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ltx
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From: Lichtenburg, NorthWest, South Africa
Registered: Nov 2003

posted November 18, 2003 01:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ltx     Edit/Delete Message
I've recently met and fallen head over heels in love with an Aries man, I'm a typical Pisces woman and as I have never been involved with an Aries man before, know absolutely nothing about Aries men, except that he's a fire sign. I feel as if I'm going to get hurt in a big way (something I can't afford at this stage of my life) and want to know if we have a chance ?? Can anyone tell me if we're compatible at all ?

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Randall
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posted November 18, 2003 01:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message
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hooked
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posted November 18, 2003 01:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hooked     Edit/Delete Message
Hi Itx,

I don't think that Aries and Pisces are easily compatible sun sign placements, just by element alone. You should look at the entire chart...If he has a pisces moon or you have an aries moon, that would help things along. You can go to www.astro.com to get your charts done for free. They also have short compatibility reports using your natal charts.

I think Aries men find the thrill in the chase and tend to get bored easily. On the other hand, they like to take the lead and I find most of them to be of the alpha male variety, which would be great for the typical Pisces woman.

By the way, if you don't feel good about a situation, I would listen to your intuition. As a Pisces woman, I have found my intuition to be accurate after all things have played out.

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ltx
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From: Lichtenburg, NorthWest, South Africa
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posted November 19, 2003 01:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ltx     Edit/Delete Message
Dear Hooked,
thanks for your reply - This man really appeals to my feminine side, physically my perfect ten and he's so intense and seems very sincere and says the most beautiful things. By the way, he talks a lot! Do Aries Men ? I shouldn't get so deeply involved (personal reasons and my current situation) but it's a question of my head says one thing and my heart another !! I also feel desperate for someone to adore me, i've been "in control" for so long and just feel I need to break out - words of a poem by Sara Teasdale comes to mind, something to the nature of : " Oh plunge me deeply in love - put out all my senses, leave me deaf and blind..." !

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hooked
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posted November 19, 2003 03:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hooked     Edit/Delete Message
I think Pisces women want to feel protected and most of all to belong to someone. Sometimes we get ourselves into nasty relationships that way and it isn't easy for us to break out of them. Yes, we want to belong to someone, but at what cost? Usually the cost is the equality of the relationship, and our needs seem to get the short end of the deal. Why would it matter to a pisces who equates love with self-sacrafice?

You say you are desperate for someone to adore you, and that makes me worry. I know the bliss of carelessly tossing my own priorities and getting lost in another's heart. Sometimes fish need to swim upstream and be more cautious and selective about who they let into their lives, because we are so willing to get lost.

If you are looking for a long term relationship, I would be more cautious with this Aries. It sounds like this is all just beginning. It's probably a good indication if he talks a lot. He is probably not easily bored with you

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sthenri
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posted November 19, 2003 08:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sthenri     Edit/Delete Message
HI, yes you will learn more if you post your birthdata along with his.

Pisces love to lose their heart, but get it back again. The problem is he may be confused by this. If it's a dream or fantasy you don't want it. Don't get lost in a rescue, Prince Charming, or Cinderella fantasy and grab the nearest person to share it with you because you may find out he doesn't want to be part of the fantasy. It's not always easy for an Aries to blend into a Pisces, too independent. Forget fantasy for a while. Fantasy is for yourself, it hurts your partner to give up his self identity for you, no matter how you look at it. He is the one giving up for you, not vice versa since it's your fantasy. I love this song by a Cap/12th house Sun.

By By Baby By By
Well, I guess you know you're on your own
You must have got lost somewhere out there on the road and left me here to face it on my own
You left me here to face it on my own
You left me here to face it all on my own
By By Baby By By..

I get the feeling I could chase you clean across the state and end up being left somewhere left out, cold and stoned and all alone
I don't have time to wait on you, or to serve you with a silver bowl, I've got lots of things I've got to do....Don't you know, I got to go...places to see, people to know...By By Baby By By...

It took me a long time to understand the meaning of that song, because I don't chase men literally, but I finally understood when I started chasing men emotionally. It took 20 years to learn the meaning of that song. Don't wait too long to say Baby By By if you hear this song in your head.
I've got a 12th house Neptune trine my Moon so you bet I'm Neptunian, I can lose myself in a heartbeat.

Natasha
Taurus/6th house Sun
Scorpio/12th house Neptune
"If it's a dream I DON"T want it"

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castalia
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posted November 25, 2003 01:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for castalia     Edit/Delete Message
Hi ltx - saw your note at the end of the other topic where I asked about Aries men. I can relate...I too am head over heels for my Aries man. Relationship is still going (thanks for asking) but it is certainly tough to determine where he is exactly. We are friends, but he knows I have stronger feelings than that, he just wants to make sure he isn't rushing into something, so I figure I have to let him date whoever and if he decides at some point, this friend (me) is for him, then we'll go from there. Though, I don't intend to wait. It's just tough because like someone else said, I think Aries men do like the thrill of the chase. That is sooo not me though. I don't do that game...if I want something, I let you know and I go for it. If I have to play the hard to get game for this guy, it will probably never work out for us. Also, I read somewhere that Aries men typically are always wondering what else is out there, like if there is someone better than who they are with just around the next corner. That seems to fit the guy I know pretty well...relationships that don't last too long...maybe for other reasons, but I venture to say the majority of the time it is because he questions whether or not the person he is with is the "best" for him or out there. It seems they can be a little bit in fantasy-land with their idea of a mate. Just my opinion on it. Keep us informed on how things go. I'd definitely be interested to know if you come across any good tips. Take care!

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