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posted March 13, 2004 02:51 PM         

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girls want a surefire way so that a guy never leaves you....

borrow some money from him, he'll keep
calling you back.

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posted March 13, 2004 03:47 PM         

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LOL

Though that's not always true.

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posted March 13, 2004 04:59 PM         

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Your right, but we know which guys are like that

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posted March 13, 2004 07:03 PM         

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Yeah - Cappies, Bulls, and Cancers

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posted March 13, 2004 11:13 PM         

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posted March 14, 2004 10:22 AM         

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Does it work the other way around? Can I loan them money?

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posted March 14, 2004 04:28 PM         

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Oh, Randall.

I'd been there, loaned money. I forfeited the loan to cut off contact from the guy

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posted March 14, 2004 06:34 PM         

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You can do that with some women, but somehow I don't see any of "those" women here in LL!

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posted March 15, 2004 01:38 AM         

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I know some smart women who pay a guy to go away...

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posted March 15, 2004 07:36 AM         

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Not such a bad idea, AJ.

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posted March 15, 2004 09:59 AM         

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Last time I tried to pay a guy to go away, he clung to me all night! NOT a good idea.

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posted March 15, 2004 01:30 PM         

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posted March 15, 2004 10:37 PM         

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Yeah... he'll find his dough on the bedside table if he promises to leave quietly...

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posted March 16, 2004 10:04 AM         

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LOL
LL is just too funny! All of these comedians in one place! LOL

Way too much fun for me!

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posted March 16, 2004 04:41 PM         

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2tailscorp,

Mmmm that reminds me, me to the last time I tried to pay a guy to leave, he also clung to me all night???

Maybe we're on to something

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posted March 16, 2004 07:03 PM         

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... ummmm ... throw a remote control as far as we can into the field and then lock our door? ...

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posted March 23, 2004 01:41 PM         

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Wait...if you want to stop a guy from leaving you, trying treating him like an insignificant worm! Don't call when you say your going to, don't be home very often, then if he questions you, get defensive, don't do motherly caring things for him EVER, but ask him to do all kinds of errands for you....

Then, don't forget to rock his world regularly.

*just being a trouble maker... Except for that last bit, I don't actually advocate treating your man this way...ok, that was my disclaimer lol*

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posted March 23, 2004 03:04 PM         

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Wooooooo Hoooooooooooo!!!

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posted March 23, 2004 03:06 PM         

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Another way is to insert archetype memories which connect to you. He'll get that "wherever I go, whatever I do, I cannot forget her" feeling. It's a cruel trick, otherwise known as "haunting".

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posted March 23, 2004 03:48 PM         

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Like what? Gimme an example. (please and thanks )

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posted March 23, 2004 07:18 PM         

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Oh -

It's difficult to describe in detail, it depends on him and what his interests are. Like lets say he likes nachos. Eat a few in front of him with "homemade" salsa.

Or if he works a lot with his hands, massage them everyday for a long time, using an extra special scent which drives him crazy.

Or take an image of something, like a nun, a pirate, and dress like that for halloween.

Do a special production/performance to his all time favorite song.

Those are just simple examples.

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posted March 23, 2004 07:57 PM         

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Yeah! The massage works great, too!

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posted March 23, 2004 07:59 PM         

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That takes too long Gloria, you are more patient than this Venus in Aries and Mars in Sag. Loaning money DOES work, they do come back and are polite, even Saggies. But they are too NICE. It's unnatural, after a while, it's like being around a zombie with sarcasm. If you like resentment and sarcasm be my guest.

No I would rather borrow the money thank you. But the men usually never bother me again because I can get really witchy if my cat is sick, like she is now.

I do lend money to Scorpios though! and I do try to get it back, so maybe it's a Scorpio thing not a money thing?

The only man I remember lending me money was a Capricorn, actually it was a gift he would send me a check every year on my birthday. Now that's a classy EX! But he lived way far away and hated to travel, and I'm a big baby so we never made it.

I think sometimes he just couldn't think of a gift, but at the time, it was nice just the same to be appreciated year after year, any way. I like cards and letters too, but a check is pretty corny and cute at the same time.

Only a Taurus would find it sentimental to send $

Natasha

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posted March 23, 2004 08:52 PM         

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Natasha -

It wouldn't SEEM like it takes a long time if you were under MY spell... hee hee...

As for borrowing or lending money, that's a fatal decision. I never do either.

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posted March 24, 2004 03:22 AM         

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I like that, Gloria...I may have to incorperate that into my plan for world domination -HA, just kidding (sorta)...So, if I were to, say.....give head to a hot dog wiener across the table from him, well he'd never be able to escape memories of me whenever there was a hot dog in the immediate environment, right? Something like that? lol..but would his memory be accompanied by an opinion that I was his one "wild girl", and that's how he would file that memory away?? Every guy likes to have one "wild girl" experience. It's such a fine line between sexually liberated and downright sex monster. I don't want to be that for him. I want the permanent role of Queen Mother...Ah, such is the dilemma of a leo sun/aqua moon opposition.....

Heaven help me.
Heaven help us all.

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