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posted November 22, 2003 10:36 PM         

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I am a virgo girl, and in june I had my heart shattered by my leo guy (we dated for 8 months), and I had not heard from him at all until the other day. I know he moved to a different state recently. On nov 18th, He sent me an email saying that he missed me, he feels bad about hurting me, and we should have talked things through, looks forward to hearing from me, and will write again soon... so I sent him an e-card back saying "I miss you too, it would be nice to talk to you on the phone again, my # is...". I know he received the e-card because I got a confirmation from the e-card website, but I haven't heard from him at all. I am wondering if I said something wrong that scared him or something, because I really wanted to hear from him, also he said he would write again soon, and it has been a few days...I know people get busy, but I hope he is not playing head games. Any advice would be appreciated. Do you think maybe he is thinking about what to say before he writes or something?

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posted November 23, 2003 02:31 PM         

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Tough to say. Wait a while longer.

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posted November 24, 2003 01:52 PM         

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Guys can be as flighty as you gals sometimes.

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posted November 24, 2003 11:44 PM         

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He's broken your heart once, do you want to give him the opportunity to do it again? He is probably just guilt tripping and thought if he apologised he would feel better. I say move on, Leo's tend to like reasurance that you still like them (to feed their ego). Once they know you do, then their job is done. Sorry if this is not what you want to hear.

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From: penrith,australia
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posted November 27, 2003 07:09 PM         

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hi purplezen,
whether or not this man is playing with your emotions..never second guess yourself...be true to your heart..dont apologize for saying how u feel..this is ur right..and its better to say how u feel and him not respond...than not speaking from your heart..and having him respond...u need to be urself..and then u can always walk with ur head high..as you have been true to your heart...even if its hurting

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posted November 27, 2003 10:24 PM         

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Thanks everyone...Cancermoon, I especially liked your advice. I heard from him the other day I will keep you posted.

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posted November 28, 2003 07:04 AM         

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hope it all goes well purplezen

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posted December 11, 2003 06:39 PM         

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