her. Don't keep pushing this in your scorpio's face, as we do tire of it after a while. A recent Gemini (and yes... he was jealous) always questioning me regarding things like that. After a while I thought... "hey, might as well go and do it, if I'm being accused". I've NEVER cheated on anyone and I don't think I could. Unless, as was stated... someone had done it to me first. Really childish... yet, I think I would walk around lop-sided or with a twitch for the rest of my life if I didn't pay back for that. You know this guy... don't worry if there isn't any proof. IP: Logged |
N_wEvil
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posted June 03, 2003 07:01 PM
housemate and possibly one of three people in the world i actively hateIP: Logged |
1scorp
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posted June 03, 2003 07:08 PM
N_w: You want me to have a talk with her for you?! Just show her that baby picture... that'll soften her up. IP: Logged |
PiscesPrincess318
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posted June 03, 2003 07:59 PM
I am glad that I am not the only scorp-lover out there. Is 1scorp by chance lost leo's lil' scorp mentioned? I don't claim to be psychic or anything but I think lost leo is still in love with his "lil' scorp." I can hardly blame you. They are lovable creatures. I would take their brooding silences, cutting remarks, and brutal honesty over any amount of "niceness." At least you know what you're getting. I don't think that there is any trick to trusting someone but I do feel that you can trust someone and still get jealous. Thanks again to everyone who took the time to respond. I feel much better. You guys are great.IP: Logged |
N_wEvil
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posted June 03, 2003 08:04 PM
nooo, this person is directly guilty of almost causing £200 worth of damage to my computer, directly screwing up two modules of my university coursework (this was BEFORE i got a lock put on my door) and is generally a dull, manufactured 4 timing criminal.Its rather unfair to regard her as a scorp at all - to be honest, i barely regard her as human. IP: Logged |
MICA
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From: bronx, ny
Registered: May 2003
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posted June 03, 2003 08:33 PM
Im a scorpio and for the most part Im incredibly loyal. To be quite honest if (I feel the need to cheat then I might as well not even be with the person why waste his time and mine.( but thats my personal opinion)
as for the men
My uncle is a scorpio and he adores my aunt. He is very loving and devoted man and they have been together for many years IP: Logged |
1scorp
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posted June 03, 2003 09:44 PM
No problem Pisces I have a couple of fish buddies and they are just too sweet to even consider being mean to! Did you just put Scorpio and loveable in the same sentence?! Like I said... this is why scorpios like thy pisces Oh yeah... No. I'm not the scorp Leo refers to. We haven't even met! I just like to harass is all. Hi MICA  N_w: I think you and I had a discussion about the Aquas and scorps before. However, I have to say... I like ya! Though you do have gemini Asc. and cancer moon... That girl had no business in your room! JEEZ of all people, you would think a scorpio would respect something like that! I hate anyone snooping through my things and I will NEVER go through someone else's! (I'm serious) IP: Logged |
N_wEvil
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posted June 03, 2003 09:57 PM
My brother in law is a scorp and he is an impressively upstanding personbut this....b-.....individual, well...just a bad case i think. and for what its worth, you're my buddy too
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firegirl24
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From: south gate, CA usa
Registered: May 2003
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posted June 03, 2003 09:59 PM
Jealousy is always the enemy in a relationship, it ruins happiness and destroys any relationship it comes in contact with. Pisces, I suggest you figure out a way to trust your man, or you'll just end up losing him, and yourself. Its funny how jealousy can make you insane, but its true what they say "If there is no Trust, then there Is no LOVE. IP: Logged |
moondust
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From: Lafayette, LA U.S.
Registered: Sep 2002
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posted June 04, 2003 12:02 AM
You can only trust someone as much as you trust yourself. Life is too short to bother with jealousy. Besides, if a person is going to cheat they are going to do it regardless of how jealous you are, so don't waste your precious energy. If it's meant to be it will "be." And as a scorpio myself, I can say that we hate to be accused of anything we haven't done.
Just remember to let your scorpio know he's the only one and the most important thing in your life and you should be ok. Also, never stop being affectionate. IP: Logged |
1scorp
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posted June 04, 2003 12:24 PM
Awww N_w! That was the sweetest thing an Aqua guy has ever told me Yeah, I was going to say the same thing regarding her (B__). Just ignore her... if you're lucky, she'll do the same. IP: Logged |
Lost Leo
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posted June 04, 2003 04:32 PM
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1scorp
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posted June 04, 2003 09:13 PM
How long did you think you were going to keep it secret Leo?! Pisces: I haven't seen you in the other threads. With all this scorp bashing Leo is doing... I need a Pisces around! I'm just playing Leo. IP: Logged |
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