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Topic: U ALL ARE SMART WITH LOVE ISSUES-PLEASE HELP SOLVE MINE
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ineedlove
Knowflake Posts: 226
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Registered: Jul 2002
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posted October 31, 2003 08:26 PM
 
Hey everyone!
The guy I'm interested in is a cancer with a leo asc.-i think (July 5 1980 Algena, Eritea i think 10am)
And my birthday is (May 8 1984 9:48 am Queens NY)
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*I would like to ask u all a few questions
1-Can u please do an astrology reading on us?
2-In the astrology chart does it show compatibilty and faithfulness?
3-Does it show that we will ever be together romantically?
4-Does he think about me as much as I think of him?
5-Is his true intensions of me good-and can I trust him?
*6-Also can u please give any clues on how we can make this relationship work I do care for him although we have only known each other since late August.
-- This is the story--
See I know this guy from work he has my heart and I have feelings for him. He said that he likes me and that he finds me attractive. And we were supposed to go out 1 day, he invited me to go somewhere.
GUESS WHERE HE INVITED ME....
to a parking lot* -YES a parking lot. So I declined....DID I DO THE RIGHT THING NOT TO GO WITH HIM TO THE PARKING LOT? I mean I trust him cause we work together-but a parking lot I don't know!?!? On the phone he says that no girls are tying to be with him romantically! I really wanna know more about this guy's astrologically! I'm intregued by him his birthday is July 5 1980 I think his ascendant is in leo cause he's so bossy. I want to love him. But I need to know if he would be fathful to me or not! In the astrology between us do u show that we will be fathful-better yet do u show that we will ever be TOGETHER ROMANTICALLY? Please let me know what I should do I want to be his girl he has a lot of girls that are his friends so im confused as to why he dosent have a girl friend I think of him a lot do u think he thinks of me too. I will do anything please just let me know about him IT'S DRIVING ME INSANE!!!!!!!THANKS A MILLION -U GUYS ARE THE BEST I MEAN IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! IP: Logged |
Sylven
Knowflake Posts: 160
From: Of Elvenkind
Registered: Jul 2003
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posted November 02, 2003 10:56 AM
Are you serious?You know what? You can still love him! Why would you want to know all of this astrology stuff? I don't think it will tell you the things you want to know. You come accross very insecure. Girl...you are the treasure, the flower to be picked! Let it be the most beautiful, colourful one! Don't be afraid of your heart! Love him without judgement or expectations. You'll see, this will make you feel wonderful! So what if he turns out this or that!? You are able to love and that is the most important and beautiful thing you can feel!
Florish dear! My senses? It says, wait for him to contact YOU! No otherway around! This is very important. If he likes you too he will let you know again. It does sound he only wants *certain* things from you! I am sorry.. this is how it sounds.
Remember you are special!!!!
And...
Be patient my dear!  IP: Logged |
CappyChic
Knowflake Posts: 63
From: Kent, Ohio, USA
Registered: May 2003
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posted November 08, 2003 06:26 AM
Hey what's up ineed love? Anyway, he invited you to a parking lot? That's kinda weird. I understand what you're going through though. It sounds like you really like this guy. But it seems like you don't really know him all that well by what you wrote. How long have you known him? Your questions can't really be answered by us or astrology, only you know the answers and if you don't yet, only you can find out the answers. If you don't know if you can trust him or if he will be faithful to you then you need to find out. Get to know him on a one on one level. I went through the same kind of thing not too long ago with a guy at my work. I learned my lesson the hard way. Anyway, do what makes you happy and I think it was good that you didn't go to the parking lot to meet him. Astrologically, all I know is that Taurus and Cancer are generally a good match so I think you should do what you think is best and trust your self. IP: Logged |
ineedlove
Knowflake Posts: 226
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Registered: Jul 2002
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posted February 04, 2004 07:37 AM
Thank u everyone for your replies and I've known him from the end of July... do you all think he is going to call me 4 valentines day at least? Lets make bet!!!!lol  IP: Logged |
astro junkie
Knowflake Posts: 1327
From: orlando, fl
Registered: Nov 2003
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posted February 04, 2004 12:26 PM
I bet no....What would you do, how would you feel if he did NOT call you Valentines' Day? .gloria ------------------
it's better to light a candle than curse the darkness... IP: Logged |
starflower
Knowflake Posts: 129
From: uk
Registered: Oct 2003
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posted February 04, 2004 01:15 PM
Oh so I was following your story over at the Astrology forum.I'm a little concerned now that I know more about your history. You know sweetheart, I dont want to sound like Mom here (although I am old enough to be and I do have Cancer Moon!!), I think maybe you should try to forget about this guy. There are so many nice guys out there.
You are giving me the impression that you are a sweet, caring and deep feeling person. You deserve a guy who cares about you, and who wants to spend time with you.
Have your friends given you any advice about him?What do they think of him? IP: Logged |
starflower
Knowflake Posts: 129
From: uk
Registered: Oct 2003
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posted February 04, 2004 01:18 PM
oh yea and please read what Sylven wrote. You posted this over 3 months ago.In my experience a guy who likes you and wants to get to know you as a person, well he would invite you on a date.A walk in the park, coffee, or whatever. He would not ask you to go to a parking lot with him. IP: Logged |
pixelpixie
Knowflake Posts: 1606
From: ontario, canada
Registered: Aug 2003
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posted February 04, 2004 04:32 PM
ABSO-F%$#@-lutely!!!
The parking lot?
Was he raised in a barn?
Doesn't he know when a woman shows her desire to get to know you on a different level, it is only on the Jerry Springer show, that she means with her shirt off!?
*shakes her head*
As long as you demand respect, you will receive it from those valuable enough to realize that. In other words, he is not worth your heart.IP: Logged |
ineedlove
Knowflake Posts: 226
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Registered: Jul 2002
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posted February 04, 2004 05:41 PM
I guess u are right and he is always pressuring me to go to his house... and trying to get to my house. I wish he acted better cause we're soulmates...
his chiron is conjunct my venus
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my chiron is conjunct his venusAnd one day on the phone I asked him
"What are your intentions of me"
he got a little cranky and said
"man all u think I want to do is hit and run"
then I was like
"no I just wanted to know how u feel"
then he said
"I'll tell u when I see u"
and GUESS WHAT....
he never told me
and he asked me how I felt before I asked him so I told him
"I like u as more than a friend"
then there was :::silence::: I don't know?... I want to forget about him but its hard
and the funny thing is when i first saw him i tried to keep my distances from him....
my mind told me "RUUUUNNNNN!!!" lol
When I saw him caused he seemed so bossy and mean..... and 1 day i remmber overhearing him talking badly about this pregnaunt lady... saying stuff like "dosen't her belly look so nasty".... cause it was big. And I'm thinking to myself "what a jerk its not like she can help the fact that her belly is big she's carrying a baby for goodness sake and what it we're twins- u know. whenever i remember he said that i dont like him....I wish a new man would come along for me. Does anyone know when my transit shows a new guy... my bday is may 8 1984 9:48am queens ny.... even if its years from now at least i could know there's hope My friends think I should forget about him... they don't like him either and they think i got it bad cause i'm always talking about him. I wish I never met him... why did I have to meet him WHYYYYY??????? Love really hurts so bad!  I bet u he dosen't think about me either I'm the fool thats always thinking of him him him y meeee y meeee thank u for listening everyone im sorry for all this confusing its just such a hurting thing IP: Logged |
starflower
Knowflake Posts: 129
From: uk
Registered: Oct 2003
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posted February 04, 2004 06:21 PM
Hi, I dont know enough about Astrology to tell you if there is the possibility of a new relationship just around the corner. I do know that Astrology can never guarantee anything.It shows what is possible. And I also know, because I've been through bad experiences with the opposite sex, that you are hurting a lot right now. From what you have told us about this guy he doesnt deserve you. Really if he wants to get to know you as a person, he would want to spend time with you. He wouldnt be inviting you to his house, or himself to yours. He would be making the time, making an effort to impress you. Thats what boys do when they reall like a girl for who she is. They think about where to take you on a date, think about things to do that will impress you. Most likely he is attracted to you, but in the physical sense. The only way to get him out of your head is to get on with the rest of your life. Like I said elsewhere to you, you are so young, you have everything in this world to look forward to. IP: Logged |
BlueTopaz124
Knowflake Posts: 10
From: Pacific Northwest
Registered: Jan 2004
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posted February 04, 2004 06:43 PM
Hi! I'm new to this board, but Ineedlove, your posts caught my attention. Try to forget this guy - whenever thoughts about him pop into your head - immediately think of something else - train your mind to think about something else, not this guy. Honey, you're so young! You have so much of your life ahead of you and plenty of chances to date other guys and fall in love! The reason you met this guy is to show you what you don't want from a man or in a relationship. Unfortunately, it's the painful experiences that we really learn lessons from, not the piece of cake, easy ones. He knows you're interested and is trying to get you to admit your feelings without admitting his. Don't confuse this with his having feelings for you; and don't give your heart away to this man. Think first about about what you want out of any relationship and what would make you happy. He (and any guy) MUST earn your affection, don't give it away easily. Let a guy show real interest - he'll want to spend time with you and is interested in your life and cares for you, not take advantage of your feelings. I also wanted to add: Once you meet someone who is making you happy, you won't ask these questions and you'll wonder what you ever saw in him...trust me! IP: Logged |
starflower
Knowflake Posts: 129
From: uk
Registered: Oct 2003
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posted February 04, 2004 07:02 PM
ABSOLUTELY!! IP: Logged |
ineedlove
Knowflake Posts: 226
From:
Registered: Jul 2002
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posted February 04, 2004 07:03 PM
Thank u everyone!
I thought of what I'm going to do when I see him next Wednesday. When he says "what's up"
I'll say "what's up" back But if he tries to talk to me further I'm going to look him dead in the eyes.... give him a MEAN LOOK and say " LEAVE ME ALONE"!
Do u all think that will work? IP: Logged |
ineedlove
Knowflake Posts: 226
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Registered: Jul 2002
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posted February 04, 2004 07:14 PM
Oh and Astro Junkie if he dosen't call me for valentines day I would be hurt.... especially since I made him some decorations for his key chain. Do u think he wants me to call him for valentines day? Don't worry I'm not going to call him lol at least not until he calls me. Do u all think he is ever going to call me. If so when do u think that he would call?Lets all make a bet. I feel so confused I like him and I don't like him. Do u all think he has a girlfriend? Thank u everyone!!! IP: Logged |
astro junkie
Knowflake Posts: 1327
From: orlando, fl
Registered: Nov 2003
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posted February 04, 2004 10:34 PM
INeed Love -I'm gonna talk to you like you are an adult and you know what you're doing. If you knew you were gonna give it up to this guy so you can experience his beautiful love stick, then you also knew you'd have to know when to FOLD. A girl doesn't go out and play unless she has a few tricks up her sleeve, now does she? But if you're the type who's feelings keep getting in the way no matter what, then you need to tone it all down. Admit you're not such a player. DON'T GET HURT!!! .gloria ------------------
it's better to light a candle than curse the darkness... IP: Logged |
ineedlove
Knowflake Posts: 226
From:
Registered: Jul 2002
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posted February 04, 2004 11:06 PM
Thank u astro junkie
soo....
when I see him next Wednesday.
When he says "what's up"
I'll say "what's up" backBut if he tries to talk to me further I'm going to look him dead in the eyes.... give him a MEAN LOOK and say " LEAVE ME ALONE"!
Do u think that will work? P.S. I forgot to tell u all that the 1st week we knew each ther he did invite me to a book store with him. Unfortuneately I declined because I had business to take care of. IP: Logged |
sthenri
Knowflake Posts: 1125
From: New England US
Registered: May 2003
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posted February 06, 2004 12:09 AM
Hi In Need of Love, I am a Taurus too. trust me when I say that I Understand you.
But making decorations for his keychain is not love, it's art.
You are an artist, and love is an art too. Since you are ruled by Venus naturally you want love in your life so that you can run with it, and decorate your life with someone who enhances your self image. You are naturally graceful and artistic and want the same things. You are a love artist.I used to make things like that all the time...for other people...now I make them for myself... Try a Libra, or a Capricorn or even an Aqua. The best places to meet men are at trade shows, especially anything to do with electronics, or start your own side artistic business and go to trade shows yourself. Men appreciate a woman in business and who knows what she is doing with her life. Work on your career first, and that will attract your mate.
Taurus mates are always attracted to the Taurean strong career image first, so you need to develop that, same as Capricorn. That will help you channel and project your true image. But I have been just as much in love, and have had just as many crushes as you. But this guy is just a crush, not love. "Love is just another word for nothing left to lose, Nothing, that's all that he left me" If feeling good is easy loving, then let me sing the blues...If feeling good is good enough for him, then feeling good is good enough for me..."
Janis Joplin Nothing left to lose feels romantic because it is, you are a true romantic soul, serious and poetic.
Try writing poetry, I am sure you are good. Natasha
Taurus/6th house IP: Logged |
ineedlove
Knowflake Posts: 226
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Registered: Jul 2002
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posted February 06, 2004 03:18 AM
Thank u sterni so much for the reply. Yup I'm a taurus too (in the 11th house). I wish me and him could fall in love though. Guess its not meant to be. I dated an aquarius before he was my age .... he was a lier and a cheater..... I do have friends that are libra they are real nice and I guess u picked capricorn also because its in my 7th house....I dont THINK I met a capricorn male yet..... but I'll keep looking. Thank u for the advice. And your right I'am pretty good at writing poetry. Thank u again!!! IP: Logged |
archangelgabby411
Knowflake Posts: 20
From: orlando,florida,usa
Registered: Feb 2004
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posted February 08, 2004 10:35 PM
trust your instincts and listen to what they say Ive learned this as wel,aldo ruled by venus Im a libra,you did right trust your instincts always.IP: Logged |
ineedlove
Knowflake Posts: 226
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Registered: Jul 2002
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posted February 09, 2004 03:18 PM
Thank you Angel I will trust my instinct because when I first saw him my instincts told me to "RUNNNNNNNN!!!" Lol but I didn't listen to myself.... and he turned out to be bad news So your right it is good to trust your instincts and from now on I'm going to trust mine!IP: Logged |
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