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Katie
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From: Hereford, U.K.
Registered: May 2003

posted June 27, 2003 08:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Katie     Edit/Delete Message
Hi, I'm sure I'm not the only one who is thoroughly confused about the different terms Twin Soul, Twin Self, Twin Ray, etc. - and yeah, I read Morning Storm's thread about those definitions! I'm confused about how you identify whether someone is a Twin, and on what level. I mean, I have some wonderful friends with whom I share a really good connection and I guess I'd call them Soul Mates. But as far as a romantic reltionship goes, does it matter whether the people involved are Soul Mates, Twin Souls, Twin Flames or what? Does it depend on how spiritually evolved you are as to who you will connect to?
Also, Linda mentions in Goobers that a Venus-Pluto connection between two charts is a sign that you are Twin Selves - when other aspects are also present. Well, I have Venus-Pluto conjunct in Libra - and they are two of my ruling planets. I've always taken this to signify that I will eventually meet my Twin - after many trials!!! So far I've lived through pretty much every manifestation of Venus-Pluto imaginable in my romantic relationships, from power-complexes and obsessive relationships to the death of my last boyfriend. Somehow, though, rather than depressing me - well, it does sometimes! - my experiences have made me more positive. I guess I had a lot of stuff I had to - and still have- to learn.
But - back to Venus-Pluto in chart comparison - obviously, anyone born within a couple of years of me is going to have Pluto conjunct my Venus-Pluto conjunction. Does this indicate that my Twin is about the same age as me? And - from a broader perspective, what does this mean?
Any information regarding this aspect would be much appreciated!
I saw a psychic a year or so ago; she was spot on about lots of stuff but a bit off on others - but she told me that I already knew my Twin, that he was someone from my past. Someone unexpected, she said, and not my 'type' - which was a very good thing as I have terrible taste in men! - That's exactly what she said! So naturally, I've been racking my brains, trying to figure out who on earth it could be.....and wondering if she was totally wrong about that!
Recently I've been driving everyone nuts asking - how do you know when you're really attracted to someone? I know it sounds crazy, but because of various things that have happened in my life, for the past few years it's as though that part of me is switched off. I can appreciate good looks or a good sense of humour, good conversation, or a nice body - without feeling the slightest twinge of sexual attraction. Even if I honestly do really like someone, I'm always determined to keep it platonic, although it's hard to deal with if they have other intentions. Then they're either hurt when I turn them down, or I feel used, and wonder if they really liked ME at all, or were just trying to get me into bed. My instinct is to back off completely...... I'm really bad at dealing with that. And there are some people who I cut out of my life because of that kind of situation, and I miss - as friends! - and wish that I had dealt with things better.

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Aphrodite
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From: San Francisco, CA, United States
Registered: Feb 2002

posted June 27, 2003 04:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aphrodite     Edit/Delete Message
I'm confused about how you identify whether someone is a Twin, and on what level.

Honestly, trust your intuition.

But as far as a romantic reltionship goes, does it matter whether the people involved are Soul Mates, Twin Souls, Twin Flames or what?

No, it doesn't matter.

Does it depend on how spiritually evolved you are as to who you will connect to?

Love is all.

Does this indicate that my Twin is about the same age as me?

Venus-Pluto contacts are indications. There are no guarantees.

No, he/she may not be the same age.

how do you know when you're really attracted to someone?

You just know. And you know when you don't have to over analyze everything

Welcome to the website

Aphrodite

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StarLover33
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From: King Arthur's Camelot
Registered: Jun 2002

posted June 27, 2003 06:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for StarLover33     Edit/Delete Message
Katie don't worry. It will only wrack your brains, trying hard to figure it out. Don't bother to look for your Twin Self, it will happen in it's own unique way.
I also wouldn't recommend waiting for you're Twin Self because you must learn from having other relationships with different kinds of people. But of course be mindful.
Some people have really bad intuition and wouldn't know their Twin Self if they were staring each other in the face. Like I said, don't worry it will happen on its own.

-StarLover

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lovely
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From: CA
Registered: May 2003

posted June 29, 2003 07:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lovely     Edit/Delete Message
hi there, i have a quick question regarding pluto venus "contacts". when using the word "contact" does this mean by trine, sextile, conj..or square opposition or all of the above?

ps. my venus is in virgo, and it seems every significant relationship in my life (so far) has been with people who have pluto in virgo (ven-plu conj). my pluto is in libra, does this mean my mate's venus would also need to make contact to my own pluto for there to be that twin soul potential?

thanks.

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anafaery
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From: west coast, yummy rain forest, canada
Registered: Jun 2003

posted June 30, 2003 12:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for anafaery     Edit/Delete Message
my husband and i have mutual pluto/venus stuff going on. his is in libra, and i am a libra sun. mine is in virgo, and he is a virgo sun. i do feel and always have that we are connected through some kind of 'kismetted' connection, at the very least i feel i am here to help him, possibly from 'drowning'. he has a deep deep tie to me... hes very dependant on me and he doesnt even realize how much! it kills him right now to be away from me. its so weird because honestly? we werent really a very likely couple. i am 9 years older than him, and sometimes it shows. *sigh* its all good though. we have our moments and good lord can he hurt me... but i really have a way of being able to soothe him and make him feel at peace again.

now if he would just get his life in order...

as far as psychics, be VERY careful with what you believe about them. its very hard for me personally to trust a psychic. i know that many in the 'psychic' community take advantage of people too. some are even charlatans, they can make a few simple observations about a person (for example, if they are wearing jewellry) and craft something seemingly 'psychic' from that. just listen to your inner self, and always question what you hear so that you have a balanced perspective. i dont doubt that psychics exist (heck i am one) but be careful.

a psychic i saw told me that i would meet and marry a man who was older than me, quite a bit older, and that i would meet him in a school setting. ok well i met my husband through the intervention of a friend who wanted us to hook up, and we met in an online videogame, and he was 9 years younger. that psychic was just completely totally wrong. i might be hard to read, in her defence, i have some very effective shields, but still. if she couldnt see anything, then SAY SO. she was an idiot. i dont like older men anyway, not really older like she suggested, and ive been sexually assaulted by them, so there was no way in hell i was gonna fu*king get involved with one in a romantic relationship.

im sorry i dont mean to sound so critical... im just getting so sick and tired of people being taken advantage of, when they put their trust in someone for sincere help. it makes me sick to my stomach. *sigh*

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pidaua
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From: Annapolis, Maryland USA
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posted July 02, 2003 06:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pidaua     Edit/Delete Message
Anafaery,

There is a deep connection with the Sun-Pluto thing. My Ex was a Virgo and my Pluto is in Virgo. He was very tied to me and it felt as though I was making good on a promise I made lifetimes ago. His Pluto is in Leo which trined my sun. Unfortunately, there is also major power struggles with the Sun conjunct Pluto aspect.

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