Posts: 102
From: Somewhere over the Clouds
Registered: May 2004

posted June 12, 2004 01:53 PM         

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Hi guys.

I wonder if you can help me with my friend's problem?

MY friend has met a girl a few weeks ago.He is an Arien while she is an Taurean.
However he find out that she has a boyfriend who goes away often due to his job. So my friend and her met. Things were going smoothly between them until he appeared on the scene.NOW she does not want to speak to my friend at all while her boyfriend is around.My friend wants to know what is going on between him and her.He wants to break it off with her but at the same time he wants her.HE said to me that he expects too much in a relationship.I told him to break it off as her boyfriend was on the scene before he came along.He said he doesn't know what to do.
HOWEVER, I know he shouldn't get involved with her at the beginning and she shouldn't emotionally abused my friend but most importantly,she shouldn't had let my friend get involved with her,knowing it will ruin things.
What shall my friend do?
I have given my advice but it is basically up to him to decide.

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From: orlando, fl
Registered: Nov 2003

posted June 12, 2004 03:26 PM         

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Maybe he's the type of Aries who dives without looking first. She's a Taurus and unless she shares in some of those Aries traits, she'll probably choose the stability of her boyfriend over your friend.

I hate when relations between people get to this point because neither is looking out for the other's best interest. It's just selfish. In my experience, it's very important to always have the attitude that you want the other to be happy no matter what.

Like the song goes, you can't always get what you want, but if you try sometime, you just might find, you get what you need...

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it's better to light a candle than curse the darkness...

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From: Somewhere over the Clouds
Registered: May 2004

posted June 12, 2004 05:49 PM         

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Thanks AJ.

I agree with you about the selfish part.They should just leave one another alone but it is not up to me.

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