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Ariesrocks!
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posted May 03, 2004 01:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ariesrocks!     Edit/Delete Message

ehum, so should I accept?

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Ariesrocks!
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posted May 03, 2004 01:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ariesrocks!     Edit/Delete Message

just! she just asked me out, I can't even spell I'm so nervous

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pidaua
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posted May 03, 2004 01:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pidaua     Edit/Delete Message
If you like her and you are interested in going out with her, then yes. If you are involved with someone else, then I would say no.

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gloomy sag
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posted May 03, 2004 01:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for gloomy sag     Edit/Delete Message
Ugh, are you a guy?

Ah, the Month of Love

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sthenri
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posted May 03, 2004 01:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sthenri     Edit/Delete Message
I though you were a girl Aries Rocks! What's going on here? I would say either way with the Gemini mood we have now, go for it and see what happens. If you're not bored then it's fun right?

Just be sure to get a free meal out of it,

Natasha
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Ariesrocks!
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posted May 03, 2004 02:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ariesrocks!     Edit/Delete Message

I am a girl, and no I'm not gay. Geez I don't know maybe it would be fun

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gloomy sag
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posted May 03, 2004 02:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for gloomy sag     Edit/Delete Message
Celebrate every connection/date/friendship AriesRocks! It is a short life.

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Ariesrocks!
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posted May 03, 2004 02:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ariesrocks!     Edit/Delete Message

maybe you're right, but I don't know.
By the way my natal venus is in gemini, geez that's what I get for flirting

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lalalinda
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posted May 03, 2004 04:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lalalinda     Edit/Delete Message
I'm laughing. just the fact that you think it might be fun, I'd say do it. You don't have to have sex or be gay to have a good time. Its sweet. If you're not comfortable just say so, but don't let it stop you from growing and maybe developing a great friendship. Cheers

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astro junkie
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posted May 03, 2004 04:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for astro junkie     Edit/Delete Message
You already know MY vote...

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juniperb
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posted May 03, 2004 04:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for juniperb     Edit/Delete Message
God/dess I love a Taurus.

quote:
Just be sure to get a free meal out of it


Ariesrocks

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bewitched
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posted May 03, 2004 06:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for bewitched     Edit/Delete Message
It seems to excite you so much, from your first 2 emails, can we ask if you're attracted??? Maybe you just really admire this person. I think you should go for it if it really makes you happy. Just be careful not to hurt her feelings.


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pixelpixie
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posted May 03, 2004 08:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pixelpixie     Edit/Delete Message
WTF?! You only live once...( maybe)

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Ariesrocks!
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posted May 04, 2004 02:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ariesrocks!     Edit/Delete Message

I don't know, maybe I'm just too boycrazy and my brain is trying to balance it out by saying "there are goodlooking girls too you know!"
I really don't want to hurt her feelings and she's not looking for a guy in her life right now ehum..so.
I'm curious sure, I don't know we'll see

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alchemiest
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posted May 04, 2004 09:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for alchemiest     Edit/Delete Message
Was it just like a 'we should hang out sometime' or a 'I am really into you, we should go out sometime' sort of thing?
Maybe she just wants to get to know you as a friend

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astro junkie
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posted May 05, 2004 01:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for astro junkie     Edit/Delete Message
AriesRocks -

It's a lot more than just being about a lot of good-looking girls to choose from. How do you feel when a guy is gawking at your body? It's uncomfortable, right? So why wouldn't it feel just as uncomfortable if a girl was doing the same?

This just reinforces my observation of how we love to say we SO NOT discriminate, blah, blah, blah. How we SO NOT judge, blah, blah, blah... So how do you get past that which is ingrained in us?

Well, unless you want to try to envision people as sexless, colorless, preferential-less... you get the idea ... I say you got to go SPIRITUAL! Hope you choose the right path if it doesn't choose you, and hope you find the right frequency instead of ignoring it.

Look - I was SOOOOOOOOOOOO nervous on my first girl date, even though I grew up around gays / lesbians and everything in between. It's like being just as nervous as your first boy date. But just relax. Don't assume sex is going to happen. And if she does hold your hand or something sweet and simple like that, don't freak!!!!

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sthenri
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posted May 05, 2004 10:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sthenri     Edit/Delete Message
Hello Aries Rocks, Gloria, that's good advice for any date. Not to let you mind jump ahead and relax. Not too relaxed but being calm will help you really enjoy yourself.

Natasha
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babylonphoenix
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posted May 05, 2004 12:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for babylonphoenix     Edit/Delete Message
pixelpixie
what if you dont only live once

ha ha ha ha ha
baby

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PinkPearls&Stars
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posted May 11, 2004 05:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PinkPearls&Stars     Edit/Delete Message
It sounds exciting . Just make sure you're doing it because you think you could really care about her. I imagine it would hurt for her later on down the road when she realizes she was just an "experiment". As long as you guys are both clear on your stances. Hope it works out. Like I said, sounds fun!

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astro junkie
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posted May 11, 2004 10:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for astro junkie     Edit/Delete Message
Pink Pearl -

If the other girl is too sappy, it may REALLY hurt her. But I've found that if I really dig someone, turning them out is a ton of fun either way.

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pixelpixie
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posted May 14, 2004 11:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for pixelpixie     Edit/Delete Message
So, Aries rocks.... what's going on?
Did you go on a date?

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