Posts: 19
From: Eugene, Or.
Registered: Jan 2004

posted June 06, 2004 07:41 PM         

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Hi,

I am sad today because the person that I have been seeing for the past 2 months told me that he is moving next month due to his work! My heart shattered when he told me, but I just acted non chalant towards him. I was just starting to like him even though I tried to keep myself emotionally detached from him because I knew something like this was going to happen. So now I just need to find the strength to move on and stay away from him till he leaves. How do I do stay away from him? And the other thing, I am having a uranus trine venus transit right now! I really thought it meant that you might attract odd balls not that you would chase love away?!?

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From: outer space
Registered: Aug 2003

posted June 06, 2004 11:14 PM         

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What about a long-distance relationship? I think it would be kind of selfish to avoid seeing him for a whole month, why not just enjoy the time that you do have together? I don't mean to sound like a critical virgo (although i am, lol) that's just my advice. goodluck and keep us posted!

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From: orlando, fl
Registered: Nov 2003

posted June 07, 2004 12:05 AM         

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You know, sometimes I think about how difficult it can be to just find good, solid, long-term romance. Like, look at one of the most beautiful and well-connected women in the world - Halle Berry! She's had two really really bad serious relationships in a row.

Perhaps this guy has plans to keep in touch with you, and perhaps something will come of it without you feeling like you're on the side lines.

Looks like in this case, Uranus acted as the "unexpected" to your Venus.

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it's better to light a candle than curse the darkness...

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From: Eugene, Or.
Registered: Jan 2004

posted June 07, 2004 12:38 AM         

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Thanks! You guys are right. It is selfish of me not to see him for a month, but I do not want to be hurt anymore than necessary and I am not sure that he feels the same about me, since we are still very new together it seems like we are both very bad at expressing our feelings to one another...maybe both of us are afraid of being hurt just like everyone else in the world, right? Also, in regards to a long distance romance, that would not be possible since he will be moving all the way to the east coast : ( and I am on the west. That is just too far! And sadly, I think you are right astro junkie about Uranus being unexpected, but I don't want it to be like that! If it were my fantasy and my dream...he would take me away with him and we would have kids and live happily ever after sitting on our porch swing watching the sunset...: (((( See I think I am a little too far gone. Sorry y'all!

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From: Portsmouth,UK
Registered: Aug 2003

posted June 07, 2004 04:06 AM         

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Communication, baby. Say something to him, ask him how he feels about the two of you. It's scary, but it's the only way you'll ever be able to find out if you have a future. Especially if you are that into him, you owe it to yourself to know...

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From: nevada
Registered: Feb 2004

posted June 07, 2004 02:14 PM         

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"absence makes the heart grow fonder"

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From: Los Angeles, CA
Registered: Dec 2001

posted June 07, 2004 07:54 PM         

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Just want to chime in with my 2 cents.

Go For It Baby!!

You already hurt so why not spend this last month and see what happens. Ask him what he would like to see happen. Maybe you guys are on the same page and you don't even know it.

If he says something like "Well since I'm leaving I think it best we end here" Just give him a big smile, tell him you understand maybe even agree but you can't fault a girl for trying! Say it with a full heart and go for the gold. You won't be any worse than you are now and you will have practiced being open and putting yourself out there with someone you like and who likes you and whose answer will not be intended to hurt you. Doesn't mean it won't hurt but it won't be because he is trying to hurt you...know what I mean.

Best Wishes!
Love,
Amber
(Libra)

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From: Eugene, Or.
Registered: Jan 2004

posted June 08, 2004 10:59 PM         

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Hmmm...some really good advice! Thankyou all! I need to practice being more upfront and open...it's true! Sometimes I feel like if I am open and forward about my feelings that I will seem insecure and needy even though that is kind of how I feel inside sometimes and really we all feel that way sometimes, right? Thankyou for the support and I will see how it goes with Mr. Taurus/aqua and if it feels right I will ask him.

Thanks!

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From: neither here nor there
Registered: Jul 2002

posted June 09, 2004 06:51 AM         

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Don't forget to tell him you'll miss him.

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