posted May 31, 2004 10:26 PM         

sun: in virgo, square neptune, sextile uranus

moon: in gemini, trine saturn, trine jupiter

asc: leo

merc: in libra, conjunct jupiter, sextile asc, sextile neptune

venus: in scorpio, square ascendant, square mars, inconjunct moon

mars: in leo, conjunct asc, sextile saturn, sextile jupiter

jupiter: in libra, conjunct mercury, conjunct pluto, conjuct saturn

saturn: in libra, conjunct jupiter, trine moon, sextile mars, sextile asc

uranus: in scorpio, opposition moon, sextile sun

neptune: in sag, trine asc, sextile mercury, sextile pluto,

pluto: in libra, conjunct merc, conj. jupiter, sextile neptune

true node: leo

chiron: taurus

Houses:

1) leo
2) sun
3) mercury
4) uranus
5) neptune
6-9) empty
10) moon
11) empty
12) mars

posted June 01, 2004 12:09 AM         

I don't know if pretending is the solution how about this is there anyone you have your heart set on? If so go after what you want like a job, it takes work, it doesn't just come to you.

posted June 01, 2004 09:47 AM         

With your moon in Gemini companionship is really important to you, are your partners usually light hearted or more moody/broody? Where have you been looking? My moon in Gemini friends are usually unhappy with more intense types and so prefer to go to places where people read, think, talk and write. Do you ever ask people out?

I highly suggest traveling to you, because you may play it too close to home. Ask around to see if anyone you know, wants to go on a trip.

posted June 01, 2004 01:16 PM         

Astro, I just pretend I am not looking because I don't want to seem desperate.

bewitched, I had hoped something would come of my meeting this cancer guy (see topic called "i've met someone"), but as soon as I showed some interest he stopped calling and emailing me

Sthenri, I really don't know where to look. I'm not into the bar scene. Maybe I'll check out yahoo personals. I've never asked anyone out, but I am not very subtle when letting someone know that I like them, it is hard for me to hide it. regarding travel, Actually my last relationship was a long-distance one with a leo, and I travelled a lot and it ended terribly.

posted June 01, 2004 02:42 PM         

If he reads too much into it, then he's not the type for you, and if he wants you to pay then he isn't the one! If he is generous and kind to you on the trip then he is your type. But make sure it's someone you do not already have a crush on. Then get to know each other and have fun.

Try this with several men, preferably ones who are light hearted and respect women.

It's good to have lots of fun friends in your life and your warmth is attractive, but men can be timid about what it means. You have to be the one in control, who makes the plans, and is clear about what your plan is, because with a Leo ascendant it's expected and those who respect you will respect your planning ability.

You want to check out a man in different locations, travel overnight with several.

posted June 01, 2004 02:46 PM         

To really see a man for himself you got to get him comfortable so he can be himself. In a bar or club he is showing off in front of other men, and feels competitive and angry, OR, he will like that because he wants to show you off. Once you get a man alone in different locations you see him when he is himself and then you can allow his charm to show through, or not show through.

You don't have to worry about YOUR charm, you have tons to spare. But you need to find someone who is not jealous, and the kind that is brave but intelligent. To do that he needs to be secure in himself at the start. A long drive to the beach is good but you have to make the first moves always.

Trust me I know how that feels, and it's a pain but you get used to it.

Right now I am dating a man who I introduced myself too and it's working out okay. If I had waited for him to say Hi, it would never have happened, but he is not too timid for me so far. I am always watching for timidity though.
When I see that I start to turn off the charm.