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Topic: How about Venus in Virgo?
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astro junkie Knowflake Posts: 1327 From: orlando, fl Registered: Nov 2003
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posted December 27, 2003 09:33 PM
How about experience with people with Venus in Virgo. How to they tend to function with the dynamics of romance?Thanks, .gloria ------------------ it's better to light a candle than curse the darkness... IP: Logged |
Aphrodite Moderator Posts: 3280 From: San Francisco, CA, United States Registered: Feb 2002
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posted December 29, 2003 10:45 AM
hi gloria,are you registered for the Free Astrology Course? there is a whole thread about venus in the signs that is a good read. in the meantime, we can examine the rules. the planet venus is the natural ruler of taurus and libra, and exalted in the sign pisces. the planet is in its "fall/detriment" in virgo --- the sign opposite pisces. if we draw out a horoscope wheel with aries rising, place venus in the natural houses first: 2nd, and 7th. we can spiral on those energies. venus is not in its natural home in the opposite signs, aries and scorpio. draw these into the charts and meditate on those energies. then draw in the exalted and fall. the next step is to draw the exalted chart, with scorpio rising. in this case venus is in the 5th house . . . more food for meditation and what the symbolisms are. ------------------ "If music be the food of love, play on." -Twelfth Night, by William Shakespeare IP: Logged |
astro junkie Knowflake Posts: 1327 From: orlando, fl Registered: Nov 2003
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posted December 29, 2003 01:18 PM
Hi Aprodite:I should have posted the topic as "Does Anyone Have Venus in Virgo". I'm not putting too much thought in my topic titles. I'm following everything you said until the part "draw these into the charts and meditate on those energies. then draw in the exalted and fall. the next step is to draw the exalted chart, with scorpio rising. in this case venus is in the 5th house . . . more food for meditation and what the symbolisms are." No, I've not signed up for astrology courses. Let me do that now. Thanks, .gloria ------------------ it's better to light a candle than curse the darkness... IP: Logged |
Aphrodite Moderator Posts: 3280 From: San Francisco, CA, United States Registered: Feb 2002
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posted December 29, 2003 02:10 PM
hi gloria,i have venus in pisces i've thought over a few days if there is anyone i know personally with venus in virgo . . . and the answer is nope. hopefully, that venus thread in the astrology course will be of great help. ------------------ "If music be the food of love, play on." -Twelfth Night, by William Shakespeare IP: Logged |
astro junkie Knowflake Posts: 1327 From: orlando, fl Registered: Nov 2003
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posted December 29, 2003 05:54 PM
Ah yes... Venus exalted in Pisces. ------------------ it's better to light a candle than curse the darkness... IP: Logged |
astro junkie Knowflake Posts: 1327 From: orlando, fl Registered: Nov 2003
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posted December 29, 2003 06:06 PM
Aphrodite:Trying to sign up for lessons, doesn't let me. How is it done? .gloria IP: Logged |
sthenri Knowflake Posts: 1125 From: New England US Registered: May 2003
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posted December 30, 2003 12:17 PM
After 7 years with a Venus in Virgo Libra Sun, I can answer some of your questions. What would you like to know? It's a loyal placement, bu tends to idealize the mate and look past problems. Also mine has had some real challenges with body image, he always thought he was too fat or too thin, or not good enough, when in fact he was the ultimate hottie. It made hot tempered sometimes.I have Venus in Aries/5th house, he has Venus in Virgo/5th house. Natasha Taurus/Sun/6th house intercepted in 7th IP: Logged |
Aphrodite Moderator Posts: 3280 From: San Francisco, CA, United States Registered: Feb 2002
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posted December 30, 2003 12:19 PM
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astro junkie Knowflake Posts: 1327 From: orlando, fl Registered: Nov 2003
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posted December 30, 2003 01:09 PM
Hi Sthenri:COOL!!! I need all the help I can get... I mean, I want to know everything, I don't know where to start. Let's see... Does he have any Scorpio sort of tippy things off kilter? I do tend to idealize my partner. I know Venus in Virgo tends to also attract ecentric types who need a little help. That's me. Thanks Aphrodite... .gloria
------------------ it's better to light a candle than curse the darkness...
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Aen Knowflake Posts: 144 From: Registered: Nov 2002
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posted December 30, 2003 01:41 PM
Gloria & Natasha,I wonder how much (or if at all) different Sun/Mars/Pluto stellium in Libra with Venus in Virgo would be? I suppose his external charm in megawatts combined with total reserve has something to do with this stellium. Venus in Virgo as well as Capricorn Moon would probably add resereve. Any comments? Aen IP: Logged |
astro junkie Knowflake Posts: 1327 From: orlando, fl Registered: Nov 2003
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posted December 30, 2003 02:13 PM
Aen:That term Stellium is something I saw for the first time on this forum, and I looked it up and not sure I fully understand it. Could you please play teacher and explain how you mean it, and in reference to what you are asking. I'm very interested. Thanks, .gloria ------------------ it's better to light a candle than curse the darkness... IP: Logged |
lovely* Knowflake Posts: 40 From: CA Registered: Jul 2003
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posted December 31, 2003 02:37 AM
hi everyone! yes we venus in virgos can have body image issues. i have sun moon placed there also. but i do not identify with the notion that the native's love nature is cooled. but what I AM aware of is my tendency to "hen-pick" as my husband likes to call it. im very particular with just about everything, but especially my mate, im always aware of his actions/behaviour/smell/tastes. i also tend to correct grammar (he is a sucessful litigator and relies on his verbal skills).. and *i* mind you, barely finished high school. i hear myself reminding him to lower his voice, to cover his mouth when he coughs and get on him for not brushing his teeth before bed...and i also "hen pick" or "bust balls" over his eating habits, what he wears to work in the morning. he asks; and i give my opinion. i would want the same from him. i cant help myself and sadly, the list of gripes is endless. today is a good example: he leaned over to kiss me hello.. instead of just loving on him, i asked him if he had mexican food for lunch today..LOL im sensitive to smells!! the poor leo. can u imagine what a nightmare it is to live with someone like me? a leo sun with venus in leo no less? i like to think im just honest with my love. does any of this factor in as a good thing...ever? hope this helps. i just like to help ya know. (smile) IP: Logged |
sthenri Knowflake Posts: 1125 From: New England US Registered: May 2003
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posted December 31, 2003 10:20 AM
I know that Venus in Virgo is picky, but loyal. They are attracted to those with fire placements, Venus, Mars or Ascendant in fire, or water moons. Venus in Virgo can act like the baby sometimes when picked on though so it doesn't work both ways, that's becuse the Virgo doesn't know about the nagging it's unconcious. You have to make an effort to be yourself and not seek approval too much from the Virgo.It's good to have separate lives with separate interests so that the virgo doesn't get moody if separated, kids and animals are a must, get an animal of some kind. Virgo rules small animals. Will type more later, Take Care, Natasha IP: Logged |
astro junkie Knowflake Posts: 1327 From: orlando, fl Registered: Nov 2003
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posted December 31, 2003 11:07 AM
Hey Lovely:First of all, as a Venus in Virgo who's never married I REALLY want to know how you snag a husband when you nag like that. I'm like peaches and cream compared to you. Please tell me the secret, I must be doing something wrong. Hee hee... no seriously, I want to know your romantic tale. One of the reasons I'm not like that with people anymore is because I had tragedy in my life and you learn to not sweat the little things. They do not matter worth a damn. Thanks for sharing more... Sthenri:
It's true, I love Fire Asc, Mars or Venus. The guy I like is Venus Aries and Leo rising 28.14. (almost Virgo rising) .gloria ------------------ it's better to light a candle than curse the darkness... IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 16464 From: Columbus, GA USA Registered: Nov 2000
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posted December 31, 2003 01:51 PM
You're in, AJ. ------------------ "Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark IP: Logged |
lovely* Knowflake Posts: 40 From: CA Registered: Jul 2003
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posted December 31, 2003 02:27 PM
astro, here are a couple of possibilities for you to ponder. first off, i think im very aware of my critical nature and somehow manage to balance it out with other qualities. most of the time, im very soft in my approach.. i come at him from a different angle and make sure the corrections are sandwiched with words of encouragement. "honey, those dress trousers dont work with the reef sandals, but i bet this would look fabulous *runs to the closet with enthusiasm*.. im not a cold ***** , im very maternal and adoring and will flatter him when its honest. also, he has a fair amount of "virgo traits".. he has his asc, merc, pluto and uranus in virgo. once when he was semi-drunk he told me he appreciates my honesty, even though he had never mentioned it to me before. he said something like.."my last wife allowed me to steam-roll her, and with you that's not possible, and i need someone like you to keep my attention". also.. *cringes* his father disapproved of him as a child, he was an over-achiever (still is) as a result. its goes with the theory which says the way we are loved as children is the way we seek to be loved as adults. his father had a virgo moon and asc. ALL that being said, i think it all simmers down to being true to your nature and standing strong on those inherent qualities we are all born with. i was given them with a sense of purpose and men can sniff out (psychically) conscious or unconsciously repressed feelings, and whatnot. so know and honor thyself and be honest girlfriend. HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!! IP: Logged |
Aphrodite Moderator Posts: 3280 From: San Francisco, CA, United States Registered: Feb 2002
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posted December 31, 2003 02:52 PM
At least a Venus in Virgo will criticize you sweetly . . . Other signs bark, decree, put poison in your soda, become fair weather friends, chat with the someone else, or worse yet . . . imagine you to be somebody else . . . Wait! The worse is calling you the wrong name . . . <Yeah.> But some people actually like that sort of thing and dress up too I'm just being naughty. Don't take me seriously . . . seriously. Your Neighborhood Shock Therapist, IP: Logged |
Aphrodite Moderator Posts: 3280 From: San Francisco, CA, United States Registered: Feb 2002
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posted December 31, 2003 03:10 PM
I just have to ask this . . .What if you do something wrong on purpose to a Venus in Virgo . . . . . . They get mad Then you say with a mischievous twinkle in the eye, "Are you going to spank me?" What would they do?
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Oxychick Moderator Posts: 2486 From: neither here nor there Registered: Jul 2002
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posted December 31, 2003 03:26 PM
One I know would laugh and say "Sure!"IP: Logged |
lovely* Knowflake Posts: 40 From: CA Registered: Jul 2003
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posted December 31, 2003 04:09 PM
*looks for smilie with whip* i adore naughty behaviour it brings out the best in me IP: Logged |
astro junkie Knowflake Posts: 1327 From: orlando, fl Registered: Nov 2003
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posted December 31, 2003 07:02 PM
If I may....This is how it's done Oh what they hay... it's New Year's Lovely:
I see what you mean now. You sandwich it in. I also see what you mean about how guys can see if you're insincere. The only thing I can't figure out yet is this thing about me, the way women are willing to "keep their man in line", or guys who feel they need that. What IS that? I'm not there... Thanks for sharing, .gloria ------------------ it's better to light a candle than curse the darkness... IP: Logged |
lovely* Knowflake Posts: 40 From: CA Registered: Jul 2003
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posted December 31, 2003 10:53 PM
OMG LMAO gloria!! too funny, where did you find those smilies?are you the blue one who reluctantly tries to hit the target but misses every time? ok, back to subject. um, there is a book out there i thought of today (i do not recall the name) but the premise is how men love biatchees.. perhaps that could be part of it? personally, i do not believe in playing a game and doing something un-natural but there could be something to this..and sorry to all the men out there reading this, but that book does exist.. are there any men on this forum other than lanny & randall? IP: Logged |
astro junkie Knowflake Posts: 1327 From: orlando, fl Registered: Nov 2003
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posted January 01, 2004 01:57 AM
Really hope you remember the title of that book. You mean men love women who are not so nicey nicey?The little gremlins, I just did a search on the Internet. I don't play games, period. I don't like being a baby sitter to men. I'm very much a believer in a certain independence. The whole thing about making a man feel guilty about stuff in order to manipulate them... I think that's how the majority of marriages stay together. Lately I keep thinking I'm better off with a friend/lover kind of husband or a brotherly kind of love, as opposed to the big grand prince on a white horse. Are they any guys here? We want into your heart and brain... What the heck makes a guy go koo koo? .gloria ------------------ it's better to light a candle than curse the darkness... IP: Logged |
Aphrodite Moderator Posts: 3280 From: San Francisco, CA, United States Registered: Feb 2002
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posted January 01, 2004 12:13 PM
I've read that book.Is it the one where you throw a red sock into the whites when he asks you to do his laundry for the first time? IP: Logged |
sthenri Knowflake Posts: 1125 From: New England US Registered: May 2003
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posted January 01, 2004 03:59 PM
I think that I am a natural, I did the Venus in Virgo's laundry for the first time and shrinked all his shirts, by washing in hot and drying on hot air, when they are dry cleaned. I was trying to help though. Still he' s a Libra, so if I didn't do those things I would have been worked to death. He had a Saturn in Capricorn, and a Gemini Moon and Ascendant so he was a bit of a nag himself about my clothes, the colours etc..He kept wanting me to be blond..but redheads can't go blonde easily, Natasha IP: Logged |