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cheza
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posted April 16, 2004 08:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cheza     Edit/Delete Message
Hi all,

I need a bit of help here. Venus in Aquarius for a man means exactly what? That they are total morons when it comes to relationships and are non committal??

Warm fuzzies,
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posted April 16, 2004 09:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for astro junkie     Edit/Delete Message
Don't forget to include what House the Venus is in:::


"VENUS IN AQUARIUS

The native is extremely fond of mental pursuits and he becomes deeply involved with his friends and in helping others. He is energetically faithful to his friends and he would rather suffer himself than to deceive a friend. On the other hand the native will suffer vivid depression and unhappiness when such an attitude is not returned. He will suffer great disappointment if he is let down by friends. He must be warned about the danger of these periods of obstruction and difficulty concerning his friends.

The capacity for artistic expression is enhanced and, with the proper training, the ability for singing, music and acting can be developed."

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posted April 16, 2004 09:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message
It means they are not easily manipulated. Be up front and honest with them, as duplicity of any type will close them off to you.

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posted April 17, 2004 01:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for lioneye68     Edit/Delete Message
Another spin...(copied and pasted from http://www.reneefrancis.com/stargazer/venus_is_aquarius.htm - edited to 3rd person by moi)

With Venus in Aquarius, one would require a great deal of freedom in relationships and will resist being tied down. They are also willing to provide this freedom to their partner, and they are not jealous or possessive. They look at your feelings intellectually and can appear aloof or impersonal to others. This Aquarian detachment gives them the ability to stand back and look at the situation more clearly. But they must avoid becoming so distant that they cannot empathize with their loved ones and offer them solace.

They may have felt that love was not freely expressed in their home when they were growing up. One challenge they face is to learn to be warm and understanding in love relationships. It is very important to them that their lover be a friend as well. (This would hold true for sun, moon and rising Aquarians as well)

In their love relationships they prefer a partner who is unique and a little off-beat by society's standards. They need a lover who can respect their need for personal freedom and their own individual identity. Because they are so afraid of being tied down, it is difficult for them to establish and maintain long-term love relationships.

They are rebellious and "negatively suggestible" in their love affairs. That is, the best way to get them to do something is to demand that theu do just the opposite. They can be extremely stubborn at times and can turn ice cold when they are hurt (or, more likely morally offended). Once they have committed themselves to a partner, they are loyal and truthful and are willing to extend the same personal freedom to their lover that they demand from them.

Special Note: The planet Venus never travels anymore than 48 degrees away from the Sun. So the chances are great that Venus at the time of your birth was also in the same sign as your Sun. However, she could have been traveling through the star sign ahead or behind your Sun Sign. Still more, if you where born either early or late within the range of your Sun sign there is another chance that Venus may have been as far as two signs behind or two signs ahead of your Sun, but that's it.


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cheza
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posted April 17, 2004 06:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for cheza     Edit/Delete Message
Hi Gloria,

Venus is in the 11th house

Thanks

Oh and you are all soooo full of knowledge, thankyou!!!

Warm Fuzzies to all xo

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posted April 17, 2004 03:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for astro junkie     Edit/Delete Message
"Venus in 11th House::

Gives a love of friendship, social organizations, reform movements, women, artists, and musicians. One likes to know many people and belong to groups, especially progressive ones. Most of one's friends are likely to be female."

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posted April 17, 2004 07:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sthenri     Edit/Delete Message
They can commit, but you must commit first and not do any testing. Venus in Aquarius is warm and affectionate I have found but will not dote on you if you require it, they are not feeble minded love slaves or anything like that. Leave that to the Venus types! I am very doting and feeble..

You have to be assertive and demanding morally and emotionally with an Venus/Aqua. A good first date would be where you bring a self help book and start reading out loud all the things you want him to be. Then take him to church and make him lead you to his mother. Just be an Aries.

Read a list of demands and hand it to him and insist he demand the same of you, always talk everyday, if the communication dies so do you!

BTW My grandfather was a Cap with Venus in Aqua and moon in Cancer and he was as devoted and committed as a man could be to his church, children, wife, and community.
REALLY stubborn though and always had to be treated as the King.

Take Care,

Natasha
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posted April 17, 2004 07:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sthenri     Edit/Delete Message
They can commit, but you must commit first and not do any testing. Venus in Aquarius is warm and affectionate I have found but will not dote on you if you require it, they are not feeble minded love slaves or anything like that. Leave that to the Venus types! I am very doting and feeble..

You have to be assertive and demanding morally and emotionally with an Venus/Aqua. A good first date would be where you bring a self help book and start reading out loud all the things you want him to be. Then take him to church and make him lead you to his mother. Just be an Aries.

Read a list of demands and hand it to him and insist he demand the same of you, always talk everyday, if the communication dies so do you!

BTW My grandfather was a Cap with Venus in Aqua and moon in Cancer and he was as devoted and committed as a man could be to his church, children, wife, and community.
REALLY stubborn though and always had to be treated as the King.

Take Care,

Natasha
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posted April 17, 2004 08:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sthenri     Edit/Delete Message
Oh and don't EVER try to push him into an activity he doesn't want to do, especially if it's too feminine. Venus in Aqua is MASCULINE. Let him drive, and speak first!

And never forget to CALL him every week and weekend to see what he's doing and plan on arranging each and every weekend around him. He will be loyal but at a price.

Still we all have our values,
to me it's never put your hand on my butt on the first date or you are out! But I have to respect the Venus in Aqua's backbone, when they say you are out, you are out, control is important.

Stability comes at a COST, but Venus in Aqua is clear about what that is. If you can't commit yourself then don't play the game, after all there are plenty of women with Earth Venuses who do not want to commit unless pushed.

I like Venus in Libra, and Venus in Aqua for fidelity, but I cannot play the game, because I expect people to read my mind and I am not good at keeping in touch, I have no cell phone!

Oh and GET a CELL phone and keep it on!

There you go, that ought to get you to the door

Natasha
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cheza
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posted April 18, 2004 07:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cheza     Edit/Delete Message
Ok Natasha, I think perhaps I might just try that out and tell you how it goes.

Thankyou

Warm fuzzies from Australia,
Cheza

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chrissymgreen
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posted September 10, 2004 06:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for chrissymgreen     Edit/Delete Message
dear cheza,

i realize your post was some time ago, but i'm new here and got caught up reading the archives...

i'm a venus aquarius, and to give you some insight, i once read that venus ACTS TO ATTRACT. meaning: your venus sign indicates what you will do to attract a mate...it is how you'll act around those you're attracted to. venus aquarius people usually act UNINTERESTED when faced with an object of desire. when i read this i was like, wow! that is so me! the more i like someone, the less i act like it. it's some sort of weird power thing, i don't know...i want THEM to come to me, first.

anyway, i hope that helps.


-chrissy

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zoso
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posted September 10, 2004 06:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for zoso     Edit/Delete Message
It might be an old post, but I am dating an venus in aqua man and he is very masuline. Let him pay for dinner, let him drive, let him be the MAN.

But, he will be forever yours if you are his best friend. Laugh with him, have lots of fun with him and his friends and family. Occaisionally, blurt out something off-the-wall weird or strangely humourous, because he likes the strange girl who can make a crazy joke. Even if the joke goes no where, laugh as hard as you can and that will make him fall hard. He will think you are HIS strange girl, but also his best friend. He will be more loyal to you as a friend more than anything else. He can be very loyal, almost to a fault. Here's a good stupid joke to try:

Two peanuts were walking down the street. One was a salted.

Laugh your butt off like it is the funniest thing you've ever said. He'll love it.

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posted September 10, 2004 06:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for astro junkie     Edit/Delete Message
Zoso -
Great stuff.

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posted September 10, 2004 09:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pisces-girl     Edit/Delete Message
10th house venus in aquarius here!Whoo hoo!!

FOr me, it's important that he be my best friend also, or close to it. I think venus aquarians turn ex's into friends as well. That's what I seem to do, but it depends on the other person of course. Most likely if they have strong aquarian influence. But I could never date a long time friend, or friend of a friend. I also like space to pursue hobbies and such... So, I have 2 words for ya...friendship and space...

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posted September 12, 2004 12:11 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message

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posted September 13, 2004 10:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for miss_muffet     Edit/Delete Message
Might be a bit late but better late than never.

Here's what i have on Venus in Aquarius:

He likes flowery language: he is very sensitive and detests anything vulgar. He appreciates independence in love, but idealizes and embellishes it. He likes to please and will do whatever is necessary for this. While always being frank, he is not always faithful.

Weaknesses: he is unfaithful, because he likes above all to please and will follow through to the end of any adventure that arises. Does not like barriers, likes liberty of action and does not like to account to anyone.

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posted September 13, 2004 10:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for miss_muffet     Edit/Delete Message
Here's another one with Venus in Aquarius:

Venus in Aquarius: can make friends out of lovers and lovers out of friends. Aquarius rules all forms of electronics and electronic communications, so these folks tend to like phone sex.

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posted September 13, 2004 08:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Everlong     Edit/Delete Message
DITTO about the acting like you're not interested in someone when you are. I'm another Venus in Aquarian in the 10th house, and when I like someone, I act like I don't even know they exist.

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posted September 14, 2004 03:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Crow     Edit/Delete Message
This was sure an educational read. I am glad that I spotted it because eventually it can help me understand the last cap sun and venus/aqua. I am still reeling. My moon is in Aqua so obviously friendships matter. I also have 6 planets in the 11th house...so you'd think that he and I were a fit. He slammed the lid on the coffin the last time I spoke with him and I never want to talk to him again. I just want to be over him. So I can't say that I agree with some of this, but I do know that sometimes other planetary aspects as well as freedom of choice can play other roles as well.

Thanks,

-C

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posted September 14, 2004 10:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mama Mia     Edit/Delete Message
May I ask why do Aqua's act non interested
when you really are? My guy is a Aqua and he does that to me. We can hang out one night have a blissful time I man sheer bliss. Then when I leave him I swear he acts as if he never knew me. Eventually he shows me he is not gone anywhere but he act uninterested sometimes. I ignore it and not let it bother me but just wondering why that is?????

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posted September 14, 2004 08:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pixelpixie     Edit/Delete Message
Linda mentioned something like~
They'd rather spend time working on the cure for the common cold than time handing you a tissue to blow your nose.
It is a perspective thing. Humanity and Universal companionship versus one on one companions... comfort in crowds... Original thinking, in the crowd mentality.
It is a matter of control.

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posted September 29, 2004 04:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Quinnie     Edit/Delete Message
I must admit I have been slightly sceptical about the validity of astrology but this thread hits it for me! My boyfriend has Venus in Aquarius and all this rings so true, it's in his seventh house which is funny because I'm a Libra Sun Aquarius Moon. In reading this kind of post it makes me realise how reading someone's chart can shed a whole new light on why they do things.
I want to read his mind but I can't and why should I he is entitled to the privacy of his own thoughts.
Anyway going off topic there. Thanks for your posts I feel lighter of mind

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posted October 05, 2004 02:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lynx     Edit/Delete Message
Heh, I'm Aquarius Sun, Aquarius Ascendant and Aquarius Venus. Venus conjunct my sun.

I'm a very loving person. I will lay my heart at your feet if I love you. That's exactly the reason why I've decided that earth and water signs are wrong for me..because that's never good enough. I will give poetic compliments, stroke their egos, cry for them even..and it's not enough!

Hell, my ex was a Gemini sun/Aqua moon but his chart had such a Saturnian influence that he drove me mad. He had no complaints about how I treated him but he complained that I was hard to read. Aqua sun/Aqua ascendant! I'm exactly how I appear. Spend less time wondering what's going on in my head and just enjoy now. I wouldn't be with you if you weren't my friend!

The safety in crowds is true. As open as I have been, I've become more interested in charities and large social events. I'm tired of focusing on one human being only for them to disapoint, losing lover and friend in one fell swoop. At least with charity, the thanks is implied. At least with large social events, I'm a cog in the social machine and not the heart.

So when we nail the coffins shut, it's because we have given until we can give no more, it wasn't good enough and we're ripping our hearts back out of your hands.

Or maybe that's just how I feel.

And we do idealize friends.

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posted October 05, 2004 03:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for astro junkie     Edit/Delete Message
Well, this thread must be coming around just in time for me too, cuz Guy #3, I just realized, has Venus in Aquarius in the 3rd. But I have no intention to get into anything with him.

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posted October 06, 2004 09:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for puppyblew     Edit/Delete Message
the cappy which i spoke of in the other post also has venus in aqua. in the 8th house. he just "nailed the coffin shut" on our friendship. astro.... are you sure we are not dating the same men? hee hee

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