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Topic: a girl jsut asked me out
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Ariesrocks! Knowflake Posts: 527 From: Registered: Dec 2003
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posted May 03, 2004 01:28 PM
ehum, so should I accept? IP: Logged |
Ariesrocks! Knowflake Posts: 527 From: Registered: Dec 2003
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posted May 03, 2004 01:29 PM
just! she just asked me out, I can't even spell I'm so nervousIP: Logged |
pidaua Knowflake Posts: 1997 From: Annapolis, Maryland USA Registered: May 2002
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posted May 03, 2004 01:39 PM
If you like her and you are interested in going out with her, then yes. If you are involved with someone else, then I would say no. IP: Logged |
gloomy sag Knowflake Posts: 355 From: USA Registered: Nov 2003
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posted May 03, 2004 01:44 PM
Ugh, are you a guy?Ah, the Month of Love IP: Logged |
sthenri Moderator Posts: 1451 From: New England US Registered: May 2003
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posted May 03, 2004 01:49 PM
I though you were a girl Aries Rocks! What's going on here? I would say either way with the Gemini mood we have now, go for it and see what happens. If you're not bored then it's fun right?Just be sure to get a free meal out of it, Natasha Taurus IP: Logged |
Ariesrocks! Knowflake Posts: 527 From: Registered: Dec 2003
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posted May 03, 2004 02:24 PM
I am a girl, and no I'm not gay. Geez I don't know maybe it would be fun IP: Logged |
gloomy sag Knowflake Posts: 355 From: USA Registered: Nov 2003
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posted May 03, 2004 02:32 PM
Celebrate every connection/date/friendship AriesRocks! It is a short life. IP: Logged |
Ariesrocks! Knowflake Posts: 527 From: Registered: Dec 2003
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posted May 03, 2004 02:34 PM
maybe you're right, but I don't know. By the way my natal venus is in gemini, geez that's what I get for flirtingIP: Logged |
lalalinda Knowflake Posts: 229 From: nevada Registered: Feb 2004
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posted May 03, 2004 04:04 PM
I'm laughing. just the fact that you think it might be fun, I'd say do it. You don't have to have sex or be gay to have a good time. Its sweet. If you're not comfortable just say so, but don't let it stop you from growing and maybe developing a great friendship. CheersIP: Logged |
astro junkie Knowflake Posts: 2334 From: orlando, fl Registered: Nov 2003
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posted May 03, 2004 04:34 PM
You already know MY vote...IP: Logged |
juniperb Moderator Posts: 4490 From: www.Heaven.Home Registered: Mar 2002
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posted May 03, 2004 04:58 PM
God/dess I love a Taurus. quote: Just be sure to get a free meal out of it
Ariesrocks
------------------ If having a soul means being able to feel love and loyalty and gratitude, then animals are better off than a lot of humans. ~James Herriot IP: Logged |
bewitched Knowflake Posts: 95 From: Registered: Oct 2003
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posted May 03, 2004 06:41 PM
It seems to excite you so much, from your first 2 emails, can we ask if you're attracted??? Maybe you just really admire this person. I think you should go for it if it really makes you happy. Just be careful not to hurt her feelings.
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pixelpixie Knowflake Posts: 2163 From: Ontario, Canada Registered: Aug 2003
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posted May 03, 2004 08:32 PM
WTF?! You only live once...( maybe)IP: Logged |
Ariesrocks! Knowflake Posts: 527 From: Registered: Dec 2003
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posted May 04, 2004 02:56 AM
I don't know, maybe I'm just too boycrazy and my brain is trying to balance it out by saying "there are goodlooking girls too you know!" I really don't want to hurt her feelings and she's not looking for a guy in her life right now ehum..so. I'm curious sure, I don't know we'll see IP: Logged |
alchemiest Knowflake Posts: 166 From: baltimore, MD USA Registered: Sep 2003
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posted May 04, 2004 09:47 PM
Was it just like a 'we should hang out sometime' or a 'I am really into you, we should go out sometime' sort of thing? Maybe she just wants to get to know you as a friend IP: Logged |
astro junkie Knowflake Posts: 2334 From: orlando, fl Registered: Nov 2003
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posted May 05, 2004 01:07 AM
AriesRocks -It's a lot more than just being about a lot of good-looking girls to choose from. How do you feel when a guy is gawking at your body? It's uncomfortable, right? So why wouldn't it feel just as uncomfortable if a girl was doing the same? This just reinforces my observation of how we love to say we SO NOT discriminate, blah, blah, blah. How we SO NOT judge, blah, blah, blah... So how do you get past that which is ingrained in us? Well, unless you want to try to envision people as sexless, colorless, preferential-less... you get the idea ... I say you got to go SPIRITUAL! Hope you choose the right path if it doesn't choose you, and hope you find the right frequency instead of ignoring it. Look - I was SOOOOOOOOOOOO nervous on my first girl date, even though I grew up around gays / lesbians and everything in between. It's like being just as nervous as your first boy date. But just relax. Don't assume sex is going to happen. And if she does hold your hand or something sweet and simple like that, don't freak!!!! IP: Logged |
sthenri Moderator Posts: 1451 From: New England US Registered: May 2003
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posted May 05, 2004 10:17 AM
Hello Aries Rocks, Gloria, that's good advice for any date. Not to let you mind jump ahead and relax. Not too relaxed but being calm will help you really enjoy yourself.Natasha Taurus IP: Logged |
babylonphoenix Knowflake Posts: 23 From: hell Registered: Apr 2004
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posted May 05, 2004 12:24 PM
pixelpixie what if you dont only live once ha ha ha ha ha baby IP: Logged |
PinkPearls&Stars Knowflake Posts: 13 From: San Diego, Ca, USA Registered: Apr 2004
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posted May 11, 2004 05:00 AM
It sounds exciting . Just make sure you're doing it because you think you could really care about her. I imagine it would hurt for her later on down the road when she realizes she was just an "experiment". As long as you guys are both clear on your stances. Hope it works out. Like I said, sounds fun!IP: Logged |
astro junkie Knowflake Posts: 2334 From: orlando, fl Registered: Nov 2003
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posted May 11, 2004 10:28 AM
Pink Pearl -If the other girl is too sappy, it may REALLY hurt her. But I've found that if I really dig someone, turning them out is a ton of fun either way. IP: Logged |
pixelpixie Knowflake Posts: 2163 From: Ontario, Canada Registered: Aug 2003
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posted May 14, 2004 11:16 AM
So, Aries rocks.... what's going on? Did you go on a date?IP: Logged |