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posted March 20, 2004 05:34 PM         

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I was just curious if there was anyone who lost their twinflame and was able to move on and love just as strongly.

I anyone could share their experiences I would appreciate it.

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posted March 20, 2004 09:14 PM         

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Well, the assumption is that you not only love just as strongly, but more strongly than ever.

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posted March 25, 2004 04:30 PM         

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Can Isis find another man?

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posted March 26, 2004 06:14 PM         

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You know, in response to your original question bewitched, I'm going to say yes. There was one man I truly believed was my Twin S-elf. I felt things that I never thought I'd feel for anyone else. I did chart comparisons, tarot readings, and trusted my intuition ... they all pointed at the fact that it could very well be him. I still believe it was.
And then the entire relationship went to pieces. I was completely devastated ... until I remembered my beliefs. That is when I realized that we can never truly be separated. My Twin S-elf will always be just that, even if he shows up in another flesh temple. I came to terms with my grieving and instead, had Faith in a new beginning.
And you know what? I got it.
And even though I couldn't imagine it before, my Love for my husband now surpasses anything I had ever felt before. There are even quite a few eerie, spooky moments that make me wonder ...
Interestingly enough, he also lost the Love of his life before we got involved. He also thought he could never get over her ... that she was the only woman for him. Perhaps she is. Still, he's noticed a few eerie, spooky moments that make him wonder as well ...
We're together now and I honestly have never been happier. All I did was keep Faith that I would be united with the man that was right for me ... and in he waltzed, eventually.

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posted March 27, 2004 09:19 AM         

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Hey-
What do you mean about the eerie, spooky moments??? Sounds mysterious....!!!!

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posted March 27, 2004 02:18 PM         

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Well, honestly, it is a mystery. We've noticed how, sometimes, we'll do things or say things that seem remarkably similar to the way our previous loves spoke or acted. In some ways it seems as though we are all the good things to each other that the others were, along with somethings that we felt were missing before ... certainly personality traits and mental/emotional attributes. Things like that, you know? We've decided to just accept these at face value and not try to "brainstorm" about possibilities because we are very happy together now, and we'd rather not get our heads and hearts in a twist hoping for things that we'd never have "proof" of. We just are and we Love.

I suppose this post might sound even more cryptic than the last but that's the best way I can explain it.

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posted March 27, 2004 05:04 PM         

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Well that's encouraging to hear. I'm glad for you. When did you meet?

What was your twin's sign and you and your husband's ?

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posted March 27, 2004 11:08 PM         

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Thanks

I'm a Sagittarius.

My husband is an Aquarius. We actually met through a friend while we were still in highschool. We didn't become friends immediately since we didn't go to the same school. We began to hang around each other on a fairly regular basis about a year after I graduated from highschool and, though there was an instant attraction, we remained friends for about 2 (maybe 3?) years. (I'm awful with dates btw.)

My ex is a Scorpio. Oddly enough, I met him while I was a junior in highschool through the same friend. We ended up becoming best friends for a veeerrrrry long time before we got involved. There's another thread here in Soul Unions where someone was asking about Sagittarius and Scorpio together and in response I wrote a little about our relationship there if you're interested.

Edit: Oops! I meant to say the Astrology forum, not this one. Sorry for the confusion.

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posted March 28, 2004 06:21 AM         

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Thanks I'll check it out. You were young when this happened I think that might make a difference. Well I'm happy you were able to meet someone else.

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posted March 28, 2004 12:58 PM         

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Sure, if age really means anything, I guess I am still pretty young. High school wasn't that long ago for me.

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posted April 10, 2004 10:32 AM         

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Yes! I did!
I never never thought I would, but I did.

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posted April 10, 2004 11:18 PM         

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But wasn't he the perfect ideal for you everything you could want in a man, how could anybody beat that, all the qualities you could possibly need. Can you tell me a little bit about your story?

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posted April 11, 2004 12:31 PM         

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me?
I hope you mean me otherwise I'm telling you my story in vain

Yes he was everything I wanted in a man, even more. I couldn't believe a man like that existed, he was incredible in my eyes and I loved him so much, so very much.
When I realized we would never become a couple, I left, because I had my pride.
And I suffered for a long time afterwards, and I met other men and I was attracted to them, but like you said, no-one could measure up to him.

I just thought, alright, I loved once, I'll never fall in love again and I'll never meet a man who will beat him, I guess I just have to learn to live with that. But after some time I began to see his ugly sides, even though we weren't together. I could see all of his unattractiveness and that helped me get over him.
And yes I discovered someone who actually did beat him. And you will too. That's how love works. It always returns. Even though it might take a reeeallllllly long time

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posted April 11, 2004 12:32 PM         

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ps I still think he is incredibly sexy!! damn..!! but it's fine, atleast I'm not in love anymore

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posted April 11, 2004 02:41 PM         

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Those men are just so gorgeous

I WAS asking you by the way.

Sorry to hear about your breakup. You reacted just like me, leaving because of your pride. Why did you think you would never become a couple? I'm sure if you liked him so much he must have liked you too. I find a man needs time to fall in love, so we have to care for them till they realize.

Another question I have to ask you and Eleanore is were you one with the person because that makes a big difference?

It must have been hard to try and see his faults, did you have to take hypnosis courses?

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posted April 11, 2004 04:03 PM         

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I was never with him because...he was married!!!!!!!
the pain!
But I can honestly say that I don't think that he was very interested in me. like you say men need time to fall in love. And I didn't stay long enough to find out.
It was hard to find out his bad features, but the good thing was that he was older than me and he started to age, so I just multiplied his wrinkles and average faults about a 1000 times. That did the trick

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posted April 11, 2004 06:33 PM         

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OH I suggest you don't go to the immortality section of this sight you might find out clues on how to be immortal and think if you were with him he too could stay looking young... Oh I better not make you think that. Bad girl I am! So I'm really glad for you now. I think my ex must of put a spell on me because it's been a year and a half and I still can't forget him

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posted April 12, 2004 04:33 AM         

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Well no worries, there's no way I can fall for him again. and you might be on to something there, maybe he did put a spell on you!!! *gasp*!!
If he did make sure to sprinkle some salt on your head now and then. That'll take those demons away

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posted April 12, 2004 11:45 AM         

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Thanks

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posted April 13, 2004 09:18 AM         

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I had to make a comment on this one, as I've only recently found a love to replace my twin soul...
I'm an Aqua girl, and he was a Gemini boy. The most amazing connection any two people could ever share was immediate for us. We had been friends for a long time before we became a couple, but couldn't be together because he had a girlfriend who was a very good friend of mine. We acted as though we hated each other during their relationship, partly so she wouldn't be jealous of me, and partly because we were too scared of what existed between us to be around each other. They broke up after 2 1/2 years, then we became the best of friends. This went on for about a year as he got another girlfriend, and I was dating someone as well. When we suddenly found ourselves single again, we fought against our feelings, but eventually gave in and shared an amazing love for 3 1/2 years. It was not an easy ride, many obstacles came up, we split up and got back together several times. But each time we weren't together, we were miserable, thinking about each other and wishing we could get over our troubles and just be happy together. I moved away to California, hoping he would go too, but he didn't. He resented me for having the guts to go, but mostly resented himself after I was gone for not believing in our love enough to join me. We didn't speak for some time, then started chatting online again, and then began talking on the phone, and when I went home for a visit, we got together and couldn't help but fall in love again... it was torture as he still lived in Maine, and I lived in California. I wished with all my might he would come out and be with me, but knew deep down he never would. I then met a man from England who came to stay at my house as his friends brother was visiting his sister (my roommate). We had an instant attraction to each other, and had a nice few days together before he went back home. We kept in touch and talked on the phone everyday for about 2 hours. I ended up having to go back to Maine and deal with some medical problems, and while I was there, I saw my ex again, and all those feelings came flooding back. I couldn't do anything about it, I was helpless against what there is between us, but I knew I had to move on with my life because it just never worked out for us in the end. I spent time with him, and did things I shouldn't have, and I do regret that, but I think I was just making sure that it was over. I kept up the long distance relationship over the phone and online with the English man, and left my ex (finally) to be with him in November, and have been here ever since. I do still think about my ex, but we were always such good friends above everything else, that I have the strength to keep it as a friendship now, and continue to persue the love I now have with my new partner. It's very difficult in this relationship, as I left my family and friends to make it work between us, but he is very loving and always makes me feel special and completely secure, which I never really felt with my ex. It's funny how things can seem so perfect until it's over and you look back to realize how things really were, not the way they seemed when clouded in the mist of love.
Did any of that make sense? I sort of got to rambling...

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posted April 13, 2004 01:11 PM         

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Welcome!

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posted April 13, 2004 04:51 PM         

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It made sense, Ghanima -

Sort of reminds me of my relationship with current Libra guy. We've known each other for over a year, and I was dating Taurus guy. And when Libra guy and I finally gave in to each other, for me it was like I KNEW it was going to be that intense, that good. But I'm still dealing with other feelings for him I wasn't expecting. Perhaps he's dealing with surprises too.

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posted April 14, 2004 02:57 PM         

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Ghanima why didn't he go to California to be with you after you fell in love again? Or why didn't you go to Maine?

Did you say that you left your family to be with this new guy? If so it seems like you learnt the hard way.

How did you do it watching him with his girlfriend, your friend, it must have been painful. You seem to have so much patience.

Astro junkie what kind of feelings and surprises????

I'mmmm jealousss

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posted April 15, 2004 03:40 PM         

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Bewitched,
It was hard to watch them together, but at the same time I was really busy with my own life, playing sports, theatre and voice lessons, etc. And I had boyfriends during all that time too, so I was distracted from it. He didn't move out there because he wasn't really prepared for a move, money wise and job wise, and he's not as impetious (sp?) as I am, not really able to pick up at the last minute and be crazy with his life. It's one of those things, I guess, it makes sense to me now that if it was meant to be, he would have found a way.
And yes, I am an EXTREMELY patient person...
I've left my family before, and I'm a sucker for love.... when I feel it, I go with it... to the furthest extent.
It's been worth it for me, I'm mad for him!!

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