posted January 14, 2004 05:22 AM         

Is it explainable? Yes - I'm a Sun, Moon and Asc Taurus (Possessive? Me? , and he is a Sun and Asc Aquarius, and a Moon Scorpio.

Does anyone have an astrological opinion on this relationship - mainly if it has any chance of survival?

Thank you
LOL
Nebel

Me: 4th May 1981 @ 7.30am in Geelong,Victoria - Australia.

Him: 16th February 1963 @ 4.40 am in Hamilton, Victoria, Australia.

posted January 14, 2004 08:12 AM         

From just a quick glance...

Remember the last time you cornered him like a wild animal and he resented it?

You also have Taurus in VENUS!!

This man does and always will belong to the masses. You on the other hand love domestication. He's not going to change.

His Moon in Scorpio is probably the one thing that keeps the game hot. He likes the fact that although you are possessive, you are very confident of your womanhood. You like the fact that you keep him interested.

I honestly doubt he will provide you the security you really desire, and perhaps this relationship has such power over both of you... someone needs to call a truce and move on...

He holds a grudge for his entire life. So if you've had a rough go of it, you've probably given him a lot fuel for the fire. You are both very FIXED signs. I suspect there is a powerplay happening, where it's gone beyond kindness and tenderness, but more out of who's going to win the next psychological war.

If you are interested in settling down, (which you've ALWAYS been), set your sights on someone you do not feel compelled to change, cuz it won't happen.

with love & support,

.gloria

posted January 14, 2004 09:53 AM         

Aquas are romantic but they want to know it will work in their favor, you can't win, only compromise. Aqua risings are very dependent on relationships and do like stability but too much passion can rock the boat. My Aqua rising friends are all married and love it, but always were the pushy ones for the practical side of it.

Their Taurus partners always backed out because the Taurus wants less material, and more romance and spiritual in this world. Aqua risings do well with Scorpio suns but will settle for less if they have the practical home and family they see in their head. They do not want to be organized or planned around, the Taurus has to do some major reorganizing and compromise. It's very hard for a Taurus but you will have to give in on almost everything you have and desire.

Can you do that? it's tough with the Aqua rising because it can give the appearance of not caring, but usually instead it's a cover for hurt feelings, and a desire for a partner who is a validator.

if you can sublimate your own life and be a validator and that doesn't bother you then you are ready to give to an Aqua rising, but until then it's always a struggle. I'm not saying it won't happen, but you can burn yourself out.

It helps if you have synastry between your venus house and his sun.

posted January 14, 2004 10:02 AM         

Where is your relationship now, that's the only way we can tell the future. Have you tried just being friends for a while, tried just sending him cards and letters on holidays and seeing other people yet? Has he? Is he afraid of his feelings, or is he just cold and distant? he isn't going to come right out and declare his love for you,

I know it's hard being a Taurus

posted January 14, 2004 10:34 AM         

His Moon's Oppose the your Ascendant - indicates that his behaviors and self-expressions will have a strong emotional impact on you, particularly in family and domestic affairs. You can supply a base of operations for the him to express his unique self.

Your Moon Square his Ascendant - indicates a conflict between his manner of self-expression, and concept of cooperation within relationships and your family conditioning and emotional habit patterns. You on the other hand, can emotionally upset him and cause him to become disoriented.

His Neptune Oppose your Ascendant - indicates a delicate psychological relationship between the two of you. You both are very sensitive and attuned to the other’s thoughts and feelings. Distance can occur between the two of you due to his being in his own dream world at times. Don’t take this personally, its not about you, it’s about his processing his own feelings. Both of your early conditioning will affect this relationship a great deal. You both need to try to become aware of your prejudices and unconscious behaviors that create problems for the other.

Hopes that this helps some.

posted January 15, 2004 10:29 PM         

Asro Junkie i think you remember a different post i wrote about a Scorpio guy? (Yes, I did corner him, on advice from an Astrologer - didn't pay off though!!). I was chasing him during a break from the relationship i am talking about in this post. (Gee, that makes me sound REAL promiscuous doesn't it?!).

Sthenri i do see other people during my breaks from Michael - and yes we do try and 'Just be Friends', but every time i show interest in another man - Michael (My Aquarius) becomes jealous and wants me back (almost like the threat of loosing me for good makes him realise how much he wants me...)..

If this is sounding confusing - your darn right it is!!

posted January 16, 2004 11:21 AM         

I dated an Aquarius Sun/Scorpio Moon guy too. I KNOW exactly what your predicament is. Remember what I said he belongs to the masses. This man is FULLY 100% capable of entrancing and commanding the respect of ANYONE. Even little old you...

So when you try to back off, he asks himself, "What would be so bad if I beckoned her again?" And his answer SO FAR has been that nothing bad could come of it. It's not that he's choosing YOU exclusively.

And I know you know that. He's too delicious and he makes you feel extra special about yourself. It's all part of this potion he's been perfecting since he was born.

The thing is, he will present you with every reason to hang loose for a while longer. In the mean time, your heart is going full force, and that's NOT the part he's capable of taking care of for you. So you are going to end up with a broken heart until you figure out a way to feel worthy of someone else, someone who has your HEART in mind. Who has a stable future with you in mind.

If you make the same mistake I've made in relationships, convincing yourself you are strong, he needs you, you can HANDLE IT, you will find yourself with a broken heart. If you reassure him you can handle it, believe me, he will fully assume you can.

Let me ask you something. Have you ever all out balled-out in front of him? Like totally start sobbing like a pathetic weak, woman who is afraid of losing him?

Try it. Fake it over the phone and see what his reaction is...

with love & support...

.gloria

posted January 16, 2004 08:08 PM         

anyway - his reaction?? Well he walked off for about ten minutes (we were on the beach together) - i had my face in a towel so i didn't see where he went. He came back and tried to pick me up to get me home (I couldn't really stand, the crying was so intense). He just held me and wiped my face with the towel. He said he was sorry for making me cry, and that he didn't think we should be together if he causes me to cry like that....

posted January 17, 2004 12:31 AM         

there was a post somewhere you wrote saying hi and asked how i am doing. just wanted to respond to you.

i am blessed and happy

aphrodite

posted January 19, 2004 11:57 AM         

Your Sun sign Taurus + Their Sun sign Aquarius
This is earthlings trying to mate with Martians. You do not inhabit the same planet, speak the same language, or approach life with similar thoughts. You live for your body, pamper your senses, are jealous, feel attached to nature and can never see any point in thinking about things which are not practical. Aquarius tries to distance itself from the biological at every opportunity, loathes anything that smells like possessiveness and loves nothing better than a wonderfully abstract discussion about life, philosophy and the cosmos. You inhabit the physical realm. They inhabit the mind. You would not find what they describe as a relationship suits you at all. They think that touching fingertips or blowing a kiss across a crowded room full of friends is passion. You expect that from your postman. If you do not get full body contact - forget it.

Your Moon sign Taurus + Their Sun sign Aquarius
No. This would be a constant seesaw or tug of war. Certainly you appreciate their ability to stand solid in the face of change but they are eccentric, oddball creatures where you are basically traditionalist at heart. They like to roam, to think, to talk endlessly and mull over madcap schemes. You would not understand their interests which are ultra modern, usually high tech. Your earthiness would eventually threaten to suffocate them.

Your Moon sign Taurus + Their Moon sign Scorpio
A seethingly, passionate, jealous combination this which will either provide endless arguments and real agony or it could with subtle handling provide real ecstasy as well. Neither of you like a home life in constant upheaval and both can be faithful. Both of you are fairly preoccupied with sex You admittedly from a more physical viewpoint. They because they want to journey to nirvana through sex. You will not understand all their motivations but the trip will bring you pleasure. But it is a match which has the seeds of its own destruction buried deep inside. Neither of you are forgivers.
Oh dear!!