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Topic: Interesting mix for moi
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theFajita3
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From: Sunny South Florida, USA
Registered: Feb 2003
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posted February 12, 2004 04:38 PM
 
Hey guys! I am sneaking on at work..sssshhh... heehee anyhow, I have put things on hold with the Libra I was developing a relationship with due to the fact that she will be away for another year and we cannot see each other. But alas, when one door closes, or goes on hold, another opens, and now I am seeing this gemini! Do you think we make a good mix? I'm Aquarius and y'all know me pretty well. Well he is not your typical gemini, I have never met one like him, his moon in scorpio makes him more emotional and he has taurus rising and I have taurus moon so I thought maybe that helps us understand each other?Can anyone tell me if we're compatible. I mean I know we are, but I guess I'm wondering from an astrological view. I know air signs go together and he does stimulate me mentally like that....he complains I'm not affectionate enough and I'm wondering if our differences will drive us apart? curious to know an outside opinion. gracias! ------------------
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Aphrodite
Moderator Posts: 3283
From: San Francisco, CA, United States
Registered: Feb 2002
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posted February 12, 2004 06:01 PM
Luuhhkeeey you!My suggestion? Forget the charts and have fun    IP: Logged |
astro junkie
Knowflake Posts: 1347
From: orlando, fl
Registered: Nov 2003
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posted February 12, 2004 10:44 PM
Fajita -Did I read right? There was a he AND a she? .gloria ------------------
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theFajita3
Moderator Posts: 1426
From: Sunny South Florida, USA
Registered: Feb 2003
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posted February 25, 2004 03:53 PM
Hey guys! Yes Aphrodite I am having fun  gracias  Gloria for moi love sees no color, sex, anything like that, just great wonderful energies and souls.... Well I'm not sure how I feel about the gemini now! I mean I care very much for him, and enjoy our time together..but when I have emotions, strong ones, are sometimes difficult for me and more than I want and I'm trying hard to be mature and deal with them and accept them, and then he is on and off he has moon in scorpio and can be very suspicious and over-bearing a little, but sun and venus in gemini which can seem sometimes like he doesn't care, so it gets confusing..but.... we'll see I love you guys!!! ------------------
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lllog
Moderator Posts: 745
From: Springfield MO
Registered: Jun 2002
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posted February 26, 2004 08:20 AM
I agree Fajita, why rule out 50% of the population. As far as how you fit with the Gemini, if you would like a relationship reading, email or post your birthdata and his.Lanny IP: Logged |
theFajita3
Moderator Posts: 1426
From: Sunny South Florida, USA
Registered: Feb 2003
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posted February 26, 2004 10:45 AM
Lanny I would love one. I am Feb. 11, 1981 7:29pm Torrance, CA
He is June 2, 1974 4:30am Brooklyn, NY Hope all is well with you! Do you need my email address or you still got it. Thanks, Donna ------------------
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lllog
Moderator Posts: 745
From: Springfield MO
Registered: Jun 2002
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posted February 26, 2004 10:49 AM
I still have it. It will be a day or two.Lanny IP: Logged |
theFajita3
Moderator Posts: 1426
From: Sunny South Florida, USA
Registered: Feb 2003
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posted February 26, 2004 12:34 PM
Great thanks so much! I guess we are doing alright- besides our up and downs and gentle power struggles, we really dig each other and my parents love him. I appreciate your insight and time so much. ------------------
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lllog
Moderator Posts: 745
From: Springfield MO
Registered: Jun 2002
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posted February 26, 2004 04:42 PM
Its on its way to you dear.Lanny IP: Logged |
astro junkie
Knowflake Posts: 1347
From: orlando, fl
Registered: Nov 2003
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posted February 27, 2004 01:13 AM
Fajita -I guess you haven't been back for very long...  .gloria IP: Logged |
theFajita3
Moderator Posts: 1426
From: Sunny South Florida, USA
Registered: Feb 2003
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posted March 01, 2004 04:32 PM
Thank you so much Lanny. As I was reading and processing, I had to leave work and catch the bus home. Over the weekend, I found out the gemini was sleeping with another woman up until 2-3 weeks ago, when me and him were together. I was so hurt, as my feelings had grown for him so much. Well I still am hurt. I've gone thru this with other gemini men, but I thought he may be different. Afterall, I changed my sun aqu/venus aqu ways and was loyal! But that is OK, there is obviously a lesson I was meant to learn. Of course he still means alot to me, so I still am looking over the analysis you did. I really appreciate that Lanny.In case you wondered, he was very suspicious through out the relationship- I guess that was because he was lying and sneaking around to be with her, so he thought I was doing the same thing. In fact I know he hoped I was to justify his actions. He read my private journal last friday  and actually gave me a hard time about some things in there (full knowing what he had been doing, I didn't know yet.) The worst part I think was that after he spent the day with me on Valentines Day he brought her flowers and went to see her. I think that hurts more than the sex part because sex is physical and I can (I know it's wierd, but I can) see past that, but the fact that he wanted to BE with her and talk with her and see her on that day when I thought I was his woman really hurt, because it mean he felt something for her. He cut it off with her after that- and wants credit! I fail to see how credit is due. I'm going to be OK  my heart is just a little sore . ------------------
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Aphrodite
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From: San Francisco, CA, United States
Registered: Feb 2002
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posted March 01, 2004 04:50 PM
I am so sorry, Donna  You must be heartbroken about all this. *HUGS* IP: Logged |
Oxychick
Moderator Posts: 2488
From: neither here nor there
Registered: Jul 2002
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posted March 02, 2004 07:08 AM
Sorry sweetie. Sucks when one feels pooed on. His loss anyhow.I am truly sorry for the invasion of privacy you felt. Sometimes people get too emotional and selfish and think it's ok to hurt others like that. Well, your feelings are just that-your feelings. Nothing to feel ashamed of. And it's not weird that you can see past that. Maybe it's an air thing.  Sending you some more HUGS... IP: Logged |
theFajita3
Moderator Posts: 1426
From: Sunny South Florida, USA
Registered: Feb 2003
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posted March 02, 2004 11:26 AM
Thanks sistahs Your hugs are needed and loved and cherished. I am so glad you guys are here for me. Hope your days are going swell. Love Danita ------------------
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theFajita3
Moderator Posts: 1426
From: Sunny South Florida, USA
Registered: Feb 2003
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posted March 11, 2004 12:11 PM
It's official, people with sun and venus in aquarius should not date people with sun and venus in gemini. That is too much air! And we both like each other but are both extremely immature in the area of dealing with emotions properly. Plus we both blow hot and cold constantly. YUCK. And I know my possessive stubborn taurus moon and his possessive suspiciuos scorpio moon are battling with each other as well. ------------------
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theFajita3
Moderator Posts: 1426
From: Sunny South Florida, USA
Registered: Feb 2003
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posted March 11, 2004 12:12 PM
Why oh why does he have to be so cute and appealing. And he has these long thin dreadlocks that are sooooo sexy ARGH..........------------------
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Aphrodite
Moderator Posts: 3283
From: San Francisco, CA, United States
Registered: Feb 2002
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posted March 11, 2004 12:24 PM
Oh sweetie Fajita,Move over and let me sit with ya. Have I got new stuff share too. I'll e-mail soon. Bye, Aphrodite IP: Logged |
astro junkie
Knowflake Posts: 1347
From: orlando, fl
Registered: Nov 2003
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posted March 11, 2004 01:10 PM
TheFajita -...mmmmmm.... bet it was HOT though... (if you went there at all)... IP: Logged |
theFajita3
Moderator Posts: 1426
From: Sunny South Florida, USA
Registered: Feb 2003
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posted March 11, 2004 01:16 PM
Aphrodite email me!!!  Astrojunkie..it was HOT, is HOT, which is why I even deal with this headache.. Oh, and yes it was hot because while it was hot with us, it was hot with him and the other girl too (did you read that! did you read that! hah, I still am miffed) ------------------
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astro junkie
Knowflake Posts: 1347
From: orlando, fl
Registered: Nov 2003
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posted March 11, 2004 11:25 PM
... ohhh ... someone you didn't share with him....IP: Logged |
theFajita3
Moderator Posts: 1426
From: Sunny South Florida, USA
Registered: Feb 2003
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posted March 12, 2004 03:01 PM
No I am cool with that sorta thing, but that was not the case, he was going behind my back when we are supposed to be exclusive and he was always drilling me all the time to see if I was talking to anyone else, let alone sleeping with anyone else, and come to find out he was sleeping with this other girl, and even went over after he was with me on Valentines and brought her flowers I was very hurt, because I normally keep things open and don't do the whole relationship thing, so I really allowed myself to be vulnerable. And as horrible as this sounds, aside from our power issues and turns being cold and warm, it is really HOT between us physically, and I think those are the only threads holding us to each other right now...oh, and that is not a complaint! A good sex life is important..
At the place I am at I can get a 24 hour pass, so we are going to a motel room for some make up time! to PLAY! But my guard is up..I don't think I can trust him..or maybe I think I can but I don't want to to punish him for what he did..I know resentment is not good, but I can't help it...not yet anyways.. Thanks for listening..it helps me to talk about it! ------------------
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astro junkie
Knowflake Posts: 1347
From: orlando, fl
Registered: Nov 2003
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posted March 12, 2004 04:53 PM
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theFajita3
Moderator Posts: 1426
From: Sunny South Florida, USA
Registered: Feb 2003
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posted March 15, 2004 01:37 PM
AHA! My suspicious were correct. There was ANOTHER woman THIS WHOLE TIME!!! While I am working hard to forgive him for the first, there is another the whole time. I knew something was up because she called him excessively and gave him rides everywhere and he was always over there. He had her CALL ME AND TALK TO ME to rest my fears if anything was going on between them. HOwever she painted a different story than he did, so I knew something wasn't adding up. SO on friday night I went to do my own thing and didn't tell him where I went. He broke up with me for that Saturday morning (after all I had put up with, it took this little thing). I then called a mutual friend and told him Marc broke up with me. Well the friend told me GOOD, because he has been sleeping with that other woman the whole time. Everything made sense then, and I stopped feeling like a suspicious psycho and just felt used and lied to. But this time it's my fault because I let him have another chance.
SO I GUESS WE WERE NOT COMPATIBLE LOL...
oh well...life surely goes on and gets brighter... My ex- a Cancer, a wonderful wonderful person called me the same day all this happened. We are not dating again but we are hanging out and it's nice to have him as a part of my life again.. Thanks y'all for listening to my self-induced woes ------------------
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FishKitten
Knowflake Posts: 389
From: beautiful, hidden mountain village, BC, Canada
Registered: Aug 2003
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posted March 15, 2004 03:11 PM
Hi Fajita. I almost couldn't get past the part about him reading your diary, much less fooling around behind your back. You deserve WAY better. I didn't realize it until this thread, but you are the same age as my son. Do you think you might be interested in a tall, handsome Aries man with deep green eyes? He broke up with his Aqua girlfriend about a month ago and is waiting a bit before going out with anyone else. They were together for over a year and even though he was the one that called it quits, he is still healing. He has never been one to betray the trust of anyone he was dating. And he has this really cool Pisces mom (lol). Actually, it is too bad you two live so far apart. He would love your openmindedness and your sense of humor. Ah well, if nothing else, it proves there are more fish in the sea and rams on the land.IP: Logged |
theFajita3
Moderator Posts: 1426
From: Sunny South Florida, USA
Registered: Feb 2003
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posted March 15, 2004 04:24 PM
Oh Fishkitten I am so flattered you would even think of that that is so sweet!!! You may change your tune if you read more of my posts  seen as I have a bit of legal problems, but we'll just brush right over that!!! Yes it is too bad you all are so far away If you ever come to Florida, be sure to visit!!! Your son sounds terrific, you must be very proud... Yes now I know that I deserve better and will be more careful about getting into a relationship! Especially with someone so suspicious all the time, either they are abusive like my ex I had for 3 years, or they have guilty conscience like Marc the gemini.
Ooooh my heart is sore but lucky I have support of friends and family...thank you for taking the time to read my thread
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