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Topic: aquarius + gemini???
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aoide
Knowflake Posts: 4
From: Delhi, India
Registered: Apr 2004
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posted April 07, 2004 02:23 PM
 
Hi,i have read a lot of text that we are great but i still seems to have a lot of problem coping with my aquarius man. his cancer moon makes him moody.... leo asc makes him a showman... and my aries moon makes me a header & my aquarius asc is same as his, a dreamer.... of course not to forget all the sair that i have from my gemini sun.... any suggestions how to get along with this tricky combo. ------------------
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ghanima81
Knowflake Posts: 2
From: Portsmouth,UK
Registered: Aug 2003
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posted April 07, 2004 04:59 PM
Ya know what? As much as I have read about Aqueminis being very compatable, you just never know. Being an Aquarian female myself, and having 2 serious Gemini ex-partners, it's a pretty hilly ride. And Aquarian males, (especially with Cancerian moon vibes) can be either wonderful, or quite um... difficult...
If it's there for you, then it will work out, if not, chock it up to experience.
All the best 
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keryna
Knowflake Posts: 49
From: san diego, ca
Registered: Mar 2003
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posted April 07, 2004 05:49 PM
interesting. i thought it was u gem's that were the moody ones! hehe, as an aqua gal i have always found gem men to be endlessly intriguing. they've always managed to drive me crazy in fact! but in that good way....IP: Logged |
astro junkie
Knowflake Posts: 1769
From: orlando, fl
Registered: Nov 2003
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posted April 07, 2004 06:07 PM
Is he a momma's boy?Is he a bit of a hypochondriac, or in terms of physical health, very sensitive? You may be too much of a ride for him. IP: Logged |
Radna
Knowflake Posts: 32
From: M, OR, USA
Registered: Mar 2004
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posted April 08, 2004 12:54 AM
Hello = ) I'm a gem female and i'm married to an aqua male = ) Our life is deffinently one very wild and sometimes frustrating ride. One thing to remember that no matter who's sign is what and who was born where, if there is real Love not just lust then it will work out. One thing I have noticed in these times, everyone expects a moviestar love life. No one is perfect or always sensitive, or lovey, or cute, or whatever. Marrige takes A LOT of work. No matter how much you love the person. I think it's one of the reasons that we have so many divorces these days. People aren't willing to just sit down and understand eachother, they want the perfect thing now. Lol, very very very rarely is that going to happen. Just try and be freinds and if the freidns thing doesn't work then you shouldn't marrie them. And only in my opinion, if you aren't ready for something serious (not saying you aren't lol) then don't get into a relationship. It will only bring added stress into these already tense life-styles. I appologize if I offend anyone with this, that isn't my intention = )Love Light and Peace
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aoide
Knowflake Posts: 4
From: Delhi, India
Registered: Apr 2004
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posted April 08, 2004 07:15 AM
You know Radna, I totally agree with you.. it’s as if you are just speaking what I have in my mind all the time…. People are so busy finding faults that they forget wht were the reasons we got together for in the first place…. I will tell you what happened. Actually this Aqua guy of mine has a few close friends. Some time back I started receiving some pretty bad emails about him on the email…. I dinn of course trust any of it.. neither did I see any point in telling him that…. I thought it must be a prank by an ex or something….. then the things started getting really bad. I started doubting him & we started pulling apart. I knew all this was happening because I was reacting to all that….. but I needed to know whther there is someone in his life who doesn’t want me in his life….so I called one of his friends to help me find who this could be. She turned out to be so silly that she called him & told him everything. He was utterly devastated…. Now he is walking around like he has a dagger in his back. I tried to explain a lot. But he feels evn I have betrayed him.
Some of my friends think that he & his friend cooked up this episode to get rid of me. Which is not really believable, because he isn’t that krafty also looking at the way he has shut himself away from every body….. He doesn’t trust anyone….. how do I help him…. Anything I say is constructed into something else. He hasn’t misbehaved as such but just lashed out to me anger.
I don’t feel like talking to him as I feel humiliated and blamed for something I dinn do. And I feel sad that he is alone…. Should I leave him not talk to him & not contact him & go away from him as the strange email sender wanted. Or should I stand by him…help
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astro junkie
Knowflake Posts: 1769
From: orlando, fl
Registered: Nov 2003
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posted April 08, 2004 08:27 AM
you may be too much of a ride for him...IP: Logged |
NeptunesLittleGem
Knowflake Posts: 14
From: Manitoba Canada
Registered: Mar 2004
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posted April 08, 2004 01:03 PM
Hi aoide,I'm a Gemini Gal myself and I had an Aquarius boyfriend. Although we never ever called it that because we both thought that we didn't need a label...haha. Classic behaviour for the 2 signs.  We got along great actually. We had some compatable signs. Me: Sag rising and Moon in Taurus. Him: Libra rising and a Moon in Scorpio We were friends for a couple years before we hooked up and when we did it wasn't planned on. It just happened. We really did have fun, and we talked about everything under the sun. We had our spats and our hissy fits, but I mean every couple does.
It did end, but we are still friends. We still talk and still generally like each other as people. There was none of that hostility that's usually left over after a break up. Aqua's are tricky, but definitly worth it. Give him his space, he'll give you yours. It's nice not to be smothered. And if you give him his freedoms without guilt, he'll be back.  IP: Logged |
aoide
Knowflake Posts: 4
From: Delhi, India
Registered: Apr 2004
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posted April 10, 2004 12:29 PM
very true... we were just aquaintances for a long time & then suddenly we were friends... and then we became thick pals.... and just as suddenly we just couldn't stay away from each other.... ;-) but the problem now is that i dont push him for a commitment, but he reads too much into things. even the smallest ones... like if i said cootchi coo to a baby on the road he'd think i'm hinting. then gets very defensive... and starts finding excuses to fight. i am quite confused as to what he wants.... at one point he want's a relationship at another wants to break up... i realy feel like a yoyo.... hahaha now i know what greoge micheal would have meant.... anyway thanks all of you for all the advice & support I'm getting from you.
i was really lost... and literally wanted to break for good.. but then i have started looking for things that are there in him that i like... and decided to keep a distance till he comes around. till then have to just make myself busy with life...------------------
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