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Topic: Sag and cancer love
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firegirl24
Knowflake Posts: 30
From: south gate, CA usa
Registered: May 2003
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posted June 03, 2003 10:12 PM
 
Ok everyone I am a sagittarius, and I'm falling in love with a girl who's a cancer....... Good or bad?????IP: Logged |
Randall
Webmaster Posts: 16464
From: Columbus, GA USA
Registered: Nov 2000
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posted June 04, 2003 02:17 AM
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eightdegrees
Knowflake Posts: 71
From: Burlington, VT, USA
Registered: May 2003
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posted June 04, 2003 04:58 AM
My last boyfriend was a cancer, and I'm a Sag, although I have a cancer moon so I'd say we got along better then your average cancer-sag pair. Just based on Suns, Sag and Cancer hold a lot of mutual fascination/attraction to each other, although their basic natures (water and fire) are not that compatible. It depends on a lot of other factors. Post your data and your friend's data and I'll take a look when I get a chance...   IP: Logged |
moonmaiden
Knowflake Posts: 32
From: sydney,n.s.w.Australia
Registered: May 2003
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posted June 04, 2003 06:08 AM
hi ,im a cancer girl and my first love was a sag man...the sexual attraction is great but if she gets too clingy you may get itchy feet.Just be sure that whatever the relationship you define your terms clearly OH AND PLEASE! watch out for your tendency to put your foot in your mouth your words and blunt frankness are good but may hurt her. Y KNOW WHAT YOU SHOULD JUIST BUY LOVE SIGNS BY LINDA GOODMAN AND READ THE SAG MAN CANCER GIRL SECTION FOR YOURSELF...GOODLUCK!!------------------
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pidaua
Knowflake Posts: 1820
From: Annapolis, Maryland USA
Registered: May 2002
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posted June 05, 2003 04:28 PM
Hmmm, I am not sure how to tackle this since I wouldn't know how to comment on the Sag-girl Cancer-girl thing. I only say that because there is a difference between us Saggitarian women and our males counterparts. The Sag males are more apt to wander off and bail on the Cancer woman that the Sag woman with the Cancer man. The Sag male will spend time getting to know the woman and want to protect her, but then not understand why those claws come out when he says the wrong thing, or wonder about why she has to go into her shell. I would recommend reading up on Cancer women. My mother is a double cancer and can be the most emotion person on the planet, at least to me since I am full of fire. My Sag brother and I have caused her to become much stronger, but we still have trouble understanding her emotional swings.
You may find the Cancer woman intriguing at first, but then can you really handle the emotional ties? Without knowing your birth time it is hard to determine just how many planets you have in fire, water, air or earth.
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firegirl24
Knowflake Posts: 30
From: south gate, CA usa
Registered: May 2003
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posted June 05, 2003 11:00 PM
Well I dont think this will help much but here is what I know so farMy birthday is 12/18/80 10:36 am Los Angeles, california Hers 7/9/81, Hawaii
dont know the time but I'll try to find out! IP: Logged |
PiscesPrincess318
Knowflake Posts: 9
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Registered: May 2003
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posted June 06, 2003 02:34 AM
My mother is a cancer and she is very clingy. I would imagine that would scare a sag. I know that she has had a few relationships that lasted about a decade each. Once she falls in love it is for a very long time. Very dedicated. Very nurturing. Way too emotional. Passive aggressiveness and severe mood swings go ahead.I believe love can conquer anything the planets and karma can come up with. I have a cappy uncle who is very happy with his Aries wife. I wish you the best of luck.IP: Logged |
firegirl24
Knowflake Posts: 30
From: south gate, CA usa
Registered: May 2003
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posted June 06, 2003 03:19 AM
Yes at first she was very clingy and I started feeling tied down. So I let her know and I kinda hurt her feelings so she retreated to her shell.
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pidaua
Knowflake Posts: 1820
From: Annapolis, Maryland USA
Registered: May 2002
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posted June 11, 2003 10:57 AM
Hi Firegirl, Yes, that is bound to happen when you tell a Cancer what they don't want to hear. It really does hurt their feelings, but if you explain to her what is going on inside of you, then she (being very compassionate) will understand. Try breaking out the astrology for her. I know that with my mom she began to understand my brother and I more when we actually talked astrology. I would say "Mom, I know that I hurt your feelings. I'm sorry, but I'm a Sag, I say what I think and then end up dining on Filet of Sole.. You're a Cancer, which makes you more sensitive and sentimental, great qualities, but you get hurt easy". So, maybe if you open up and let her know where your coming from, she won't be so quick to retreat in that shell. By the way Firegirl, even though Cancers can be soft and compassionate, they do have claws and if you really hurt them, you will see just how crabby that can get. IP: Logged |
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