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Topic: capricorn males
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cheza
Knowflake Posts: 29
From: Adelaide, South Australia
Registered: Feb 2004
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posted March 24, 2004 04:58 AM
 
Ok, I need help here. Please let me know about Cappy men and reasons why they hang on to ex lovers yet wont commit to them even when they have another girlfriend.
How do you get rid of them and how do you keep them?
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Virgo-AriesArtist
Moderator Posts: 763
From: USA
Registered: Nov 2001
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posted March 24, 2004 08:34 AM
I hear ya loud and clear, cheza. They are way too sentimental for my book, but do you happen to know the birth details of the particular Capricorn man you're trying to understand better? And what's your sign (birth details)?
I personally know a Cappy male with a Libra rising that is soo so in love with love, I don't actually think it matters who he's with. In every case (and he's been through 3 girlfriends in the 6 month time I've known him), he's convinced the girl he's with is the "love of his life". He still hangs on to exes too, and has many girls in his life who are just friends, like me. He's a bit of a martyr at times, and feels sorry for himself regarding everything that has happened to him, mostly hurt from his uncaring relatives who have lied to and abandoned him, but yet he still goes to the church his grandparents wish him to, even when he's told me on multuple occasions that he's made a break with Christianity....He's a puzzle.
You get rid of them...? I'm not sure how.Here's some info from a website about Caps:
"CAPRICORN To Know Me: I hope you share my high opinion of myself. In fact, I'll work hard to obtain your vote on my behalf for the popularity contest of life. It may take a while, because at first I come across as very stubborn, but I'm patient. ...Is to Love Me: I pride myself on loyalty, so dissing me won't do, whether we're out with friends (my favorite pastime) or alone in the bedroom. It takes me a long time to get over being taken down a peg. Read My Mind: I'll know instinctively if you're right for me. Sexually, I'll always take the high road. By the way, I'm undressing you with my eyes right now. Read My Lips: I'm big into bonding." Hope this helps, anmd let us know more about your situation if you can.
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-K
"Most people love with restraint
As if they were someday to hate
We hated gently, carefully
As if we were someday to love"-Venus Trines at Midnight IP: Logged |
astro junkie
Knowflake Posts: 1563
From: orlando, fl
Registered: Nov 2003
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posted March 24, 2004 03:21 PM
Cheza -Again - I couldn't be more clear than I was in the other thread. Read it again. Capricorn men like to instill a certain amount of pain towards the women they care for. They're still angry with their mothers. IP: Logged |
lovely libra
Knowflake Posts: 40
From: garland texas usa
Registered: Mar 2004
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posted March 25, 2004 02:03 AM
I have a lot of experience with cappy men. Have always gone out with them.(except for one pices who drove me nuts beeing quietly mysterios all the time{Me: What are you thinking poke poke come on it looks really cool, i wanna learn})My cappies always thought they where the boss( didn't they realise i'm the boss?) If I were you and really wanted to get rid of him tell him you are going to get a restraining order. if he doesn't quit actually get the order. If he comes over call someone to come remove him ( a dad, uncle, friend,or even the cops)He has no right to emotionally abuse you. Stay calm and call the cops. I bet he will leave if you start dialing. Show him you are not going to deal with it and he is not to bother you any more. Mabe i am a large female dog, but if someone doesn't respect my wishes i resort to calmly asking someone he will respect to get the point across.------------------
~Renee
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Aen
Knowflake Posts: 149
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Registered: Nov 2002
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posted March 25, 2004 06:03 AM
To get rid of Capricorn tell him/her that you don't think they have place in your plans for the future.
Future & Planning are *big* keywords. They are hurt, but can understand it. If you want to be kind(er), tell you don't see how you could fit into their plans.
Virgo-AriesArtist
A Cappy wiht Libra rising probably has Sun in 4th. The deepseated need for the roots, the place to stand, some sort of suppport. Clingy until realizes that the base for the roots has to be built by themselves. I call it a solid bottomless abyss.  I have quite a bit of fire in my chart to light up all the deep places and enough Pluto to enjoy the earthquakes. IP: Logged |
sthenri
Knowflake Posts: 1226
From: New England US
Registered: May 2003
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posted March 25, 2004 08:49 AM
I have had my moments with Cappy's grrr.I had an awful date with one, so bad I will start a new topic about it. Natasha IP: Logged |
juniperb
Moderator Posts: 4076
From: www.Heaven.Home
Registered: Mar 2002
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posted March 25, 2004 10:15 AM
To let a Cappy male Know, not think, but *know* you`re smarter and be condescending to them sends them packing.  ------------------
If having a soul means being able to feel love and loyalty and gratitude, then animals are better off than a lot of humans. ~James Herriot IP: Logged |
FishKitten
Knowflake Posts: 473
From: beautiful, hidden mountain village, BC, Canada
Registered: Aug 2003
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posted March 25, 2004 01:07 PM
I've been with a Cappy man for almost ten years. I don't agree that they always try to hurt the women they are with or that they always have to be the boss. He is sweet, sensitive, caring, and he loves our cats. Of course, some of our other planets maight be part of the reason it works so well for us. He is Sag rising and Aqua moon, which makes him much more adventurous than your average Cap. I have Leo rising and Leo moon, which means no one is my boss. In his case, his Cappy nature makes him proud of the fact that I am intelligent and independent. He tells me regualrly that I am the most spectacular woman in the history of all creation. And even though I have frequently worked on Archaeological digs where hard, dirty, physical work was part of every day life, my Cappy man still always carries all the groceries and goes out to chop the wood because I am "a delicate flower of Southern womanhood" to him. I've got no complaints about Capricorns.IP: Logged |
juniperb
Moderator Posts: 4076
From: www.Heaven.Home
Registered: Mar 2002
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posted March 25, 2004 01:15 PM
Fishkitten  could it be the Aqua moon juniperb  ------------------
If having a soul means being able to feel love and loyalty and gratitude, then animals are better off than a lot of humans. ~James Herriot IP: Logged |
trillian
Moderator Posts: 1417
From: The Boundless
Registered: Mar 2003
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posted March 25, 2004 01:22 PM
I like Cappies, they're so twisted.
 But I have 3 planets in Cappy myself...I read about Natasha's date...the man was insensitive, a jerk, I'm curious to know his other planet placements. IP: Logged |
FishKitten
Knowflake Posts: 473
From: beautiful, hidden mountain village, BC, Canada
Registered: Aug 2003
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posted March 25, 2004 01:35 PM
That must be it, Juni. His Venus is in Aqua as well. I always get along great with Aquarians, both young and young. (Because they never really get old, you know.) Plus...I thought this is kind of cool...I'm Pisces Sun with Capricorn Saturn and he is Capricorn Sun with Pisces Saturn. I have no idea what that means between two people, but it seems to work out well.IP: Logged |
astro junkie
Knowflake Posts: 1563
From: orlando, fl
Registered: Nov 2003
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posted March 25, 2004 05:41 PM
Fish -I think that means that you both understand instinctively what the other expects in a long-term committment. IP: Logged |
cheza
Knowflake Posts: 29
From: Adelaide, South Australia
Registered: Feb 2004
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posted March 27, 2004 06:18 PM
Hi Virgo Aries Artist,I have found also that cappys tend to date for a few months and then move on to another woman/man. I know of 3 cappys that do this now. Cheryl IP: Logged |
astro junkie
Knowflake Posts: 1563
From: orlando, fl
Registered: Nov 2003
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posted March 27, 2004 06:49 PM
why do you think they move on?IP: Logged |
NeptunesLittleGem
Knowflake Posts: 11
From: Manitoba Canada
Registered: Mar 2004
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posted March 27, 2004 10:55 PM
Ahhh Mr Cappy.I have a problematic one myself.
I seriously wish I could answer your question cheza. Truth of it is I have no idea. I met one about 4 years ago and we fell in love at 1st site. We've offically dated 2ice but this whole time we've still kept in touch as friends. So I have no idea how to get rid of them. I can't say that I've tried to though. Haha, honestly as much as it kills me to say it, he's prolly my other half. I know he's never loved anyone like he loved me, but it's just not enough sometimes.  I don't know why they do what they do. I think they really want to be in control and to take care of things...you included. With mine both times there was circumstances and issuses that he couldn't ease or make better. And he broke things off. He couldn't stand us hurting and him not being able to "save the day" in that super masculine way. I got nothing against Cappy's. On the contrary, he was the most loyal, considerate, and genuinaly loving boyfriend i've ever had.  Haha I should hate him after everything, but I just can't. Now to keep them...I made sure to tell him how much I luved him, and that he was cute and smart. Hey everyone loves compliments...Mr. Cappy is no exception. So if i thought something nice about him, I'd tell him.
That and I kept him laughing. I made sure that he took some time off from being serious all the time. I'm a Gemini so being silly wasn't very hard. I hope you found sometime useful in my ramble. If not take comfort in the fact that you're not alone when it comes to trying to figure out Mr. Cappy. IP: Logged |
Radna
Knowflake Posts: 9
From: M, OR, USA
Registered: Mar 2004
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posted March 28, 2004 12:01 AM
I had for a long time a problimatic cappy...the only thing i could do to get him off my back (best friend or no, some things I can't tolerate) was leave. I got married and that seemed to do the trick quite well, lol. This one though had a problem of falling for every girl his libra freind left ??? very very strange i say. No matter how many times i told him no way i don't love you like that, he was always on my back. best thing to do is just tell them you don't love them at all, up front and honest. they don't seem to understand that there are more than one type of love, that every person you love you love differently. to them it seems all the same = / sorry, i don't do well with younger cappies, the older ones don't seem so bad.My hus is cusp aqua/cappy....picies rising lol....he's such a turd, but I love him IP: Logged |
astro junkie
Knowflake Posts: 1563
From: orlando, fl
Registered: Nov 2003
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posted March 28, 2004 10:05 AM
"... he's such a turd but I love him ..."HA Ha! That's so funny. Cheza - what's the Moon placements on these difficult Cappy's? .gloria ------------------
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