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Topic: Awful Date with Capricorn Male
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sthenri Knowflake Posts: 1281 From: New England US Registered: May 2003
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posted March 25, 2004 08:54 AM
For your amusement-First awful date after breakup with Libra- Capricorn took me to dinner, everything fine, although he pressured me to have a drink. Didn't want one. Turns on Brown Eyed Girl on CD in the car. Gets misty eyed, and tells me all about his ex girlfriend. It's embarassing. this goes on for a while. We park, he broods. Apparently he is so lost in her he forgets I exist. The story about the ex goes on for about 2 1/2 hours, I am patient, waiting for something to happen. Then he asks me out again by phone, I tell him why not. Then I tell him he needs to get a pet, maybe a dog at the pound and I will help. He gets very insulted and starts dating a girl who sings in the choir at church. Apparently she is "serious", as if I am not. And she has "values". Can I help it if I have blue eyes? Natasha Taurus Cancer Moon/8th Venus Aries/4th/5th Sag/1st Mars He had a Neptune and Jupiter Singleton, Moon in Libra, Mars in Capricorn Venus in Aqua IP: Logged |
Aphrodite Moderator Posts: 3358 From: San Francisco, CA, United States Registered: Feb 2002
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posted March 25, 2004 09:46 AM
What a jerk! Oh, that just makes me so mad! IP: Logged |
pixelpixie Knowflake Posts: 1747 From: ontario, canada Registered: Aug 2003
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posted March 25, 2004 10:04 AM
What a loser.. he really missed out!!! I'm sure your blue eyes are lovlier than any brown I have seen. What the hell does Van Morrison know, anyway? IP: Logged |
juniperb Moderator Posts: 4105 From: www.Heaven.Home Registered: Mar 2002
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posted March 25, 2004 10:10 AM
That`s sad and he probably wouldn`t treat his pet any more warmly either. It`s his loss Natasha .------------------ If having a soul means being able to feel love and loyalty and gratitude, then animals are better off than a lot of humans. ~James Herriot IP: Logged |
lioneye68 Knowflake Posts: 2953 From: Canada Registered: Apr 2003
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posted March 25, 2004 12:07 PM
Whew! Thank goodness you dodged THAT bullet, Natasha! Now you know not to waste another minute on that lug.Yeah, earth signs take a little longer to get over lost love, don't they? IP: Logged |
sthenri Knowflake Posts: 1281 From: New England US Registered: May 2003
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posted March 25, 2004 03:09 PM
Thanks for the support. Yes he tried hard not to show warmth didn't he?His other placements were Mars, Sun, and Mercury in Capricorn Neptune in Scorpio singleton Pluto and Uranus in Virgo Saturn in Aquarius conjunct Venus in Aquarius Jupiter in Aries singleton Jupiter singletons have high opinions of themselves, I have read. I think that' s true firsthand. I have known other men with Neptune singletons in Scorpio and they seem to be a little off in their own world too. Anyway, Capricorns are nice people, but I don't think we are compatible dating wise. It's either commitment time, or be left dangling. And they like control too. This one made sure he ordered the food and hand fed me, and drove and decided where we would park, eat, walk, etc.. He seriously didn't like any arguments that way. I guess some women would like that, but if you are used to making those decisions, I don't see why it would make him mad. I tried to order and he got really angry, and made little noises. Everything I did, he didn't like he seemed to get angry about, and made these huh, noises. When I'd ask what was wrong he would ignore me. he did compliment me a lot, but when I did the same to him, he would grab my hand and get cuddly, which was sweet but strange. Moody guy, Natasha IP: Logged |
Aphrodite Moderator Posts: 3358 From: San Francisco, CA, United States Registered: Feb 2002
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posted March 25, 2004 03:20 PM
Hi Natasha,That's so weird for a man, especially in this day and age. I dated a Capricorn man for a year. I felt uncomfortable with him inserting enormous personal problems into our relationship; as though they were mine and I had to embrace them too. I am taking a hiatus from dating Water and Earth sign men. Aphrodite IP: Logged |
astro junkie Knowflake Posts: 1729 From: orlando, fl Registered: Nov 2003
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posted March 25, 2004 05:46 PM
One of the worst signs in my book is when a guy you're on a first date with starts talking about ex. I put a halt to it within 30 seconds. I'll just calmy say, "You know what? I prefer not to hear about that right now. I'm sure there will be other opportunities to talk about it later."IP: Logged |
sthenri Knowflake Posts: 1281 From: New England US Registered: May 2003
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posted March 28, 2004 10:02 PM
Aphrodite-I know exactly what you mean:>Natasha Taurus IP: Logged |
Radna Knowflake Posts: 32 From: M, OR, USA Registered: Mar 2004
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posted March 29, 2004 12:37 AM
I think I'm a little partial (married = )) but aqua men rule = ) hehe, always fun, and love to play = ) very easy going, but kinda rough around the edges....hard to get to know well, but us dang gems love a challenge do we not = ) hehehehe, he's atacking me now lol, eeeek! run and hide!IP: Logged |
pixelpixie Knowflake Posts: 1747 From: ontario, canada Registered: Aug 2003
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posted March 29, 2004 09:57 AM
Wow.. either you have been married only a short while, or he is always in the room when you post(ensuring an honourable mention and keeping his heart in check...)... hee hee. I have only read a few of your posts, and both mention that you are married. AWWWWWW!!! Ain't love grand. BTW~ Me too. To a Sun in Aries and Venus in Pisces. He's cuddly and randy.MMMrrrrooowwwrrrr. Nice to meet you Radna..IP: Logged |
Ariesrocks! Knowflake Posts: 461 From: Registered: Dec 2003
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posted March 29, 2004 02:57 PM
my advice to any woman is to stay away from men who have either Venus conjunct square or opposition Saturn, or mars with the same aspects. They are to be avoided.IP: Logged |
astro junkie Knowflake Posts: 1729 From: orlando, fl Registered: Nov 2003
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posted March 31, 2004 05:31 PM
why? why? why?IP: Logged |
sthenri Knowflake Posts: 1281 From: New England US Registered: May 2003
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posted March 31, 2004 09:53 PM
I am not sure but I think Venus conjunct Saturn shows a tendency towards self esteem problems or feeing sorry for oneself. I know mine are very close together, and I am not immune.I think this Capricorn with his Sun conjunct Mars just wanted the $$ and status of knowing me, being out with me. Yes now that I am divorced and have realized some goals I am now visible in the community. At least two earth signs with mars conjunct sun have asked me out, thankfully I said no to the 2nd. Now I know why-this one like the status symbol-but the status symbol didn't like to be told what to do. I'm a difficult to control status symbol now, funny how time changes things-am I still too young? too thin? Oh now I 'm in demand, I see... Natasha Taurus
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astro junkie Knowflake Posts: 1729 From: orlando, fl Registered: Nov 2003
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posted April 01, 2004 03:02 PM
hee heeIP: Logged |
Sun_Scorpion Knowflake Posts: 303 From: UK Registered: Aug 2003
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posted April 08, 2004 04:57 PM
Sthenri, my ex was a Cappy to, I know what your talking about!!! Mine never talked about ex's (thank god, sounds terrible!!) but he was a bit of a control freak, moody, easily offended, cowardly, I'm not saying all Capricorns are like this, just most Cappy men I have met. They also seem very sorry for themselves and rather bitter? Maybe its a trait of the negative Cappys. Radna, Aquarius men are great hey?!! I agree, so much fun, and usually very clever too...!!
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