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Topic: i've met someone...
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purplezen Knowflake Posts: 503 From: outer space Registered: Aug 2003
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posted May 17, 2004 03:45 PM
I met someone at work the other day and we just clicked...exchanged numbers and everything...something I rarely do, but I took a leap of faith. It wasn't embarrassing or awkward at all. I would have thought for sure he is a sag, being so happy and outgoing, but I found out he is a cancer (which is surprising) and lives about 5 minutes down the street from me. He called me yesterday and we talked for a long time. We plan to get together soon. Will keep you all posted...any advice about virgo girl + cancer guy would be appreciated. IP: Logged |
Yin Knowflake Posts: 69 From: Registered: May 2004
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posted May 17, 2004 03:50 PM
I have one word about Cancers - yummyyyyyyyyyy You go, girl!IP: Logged |
purplezen Knowflake Posts: 503 From: outer space Registered: Aug 2003
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posted May 17, 2004 07:21 PM
thanks yin, he is quite the looker and a few years older than me He said to call me sometime this week, I'm thinking friday I will call and suggest we get together like he said. I'm usually not this gutsy or willing to put myself on the line so to speak, but he seems genuinely interested and even wants to see my dance performance in july IP: Logged |
pixelpixie Knowflake Posts: 2354 From: Ontario, Canada Registered: Aug 2003
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posted May 17, 2004 08:20 PM
*whispers.. I'll BET he does.... IP: Logged |
PinkPearls&Stars Knowflake Posts: 21 From: San Diego, Ca, USA Registered: Apr 2004
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posted May 18, 2004 02:37 AM
How exciting! It must mean something's special between you too if you are compelled to be more gutsy! I don't know if there's a big difference when it comes to genders, but I'm a Cancer with a lot of Sag qualities, because it's my asc sign. And my best friend is a Virgo. According to a couple of books I've read, and through my own persoanl exp, they compliment each other perfectly! Especially if he has Sag qualities like you said. Sounds like your up for a lot of fun. I know me and my bud click better than almost anyone else I know. She's one of my most closest soul- mates. Good luck!IP: Logged |
purplezen Knowflake Posts: 503 From: outer space Registered: Aug 2003
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posted May 18, 2004 05:33 PM
Thanks pinkpearls...welcome to lindaland. I like your nickname by the way. I'll post again when I hear back from him or on friday after I call, whichever comes first.IP: Logged |
PinkPearls&Stars Knowflake Posts: 21 From: San Diego, Ca, USA Registered: Apr 2004
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posted May 18, 2004 08:54 PM
Thanks! Can't wait to see what happens!IP: Logged |
purplezen Knowflake Posts: 503 From: outer space Registered: Aug 2003
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posted May 23, 2004 07:22 PM
Ok, sorry to leave you all hanging. The cancer man visited me at work the other day. I invited him to see me perform (dance) the very next day (I had just found out about this particular show, so it was very short notice) but he said he wished he could go but he was busy. He asked me for my email address and cell phone number. Today I called him and we talked for a little while. I think right now I am too chicken too say "hey would you like to see a movie sometime" or something like that. And he hasnt asked me (yet), so we'll see.IP: Logged |
pixelpixie Knowflake Posts: 2354 From: Ontario, Canada Registered: Aug 2003
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posted May 23, 2004 09:41 PM
IMHO; You have asked him already.. he couldn't.. which is absolutely cool and understandable... But.. the ball's in his court now.. he has two ways to contact you.. and he shall. Be interested, but I say, let him initiate the next date.. you've already indicated interest.... Men like this sort of thing, and if he is shy.. you can casually hint.. if a movie comes up, or something you would enjoy, in casual conversation, you can say.. "Oh, I would LOVE to see that." Leave it out there, and if he is smart and picks up signals, should offer to take you ......IP: Logged |
purplezen Knowflake Posts: 503 From: outer space Registered: Aug 2003
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posted May 23, 2004 11:09 PM
thanks for the advice pixel. I know you are right. It is his turn to do the asking now So I will be patient. I dont want to seem too eager or pushy. If nothing comes of it, I wont be heart-broken or anything (maybe a bit disappointed). I'll keep you posted.IP: Logged |
juniperb Moderator Posts: 4630 From: www.Heaven.Home Registered: Mar 2002
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posted May 23, 2004 11:35 PM
My man is a Cancer and I have a Virgo Moon....... 10 years this November! ------------------ If having a soul means being able to feel love and loyalty and gratitude, then animals are better off than a lot of humans. ~James Herriot IP: Logged |
purplezen Knowflake Posts: 503 From: outer space Registered: Aug 2003
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posted May 24, 2004 05:36 PM
Thanks for sharing juniperb There is just something about those cancer men IP: Logged |
Sun_Scorpion Knowflake Posts: 371 From: UK Registered: Aug 2003
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posted May 27, 2004 07:35 AM
Hi Purple!! Wow, he sounds great!! Just thought u'de like some extra info on Cancer men!!GENERAL CHARACTERISTICS: A cardinal water sign, you are emotional, ambitious and self protective. Sensitive, sympathetic, family oriented, you are also have a good deal of initiative, and work exceptionally hard. Ruled by the Moon, a feminine energy, which is intuitive but also moody, you are good at creating security, very creative, in tune with public taste. You kind over react to even the faintest whiff of criticism, and are prone to jealousy, more than most. Your symbol is the crab, so you often approach tricky situations sideways. When life does not suit you then like the crab, you just bury yourself in the sand and refuse to budge. A master at the art of passive resistance you can be thoroughly frustrating to companions who are trying to encourage you into action. LOVE: Highly seductive, exceedingly charming, and needing the feel of emotional closeness, you must have a reliable partner to make you feel secure. Loyalty is important, since you can be possessive and rather over sensitive to partners being anywhere other than by your side. Truth to tell physical sex is less important to you than being part of a happy settled family group. Too much one-to-one intimacy can make you nervous. Male Cancerians just want to have a welcoming home to retreat to. Your leisure activities always involve a large circle of fun friends, wealthy acquaintances and relatives. You like team activities but not too much strenuous activity. CAREER: Wonderful at anything to do with taste, caring, catering, nurturing and protecting, you work exceptionally well in any home or feminine arena, including food, real estate, interior design or fashion. You combine flair, vision, inspiration with a capacity for dreaming up new projects and setting them on their way. Not an idle dreamer, you make things happen. Your boredom threshold can be low since you are a starter by nature, not a finisher. You need variety, excitement and constant change before you will be settled. Your strong imagination is very rooted in a sense of the present, so you are rarely wrong in your hunches about what will work. You can also work well in the caring professions, where your sensitivity to the needs of the disadvantaged or sick can be put to good use. Though you always need to feel your talents are appreciated and that constant praise is coming your way. DOWNSIDE: Watch out for: Being fickle and moody, you are guaranteed to make mountains out of molehills especially in emotional situations. If companions seem even slightly off, detached or standoffish you take it as a personal slight and disappear off into a three week sulk. Often you can cut your nose off to spite your face when you get into a drama. You are over sentimental to the point where leaving the past behind is well nigh impossible. (Also, Cancer men usually adore and idolize their mothers, so compliment her when you can!! eg; if u see a photo of her!) IP: Logged |
sthenri Moderator Posts: 1510 From: New England US Registered: May 2003
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posted May 27, 2004 08:19 AM
Wow that sounds like methree week sulk, Yes Cancers and Cancer moons will sulk, and brood but it's not personal, they do that with everyone and eventually get over it on their own. Cancers make great friends:> Natasha IP: Logged |
purplezen Knowflake Posts: 503 From: outer space Registered: Aug 2003
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posted May 27, 2004 07:33 PM
Thanks for all the info sun-scorpion. We have been e-mailing eachother, that's about it. Nothing really new here. But I am not giving up yet I'm sure he just wants to get to know me better. I don't blame him. I'm glad, it shows that he just doesnt want a "bed buddy" lol. IP: Logged |
Special Knowflake Posts: 55 From: London, England Registered: May 2004
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posted May 28, 2004 01:05 PM
Oooo.. best of luck.. best of luck! Have a cool weekend if I don't log on and thanks for the well wishes!! Special ------------------ 29th November 1977 Sun: Sagittarius Moon: Cancer Mercury: Sagittarius Venus: Scorpio Mars: Leo.. and the rest will leave a mighty long signature! IP: Logged |
Special Knowflake Posts: 55 From: London, England Registered: May 2004
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posted May 28, 2004 01:06 PM
..and have a cool weekend even if I do!I can be such a dawk IP: Logged |
pixelpixie Knowflake Posts: 2354 From: Ontario, Canada Registered: Aug 2003
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posted May 28, 2004 02:35 PM
Hey Special.... Do you know your Ascendant? Thanks for the well wishes. You have a happy weekend too!IP: Logged |
purplezen Knowflake Posts: 503 From: outer space Registered: Aug 2003
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posted May 31, 2004 01:57 PM
I think I blew it with this cancer guy...the other day in an email I told him I was going swimming and that he could join me if he wanted to, and I haven't heard from him since. oh well. IP: Logged |