posted April 10, 2004 07:23 PM         

Virgo Leo
Virgo is earthy and Leo fiery, and in many ways this combination can work really well. Virgo can offer cool perspective, analysis, and order, while Leo can offer vision, imagination, and excitement. Leo can help Virgo to develop greater self-confidence, and Virgo can help Leo to actualise dreams.
You could work well together on any creative project, combining vision and attention to structure and detail. You could also create a wonderful home life together, combining beauty, luxury, style, and stability.
But you need to remember that the very qualities which attract you can also irritate you in each other. Virgo can be easily exploited because of the need to feel useful, while Leo basks in a sense of specialness.
Leo wants to have grand aspirations, and may get tired of being constantly reminded of mundane responsibilities. Virgo needs to be allowed to be fussed over, and should not be treated like an employee. Leo needs to learn to deal with everyday tasks without feeling resentful, but should not be treated like a child.
Avoid blaming each other for the things you find difficult to do and respect each other's strengths. You will be able to avoid many conflicts.

The Leo partner doesn't expect only loyalty and fidelity. He also wants to be treated like a king. Now, that's a sword which cuts two ways. Leo can be so loveable that you want to treat him like royalty anyway. On the other hand, that imperious assumption of specialness can get a bit tiresome, because sometimes it goes with a double standard. It's sometimes difficult for Leo to remember that other people are special too. He's apt to forget it.
In exchange for all that love, loyalty and adoration, Leo offers a wonderfully protective quality. Leo has a generous heart and will fight heroically for those he loves. He can be untiringly supportive and terribly caring, and he's not averse to making some pretty big sacrifices on behalf of his loved ones (it's the little everyday sacrifices that are sometimes harder). He can give up everything and never begrudge it.

posted April 13, 2004 03:38 PM         

1.What about Sun in Virgo(female) and Sun in Leo(Male)
2. Ascendant of female is Sagittarius
Ascendant of Male is Cancer.

posted April 13, 2004 04:00 PM         

I think both of your rising signs will make it loads easier for the two of you, since yours trines his sun (by sign at least) and his sextiles yours (again, by sign at least).

Saggie "gets" Leo, and Cancer "gets" Virgo.

posted April 14, 2004 08:56 AM         

Thanks for your response.

Since you are a Virgo woman in love with Leo man, I thought of asking your advice. I am trying to and want to overcome my weakness to strengthen the relationship with a Virgo woman.

1. How is your relationship going?
2. Is there anything you would see/experience different in your Leo man?
3 If anything, what would you change to make your relationship more enjoyable in ALL aspects?

Thanks.

posted April 14, 2004 05:11 PM         

The thing that always bothered me most about my ex, who I was with for 5+ years, is how I couldn't seem to ever inspire him. He knew better about everything (in his mind, anyway). Nothing was ever remarkable enough, awesome enough, fun enough, or "right" enough to inspire him to meet my level of enthusiasm. In fact, he would quite often delight in bursting my bubble instead.

Examples
ME: laughing my ass off at a commercial and insisting he come see it when it comes on again
HIM: "Oh, I've seen this before. It's not THAT funny"
or
ME: Beaming with pride after making my first, and rather lovely, I might add, floral swag
HIM: "You made that? Hmm. There's no place to hang it, you know. Just where did you plan on hanging it? (which to me, sounded like "Please DON'T hang that up, it's tacky and ugly"....bubble successfully bursted.

Things like that led to our relationship's demise. I could go on with more examples, if you like.

posted April 14, 2004 05:23 PM         

Don't Virgos with Leo in their charts do the same thing, only sandwiched between thick slabs of compliments?

posted April 15, 2004 08:14 AM         

I would like to continue this discussion. Although, I would like to mention that I am a Leo man. In my sincere effort to establish a successful and mutually satisfaying long-term relationship, I am trying to further understand and accommodate Virgo woman’s personality.

Thank you.

posted April 15, 2004 11:43 AM         

If you want to win your Virgo lady's heart...be genuine, take your responsibilities seriously, don't get too big for your bridges (or she feel compelled to put your ego in check by pointing out what a mess you are, and you won't like it very much, or her - cuz she'll do it on an ongoing basis, not just once) and for God Sake, have decent hygiene. Also, don't be reckless with your money, but do be tasteful...Don't buy her the cheapest wine you can find or take her to Sizzler for special occasions. Virgo's have very refined taste, and they'd rather go without than settle for something crappy. In fact, they DO tend to live without many frills, and are quite content to. This is how they manage to HAVE things of top quality. I think they experience a kind of Zen peacefullness in living a sparten lifestyle. "separate the wheat from the chaffe" is Virgo's motto. Leo, on the other hand, gets great joy from having a lifestyle filled with the finer things on a regular basis. Try to keep a balance between the two extremes, so that you BOTH are happy.

And always include her in any big decision you make because they don't like to have change thrusted upon them against their will. They adapt to it beautifully if they were part of the decision process, though. Also, don't get too frustrated when she isn't thrilled to peices about a spur-of-the-moment idea you have. They're a little frightened of situations that they don't feel prepared for.

posted April 15, 2004 11:59 AM         

Thanks....that should (as my Virgo lady says) and will (as I say) help...