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astro junkie
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From: orlando, fl
Registered: Nov 2003
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posted January 09, 2004 03:55 AM
 
Where are single Taurus males likely to hang out?.gloria ------------------
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Aphrodite
Moderator Posts: 3338
From: San Francisco, CA, United States
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posted January 09, 2004 10:08 AM
Clubs that have pool tables.IP: Logged |
dawn25
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posted January 22, 2004 07:24 PM
They leave the house????IP: Logged |
spiria
Knowflake Posts: 140
From: big 'ol Tejas
Registered: Sep 2003
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posted January 22, 2004 09:52 PM
Right on with Aphrodite....oh, and "cool" bars....or "seedy" bars, or just bars.....IP: Logged |
sthenri
Knowflake Posts: 1246
From: New England US
Registered: May 2003
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posted January 23, 2004 03:11 PM
Bars? Mabye jazz bars, or martini bars, that's where us jazz babies hang out!Most likely, other people's houses, helping entertain. Dinner parties, art galleries. art shows. Offering to help ot at dinner parties. Bakeries. Fruit shops, Taurus loves Fruit by the way, I have tested every Taurus. With their friends, with Aries, or Libras where they would be. Bookstores, and antique stores, old haunted houses, museums, mansions, big homes, castles. Salem MA during Halloween. Halloween parades, and occult shops. Natasha
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spiria
Knowflake Posts: 140
From: big 'ol Tejas
Registered: Sep 2003
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posted January 26, 2004 12:47 AM
sthenri ~ i didn't mean to make Taureans sound like bar flies, i was alluding to the fact that they are hip socialites that adapt to many a social circumstance and aren't afraid to go anywhere...and they seem to like to party. i admire Taureans bravado and charm.IP: Logged |
sthenri
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posted January 26, 2004 06:51 PM
I wasn't being sensitive, maybe I sound that way? I guess I am overly sensitive these days, I am trying to plan my life, always a bad idea. I would be better off at a jazz bar, maybe I could open one? Anyone like to join me in a new business?Natasha
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astro junkie
Knowflake Posts: 1597
From: orlando, fl
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posted January 27, 2004 01:58 AM
me!IP: Logged |
lioneye68
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From: Canada
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posted January 27, 2004 02:38 AM
Taurus's like kerioki, so check out a kerioki bar!IP: Logged |
astro junkie
Knowflake Posts: 1597
From: orlando, fl
Registered: Nov 2003
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posted January 27, 2004 11:06 AM
Actually -
I'm trying to find more creative ways of meeting people than in a bar. Now, if they had Karaoke in a different place, I'm there!I tried the Karaoke angle before, and I got hit on by all the jerks, and never got to meet the few guys who I found atractive. That just makes it MORE frustrating for me... .gloria ------------------
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spiria
Knowflake Posts: 140
From: big 'ol Tejas
Registered: Sep 2003
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posted January 27, 2004 02:53 PM
sthenri ~ i just got the vibe that i had offended you maybe....just wanted to be sure i didn't...i have had some very rough days lately and am oversensitive myself, so i am just explaining....jazz bars...love 'em, hope you find someone to help you open one....IP: Logged |
lioneye68
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From: Canada
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posted January 27, 2004 03:37 PM
Ok, what about a music store then? My Taurus ex-roomate had a massive music collection, as does my Taurus sister. My Taurus dad use to have a large classical LP collection as well, and he's el cheapo, but he'd spend money on that. They may be frugal and practical, but they have a soft spot for music. Oh, and my Taurus daughter...only she pesters ME to buy it for her.  IP: Logged |
sthenri
Knowflake Posts: 1246
From: New England US
Registered: May 2003
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posted January 27, 2004 03:54 PM
You are right Lioneye, I am a music nut too.
I think people can download music for free right? It's kind of hard to sell that now, but what about an acoustic coffee house?Natasha IP: Logged |
lioneye68
Knowflake Posts: 2915
From: Canada
Registered: Apr 2003
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posted January 27, 2004 06:16 PM
Well, yes that's true, but we don't advocate that, now do we? If my kiddo were to do that, she could possibly jam the computer up so that I may have to go buy a new one, because she might be a bit of a music fanatic, and nobody can ever watch tv in my house because she is ALWAYS playing music on the computer. *IF she was to go to the music sites, which she (ahem..) doesn't.And she has an acustic guitar, but now wants an electric one. My neighbor loves us so much already....
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astro junkie
Knowflake Posts: 1597
From: orlando, fl
Registered: Nov 2003
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posted January 27, 2004 11:03 PM
Funny, I've always had this fantasy of meeting a guy in a music store, but I tend to run into the quiet brooding types. I really need a guy to pop up to me and get the ball rolling.I have a HUGE music collection, quite impressive. But how do you start... I mean, OK.... so someone is looking at CD's, or they have on the headphones sampling musics. Do I accidently step on his foot? WHAT??? In case you're wondering what the hell my problem is, I'm trying not to use my "body" to get the attention. Trying to play fair, and connect on a soul or intellectual level. This must be a bad idea cuz IT AIN'T WORKING! (I'm such a dork) .gloria ------------------
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Aphrodite
Moderator Posts: 3338
From: San Francisco, CA, United States
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posted January 28, 2004 12:08 AM
hiya aj,just relax. IP: Logged |
pixelpixie
Knowflake Posts: 1709
From: ontario, canada
Registered: Aug 2003
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posted January 28, 2004 11:03 AM
Body first, mind later....
Does that sound shallow? I don't mean wear daisy dukes and a halter, and shake your booty. But, you know, a clingy cashmere sweater, fitted jeans that hug your ass.... Men love that understated sexuality, that hints to more. It is the worm on the hook, you can't deny sexuality, and appearance is the first thing someone usually resonates to. You can't deny looking across the room and magically meeting a sexy pair of eyes. Go with it... then do the mind meld...
You, my dear, have an unfair advantage over men...they're called breasts.
Why don't you try an experiment...
Feel sexy, think positive sexy thoughts all day, to prime yourself before going out. Take a long hot bath, moisturize with your most expensive and sultry perfume... dab it where you would if you were in for a night of passion. Think as if you were meeting an exciting lover later. Wear no underwear, whatever works for you. Go on out there, and exude confidence. If I am really into someone, I will project sexual thoughts while loking into their eyes. They must pick up on it, the daring of it, it works.You are an intelligent, insightful person, don't cut yourself off...exploit your gifts.
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Oxychick
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posted January 28, 2004 11:09 AM
pixelpixie, you read my mind!IP: Logged |
Aphrodite
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posted January 28, 2004 01:23 PM
Hey, let's dress up AJ!Here are shops that carry hot clothes for dates: www.bebe.com
www.bananarepublic.com
www.luckybrandjeans.com
(I love these jeans, when you unzip the fly says "LUCKY YOU")
www.polo.com 
 I think this would be pretty with a tan and slim fitting jeans. (It's a Ralph Lauren top, but similar copies can be found elsewhere for cheaper). I love clothes shopping 
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lioneye68
Knowflake Posts: 2915
From: Canada
Registered: Apr 2003
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posted January 28, 2004 04:27 PM
A/J maybe you should get a part time job at a music store.....You meet an aweful lot of people when you work in retail, and you automatically have a reason to talk to them! In fact, you BETTER talk to them, or you're not doing your job! LOL.(not to mention discounts on your own music...hmmm.) IP: Logged |
sthenri
Knowflake Posts: 1246
From: New England US
Registered: May 2003
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posted January 28, 2004 06:35 PM
Kind of hard to wear a bra in that top, oh I get it, no bra, hee hee.Yes Pixie is right but I understand Gloria too, if she wants to meet men on a soul level then she will have to do that. Gloria ask a man serious questions and you get serious answers, you will have to be more out there, as you put it besides men love that! It takes that huge pressure of rejection of HIS shoulders-imagine how any man must feel talking to any girl for the first time. A BIG stresser, enough to drive you crazy, I know I've had a teenage boy.... Just relieve the pressure, help out, offer to get him a coffee or something, or give a back rub? I'm such a Taurus, Yes Lioneye, I think a job in retail would be great for a Libra, Libras work well with people as long as they mingle, they tend to stick to long conversations, one on one. Mingle. I love music stores and I would love to open a muscial coffee shop where you could choose your music but the focus is on the food! The reverse of a Borders cafe. What do you think? Natasha IP: Logged |
astro junkie
Knowflake Posts: 1597
From: orlando, fl
Registered: Nov 2003
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posted January 29, 2004 02:30 AM
Hey -Thanks guys... I know it's hard to believe, but I'm still struggling with this whole thing, but I think it has so much to do with wanting it to be the "real thing"... It's difficult to explain because I'm such a complex person, but I come across as seductive WITHOUT TRYING. If I start going all out, I end up with one too many boy toys, which will distract me from my real goal. Does that make any sense, without sounding like I think I'm "all that" cause I really don't. I'm like the typical "lusty librarian" type. I do better toning things down a little bit just because when the glasses come off, I'm the "lady in the red Corvette", if ya know what I mean... A part of me knows I could end up anywhere in the world this year. But all I can do is concentrate on one day at a time so I don't binge... Don't give up on me yet! .gloria ------------------
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pocco
Knowflake Posts: 51
From: Bangalore, Karnataka, India
Registered: Nov 2003
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posted January 29, 2004 08:04 AM
Hi Gloria!My Taurean mostly hangs out at the book store. I really don't know if that will help at all. pocco IP: Logged |
sthenri
Knowflake Posts: 1246
From: New England US
Registered: May 2003
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posted January 29, 2004 10:52 AM
Gloria, that is natural, but that is just the kind of thing to say that a Taurus would get scared of so it's no wonder the relationship with your past Taurus didn't work out. Taureans do not like change, and are nervous and upset by any change in their live, that is looming.Crisis mode is when you don't know what's going to happen that is the definition of stress. Since Taurus handles this internally it can cause illness. Others in the life of Taurus are always in crisis mode, so this causes even more stress. After a week with a Scorpio, my hair is turning even more white this minute. Taurus likes places with a past, strong, stable structures. museums, castles, fortified buildings, gardens, anyplace natural, cliffs, oceans. Stress is not their bag at all. Natasha
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astro junkie
Knowflake Posts: 1597
From: orlando, fl
Registered: Nov 2003
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posted January 29, 2004 11:29 AM
BTW - Aphrodite -I meant to tell you that I love the clothes you picked out. Especially the "lucky you" thing. Reminds me of stuff I used to do during playtime years. A couple of years ago I bought some cute sexy stuff like that just "knowing" I would have an occasion to wear it "soon". Still hanging in the closet with tags on!! Pocco -
My two favorite places to hang out are bookstores and libraries. But everyone's got their nose in a book! And you have to be relatively Shhhhh.... But you've given me a really good idea. I've been tossing around a few ideas in my head, like starting a group or club to play Canasta, or exchange books, or do art projects... what do you think? I can't just sit around at a bar and stare at the wall with the Budweiser clock. I'm horrible with "small talk". I have to be engaged in an activity. Esthenri -
I'm glad you brought up old Mr. Taurus. It's true he does not like change. He's got Sun, Moon & Asc in FIXED signs. There is also an aspect in his chart which points to a sensitivity to physical illness during stress. One of the things I used to say outloud to him was that we both have sensitive nervous systems. So I was EXTREMELY sensitive to that, and when we hung out we were completely comfortable with each other. but... He would bring stuff on to himself. The type of person who can't be ok with everything being ok. I know he can work through that, but then came along his old european friend... And check this out... I REALLY REALLY think something's gone terribly wrong with him. He hasn't been online since the last few days of December. You know how you can sort of put pieces of the puzzle together when you know someone's habits and ways? Well... And in addition, noticing the way he talked about that girl and how she talked to me... you already know... This is the most likely scenario:
For Christmas, he flew back to her hometown with her, planning to do some traveling over there too. She took her "game" a little too far, and made him feel worse about himself. Having so much pride, he didn't let it show, but he ended up acting out. In his usual Aq/Moon "martyr" sort of way, he sacrificed himself by way of getting into a physical altercation with another male in her presence. He's an extremely intelligent, all-american rebel who's used to dealing with guys on his level. He's not built for the svelte scandinavian lifestyle I know he tried to consume for HER. I mean, I hope I'm wrong, but I can see this happening clear as day. CLEAR AS DAY... All these things are why I've been so concerned for him from the beginning. I would've been estatic for him if I thought she was on the up-and-up. And as you know, I didn't mention any of my impressions of her to him, and basically told him I'd see him "in a year" when they were done with their plans to travel and such. The thing is, since I know he's not going to give up on "the idea of her" easily, he's going to feel worse and worse. I don't want any of this to be happening to him! A part of me will always be here for him because I offered him two ingredients she could not. 1) UNconditional love
2) An unpretencious soft place to land But in leu of my needs in the meantime, I've concluded that I'm done with the fixer-uppers like him. That I desperately need a man who is NOT emotionally unavailable. Who sees the value in NOT throwing a wrench into things when everything is fine. I can certainly see where he'll never forget me... .gloria ------------------
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