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theFajita3
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posted October 14, 2003 06:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for theFajita3     Edit/Delete Message
I am head over heels about a Libra. I would love to know what anyone would think could come of our relationship. Now, I feel it important to add that I am not looking to settle down/get married, that type of thing. I would like to think we could be great friends and enjoy each other sensually. OK this all the data I can get for them: 10/3/66 Fort Lauderdale, FL, USA
me 2/11/81 Torrance, CA, USA

How do we go together?! I care for this person very deeply and they are always on my mind!!!

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posted October 15, 2003 12:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aphrodite     Edit/Delete Message
hi fajita,

do you have the birthtimes?

a.

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theFajita3
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posted October 15, 2003 04:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for theFajita3     Edit/Delete Message
I was born at 7:25pm but I don't know their time

I was hoping our other aspects other than asc might be compatible?

We spoke for a long time last night. We're in love! We cannot be together physically till feb/march though. But that's Ok until then we write and talk. I really hope something wonderful comes out of this. It's been a long time since I felt so much desire for someone!

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posted October 15, 2003 04:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aphrodite     Edit/Delete Message
Miss Fajita,

Wow, lots of chemistry

Love is flawless, it's relationships that require work. Go for it sweetie

Love,

Aphrodite

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theFajita3
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posted October 15, 2003 11:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for theFajita3     Edit/Delete Message
Thanks bunches Aphrodite!! I will go for it. I know I'll have to keep in mind that I will not be her only one, but def her number one. And that is ok because truth me told I am sorta the same way. oh, us air signs!

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sthenri
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posted October 17, 2003 01:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sthenri     Edit/Delete Message
Hi there, it's a good combination, but I have to tell you Libras love a commitment. A libra isn't one to not feel deeply. I have known a few Libras who have been burnt by being desired physically and then felt exploited. Subconciously I think, a promise is made for Libras that they expect to be acted on, or the desire does not increase.

I know quite a few Libra/Aquarius couples but the Libras are always the ones who demand a monogamous relationship. It can be tough negotiating too, so I would prepare for that possibility but saying yes or no to yourself before the Libra tells you what he or she thinks.

Having been snagged by a Libra myself, I know:>

Natasha
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Gemini/7th house Mercury
Sag Rising/Conjunct Mars

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posted October 17, 2003 12:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aphrodite     Edit/Delete Message
I love how some air signs can be so non-chalant about the person they love seeing other people too. How do you all do that?

I am completely opposite Too jealous, possessive, emotional, faithful, and intense.

Love,
The Scary Aphrodite

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posted October 18, 2003 11:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message
Scary...

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"Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark

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posted October 18, 2003 11:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Oxychick     Edit/Delete Message
Dunno what you mean.

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theFajita3
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posted October 18, 2003 07:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for theFajita3     Edit/Delete Message
Hey guys! Thank you all for helping. Natasha, it would be my dream come true if this Libra would want to be monogomous. Trust me when I tell you this is not what they want. But if it were to be, I would be fine with that. er, so I say. hehee. But seriously, I am not just trying to use or exploit this person, I love everything about them and we plan to be friends for life no matter what. I was just curious how our energies would be.
Oh Aphrodite don't think I'm that good, sometimes it is easier said than done to be this way. For instance I spoke with this person a little while ago, and they mentioned they had been hit on by a lot of other people. I have to admit I fumed a little, and wanted to go and claim my territory, haha. But then you know, I went out, and chatted up with other people, found myself flirting, but still knowing I ultimately want to be with the Libra, and remembered that we were each other's number one, and that is wonderful. Also, Aphrodite, I have unfortunetely hurt some people who didn't share my theory of "well they might have had my body but they didn't get my heart, honey!" I am now learning not to commit myself to relationships that I truly don't want to be monogamous in. (duh d!)

Thanks all for your help. I am going to keep you all posted on this!!

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posted October 18, 2003 08:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aphrodite     Edit/Delete Message
Hi Danita,

Okay, so I am not the only one who can get scary I feel better already. LOL.

There is a line in a song I think you might like:

"If I could be everyone and anything (to you), this life would be so easy."

*sighs*

Lots of love and strength to you, in everything you do.

Love,

Amy

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posted October 18, 2003 11:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for theFajita3     Edit/Delete Message
thanks so much!!

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posted October 19, 2003 11:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for proxieme     Edit/Delete Message
Aph - I can be scary, too, w/ my Scorp Rising, Venus in Taurus, and Leonine Mars
But Jase can be, too, I guess w/ his Taurean Moon and Scorp Rising, and muh Fishy Sun rather likes it.

D - (!!!) I'M SO HAPPY FOR YOU!!!

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posted October 19, 2003 02:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for theFajita3     Edit/Delete Message
THANKS!

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posted October 21, 2003 10:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sthenri     Edit/Delete Message
If this helps...in all of us there is devil and an angel, I have found in Air signs, there is both, usually at the same time. You never know why the mood changes. Some of us feel like a devil and it makes us feel dependent on the other person to be around. When we are feeling independent we feel the angel inside.
You have to let your mind go free and say Hello to new ideas, and have an open mindset instead of feeling guilty for wanting someone around.

We all feel alone sometimes but I think we have a difficult time with needing someone, because it's traditionally a sign of weakness.

There is a song by the Beatles, Why do you say Goodbye, when I say Hello? I love the freshness, the openness of that song. We all have to say Hello to someone over and over again, because the other's mood changes and we have to stay open to the other person so we feel happy with this new person in our lives. Otherwise we can rigid and it's hard to trust someone, even someone we know well. And once that doubt creeps in, the mood changes.

The devil to me in songs is always about making you feel alone without faith, that there is always another person out there, but who could leave you at anytime. God in songs is about being left alone until tomorrow, there is nobody around, but there is faith.

There is an Irish song that goes....Men are like the stars on a summers eve, first they appear, and then they are gone. What the song is saying that people are faithless and undependable, but God always is because the stars always come back. But we can't worship the stars, only the faith that makes them come back. God is always the faith, the opposition of loneliness in all gospel songs. The devil bugs you and sends you doubts, lies, and makes you feel lonely and wants you to look for another lover because yours will always leave. In songs, the lover is about to leave, doubt has crept in, faith has been lost.

Being around Libra and Aqua lovers for the most part of my life I can tell you without a doubt that air signs are very moody and have trouble accepting their own guilt in a relationship. Once guilt or doubt creeps in, the devil creeps in with all sorts of lies, doubts, and loneliness rears it's ugly head. Watch out if you encounter these moods because all the faith in the world in your lover won't save you. It's best to talk about how you feel, or show how you feel as clearly as you can. Be sure to talk about your fear, and anger too because Air signs want to hide the fear away.

None of us are happy all the time, but if you are unhappy with your Air signs say it, right away, don't hide it away or else loneliness will rear it's empty head and there will be doubt, lies, fear, and guilt. Guilt that's unexplained always makes us feel evil, as if we did something we can't explain. Guilt is a useless feeling that fades, but we all have that side of us, the devil side, and angel side, and they are both necessary.
Finding new ways of caring about ourselves...


"Sing a song if you don't know what to say
Hide behind my eyes and if I cry watch the raindrops fall. You can't leave. if I'm sad, you're sad, if I'm happy, you're happy. Is that love? I can't leave anyway, I'm trapped behind your eyes"

That's my moody-broody air sign poem
Natasha

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posted October 21, 2003 10:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sthenri     Edit/Delete Message
Go to sleep little baby
Your mamas gone away and your daddy going to stay, they didn't leave nobody but the baby
go to sleep you little baby
everyone's gone but the corn and the cotton
didn't leaven nothin but the baby
You're a sweet little baby
honey and the rock and the sugar don't stop
going to bring a bottle to the baby
don't you weep pretty baby....
dont' you weep pretty baby...
she's long gone with the red shoes on
going to need another loving baby
go to sleep little baby
go to sleep you little baby
you and me the devil makes three
don't need no other loving baby
go to sleep little baby
go to sleep you little baby
going to lay your bones on the alabaster stones
and leave me everloving baby...

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posted October 21, 2003 12:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for theFajita3     Edit/Delete Message
Well I don't want to irritate my Libra with my Aquarius ways and vice versa. I will value whatever our union together brings. I am just smitten I always remember, it's better to have loved and lost than never loved at all. Whatever happens happens, I will do my best to treat this person as I would like to be treated, which I find is a pretty good policy in life. I don't like the thought of having a "devil" side of me, but I know there is a side of me that can sometimes be very stubborn and a multitude of other negative things. I am working now on correcting some of the weaknesses that come with my aspects, but it takes time to change some of the way I've been for years. I'm changing though, I've already made some changes, it's nice to GROW.

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posted November 08, 2003 09:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for theFajita3     Edit/Delete Message
she called me today! She wrote me yesterday! She says I am her number 1!!!!!

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posted November 08, 2003 09:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sthenri     Edit/Delete Message
Wonderful! Libra love is grand..

Natasha

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posted November 10, 2003 11:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aphrodite     Edit/Delete Message
You go Fajita

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posted November 10, 2003 11:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for theFajita3     Edit/Delete Message
Thanks so much Aphrodite She wrote me ANOTHER letter today it's so beautiful!!

She wrote: "Upon exiting, I think we could make it work, you and me, so I guess we'll just leave this for thought; but I'm actually setting myself for you " she put a smiley face there.

Also "I tell you what, when you and me get together, I feel as if I'll be the luckiest person in the world. I love you Donna "

"Continue to excel. You know what Donna, me and you gonna make it!"

"Be careful on the tri-rail. I worry about you!"

"Sweetheart, I love love love you. Your all mine!"

OK sorry to be sticky sweet posting nice things she wrote to me, I am just so happy and really for once feelin' someone who feels me. Often I want someone who doesn't want me, or someone wants me who I don't want, and it's like we finally found each other thru all the rubble.

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posted November 10, 2003 11:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aphrodite     Edit/Delete Message
Awwwwwwwww

I'm so glad you've found someone who makes you happy. That just makes me smile

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THat's funny how a lot of people in here are saying about Libras and commitment. Maybe its because I am still young, and so are the Libra males I meet. But the ones I know usually get "stuck" in the lnog term relationships, but they aren't really aiming towards marriage. They do have this need for emotinal stability in their lives ecause they are so unstable themselves, but I think in their search for that (the males anyways) accidently go to far, and then next thing they know they are married before they are even ready to be.

My Libra guy now's bday is Oct 3 as well, but hes 1983. Weve been tgoether 9 months, but marriage is not a term we throw around.

And previous to him I have dated quite a few, or been attracted to quite a few different libras and all of them its been the same case. They love to be in love, but as for marriage usually, when they are young anyways, they aren't really wanting that. Although they do have a throng of long term relationships under their belt before they do tie the knot, these i think they use as good ways to learn what the monogamous life is like, before they take that final plunge. Of course this is only reffering to Libra males (young), Libra females I find to be very different.

I do hhope that they do get into mongamy as they get older, since it seems I am constantly drawn to these men, and I can see myself ending up with them, if it is true about them being good at commitment. =)

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posted December 11, 2003 06:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aphrodite     Edit/Delete Message
"They do have this need for emotinal stability in their lives ecause they are so unstable themselves."

Would you elaborate some more about this?

Thanks!

A.

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