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Knowflake

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From: mumbai,india
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posted June 06, 2003 05:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for anks     Edit/Delete Message
hi ,this is the first time i'm posting a message,
there is a girl i'm attracted to & she likes me too,
now my confusion is that should i take the initiative or should i just chill down a bit & let her initiate

my bdate is 24th october 1981 (12:57pm (jamnagar,india))
i'm a scorpio with moon in leo/virgo & ascendent in capricon
her bdate is 22 may 1984(5:26 am(tezpur,state:assam,india)
could u just help me out as i have just come out of a bad phase of my life since 2 years & lookin to break out of the rut,all i want to know is should i go thru with this or will this too bring my downfall
please advice!!!!

the reason why i asked that question was before this girl there was another gemini girl with the same birthdate of 22 may,i don't want that episode to happen again so i would like to get some help regarding this,
as u all know that being a scorpio i would prefer to really go for it or just forget 'bout it,i can't be somewhere in the middle of nowhere,in the middle of illusions
please try & help me out on this

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1scorp
Knowflake

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posted June 06, 2003 09:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for 1scorp     Edit/Delete Message
Oh anks

Those Geminis! I always get involved with one... swear I'm not going through it again .. then low and behold!

They're too interesting to ignore.

Just something about them! I've mentioned before (and it's true) that I can be in a room full of people and I always get mixed with a Gem.

If you want any specifics... you'll have to ask a direct question You know how it is... being a Scorpio and all

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Knowflake

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posted June 07, 2003 10:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for anks     Edit/Delete Message
i agree with u scorp....

also the problem with gemini's is that sometimes they themselves don't know what they feel 'bout some people ,they don't analyze their relationships nor do they classify ,so for them almost all are same which makes it difficult to know their minds,because they themselves don't know.

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Lunargirl
Knowflake

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posted June 07, 2003 02:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lunargirl     Edit/Delete Message
According to astorloger Liz Greene, Water (emotion) and Air signs (thought) are frequently strongly attracted -- as in, opposites attracting.

But as 1scorp says, what is your question? Are you asking if you should go after her, or it's "worth it", or if it will last? Or are you looking for some reassurance that you won't get hurt?

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1scorp
Knowflake

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posted June 07, 2003 11:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 1scorp     Edit/Delete Message
Lunar: There's just something about them! I've heard them described as not being a very sexual minded sign?! What?! That's not true

anks: I've noticed that their moods change "very" frequently. They are hard to read sometimes. Which I think is the way they want it... just as we don't want others to completely figure us out.

Our reasons are wanting to be private and keeping things personal to ourselves. I "think" theirs is that they don't want to feel that someone knows that much about them, as it may make them feel like they're getting too comfortable. Did that make sense?

Also, I've found that going with the flow, is the best thing to do with them.

However, after a while, I believe that what breaks it is that they are so interested in everything and "seem" to be preoccupied or uninterested in details to us. Or they don't have the time for certain things that we think are important.

It's just the difference in how we work ... they're sexy, fascinating and fun... if you can figure out a way to make it run smoother than let me know!

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Knowflake

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posted June 08, 2003 12:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for anks     Edit/Delete Message
my specific question would be

SHOULD I KEEP TAKING INITIATIVE OR SHOULD I TAKE AN APPROACH WHERE I JUST WAIT & LET HER DO SOMETHING ???

CAUSE I'M GETTIN IN & INSIDE THIS GIRL & I FEEL VERY INSECURE,CAUSE THIS THING BETWEEN US IS HEADING NOWHERE FOR ME & THIS MATTERS A LOT TO ME & AS THINGS STAND ,I DON'T THINK IT MATTERS MUCH TO HER(THOUGH I MAY BE WRONG AS I KNOW THAT THERE IS 6-8 PATTERN ACTING BETWEEN US)
I ALWAYS FEEL THAT I HAVE TO DO SOMETHING FOR HER ALL THE TIME .

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Knowflake

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posted June 08, 2003 01:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 1scorp     Edit/Delete Message
There you go

The feeling like you always have to do something for her? I can say in "my" experiences... that's a continious cycle. Always having to do things, while they went out and did their own thing. (No offense to the Gems. You know I love ya...)

If you're already getting this feeling... than man, run!

Also, I was going to ask... I've noticed that I'm always attracted to the signs that I have a more difficult time with... are you?

I think that if we would give the shyer ones a chance than we might end up with what we're intended for.

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Knowflake

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posted June 09, 2003 11:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for anks     Edit/Delete Message
u know something ????

i have this urgent need to go out of the way & help her
also i know the fact that scorps have a duty towards gemini's.
sometimes i feel compelled to help her ,make her comfortable

i feel that i have the perfect way or a formula if one might say,to make her comfortable & better

i'll tell u one thing that if i don't take initiative then i'll die(exageratively speaking)
but i want some response from her side

please give me some astrological advice
i want someone to see both our charts & tell me if there is some remote chance ,otherwise i won't go deep in the sea & just slowly come up to the shore before i reach the point of no return

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moondust
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posted June 09, 2003 12:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for moondust     Edit/Delete Message
I am also a scorpio and my advice would be to just go for it. Nothing in life is guaranteed and you don't want to be sitting on the sidelines asking yourself "what if?"

"It's better to fall than to never love at all" You might get hurt or you might have the time of your life-especially with a gemini! Live in the moment and don't be so cautious~ I know how hard that is, I am also Capricorn rising, but don't we love challenges?

Also, some females want the guy to initiate things, it's sexy, shows confidence and masculinity. Geminis never really know what they want so try to convince her it's you. If it doesn't work out then move on and take the lessons you learned with you.

Just take in mind that she will be fickle and change her mind often, so don't take it personal. It's not you, it's the gemini way. She will get cold and make icy remarks and the next minute she'll be a purring kitten. WE have a very hard time accepting this kind of behavior, which makes it hard for scorpios to trust someone who is so oscillating. But they're so intriguing!!! We can't resist, so why should we? Live in the moment and follow your heart, only you know the answer to your question. Is it worth it? Everything in life is painful, so why not pause and have a little fun on the way?

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Knowflake

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posted June 10, 2003 11:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for anks     Edit/Delete Message
hey moon dust ur so very right ,actually i was thinking on these very lines yesterday,to just keep goin with what i'm, & just keep colliding with her(so to speak),even if our paths don't cross ,i try to make sure they do,


but the only problem with this is that there is too much of insecurity in this which sometimes is ok... but sometimes it just kills u

but i guess ...if it has to happen it will & if it isn't meant to happen then never in a million yrs will it happen,no matter how much u try.

by the way what's ur moon sign MOONDUST & UR BIRTHDATE


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moondust
Knowflake

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posted June 10, 2003 11:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for moondust     Edit/Delete Message
My birthdate is October 29; moon is in aries;my mars and venus are both in scorpio; and I have Capricorn rising. Therefore, it takes very little to stop me from going after something I desire! I also don't think there's an ounce of insecurity in me, even though I do understand where you're coming from. I think you just have to trust your intuition in matters of the heart and listen to that little voice in your head telling you which direction you need to go. You know what feels right~ Scorpio usually knows. Use your power of intuition.

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Knowflake

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posted June 10, 2003 11:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for anks     Edit/Delete Message
thanks dude !!!!

i understand what ur saying

thanks !!!
could u gimme ur yahoo id !!!
so that we could chat sometime

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moondust
Knowflake

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posted June 10, 2003 11:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for moondust     Edit/Delete Message

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