posted January 10, 2004 06:45 PM         

This is something I ponder more than I care to admit. I still act like the school girl who won't wash her hand after "he's" touched it.

I fully believe we get synchronized to someone we love, but only if they are in synch with us too. If they get distracted, from my experience, they won't feel you thinking about them.

IF there is a strong soul connection, you WILL be thinking of each other at the exact same time, however, a soul union is not necessarily one that is acted upon physically , even if it's as simple as them physically picking up the phone to call you.

If you are the type like me who holds on to all hope until it becomes stagnating, then let it live itself out. Perhaps your dreams will come true, but perhaps not. Usually when it doesn't materialize for a while, it's the universe's way of saying, "There is another side to the story and you getting all gushy ain't helping."

So be ready to accept a NEW way of framing this romance, it's usually for the better. Doesn't mean you have to close the shop all together...

with love & support,

.gloria