posted June 25, 2004 01:25 PM         

I'd love a bit of insight here. My Neptune-influenced mind is not quite sure if I'm imagining this as a "situation" or dwelling in a fantasty.

I'll be brief. A Leo and I have been quite good friends for about 3 years. From the beginning I've had something of a "crush" on him, something he's been aware of. Only in the last few months has it started to seem like deep feelings, not just a crush. Back in April, in a drunken haze, he and I slept together. It was discussed as "that funny thing that happened when we were drunk," which is fine with me. As long as things are clear in either direction, I can handle it. So we're clearly friends after this. A few weeks ago, before I left for the summer, as we're saying goodbye, we hug and whatnot, and he plants a big kiss on me- on the lips.

This has sent me into confusion. And of course I'm overanalyzing. But in my mind- you simply DON'T kiss someone who you're not a.) attracted to, and b.) just friends with. And with him, he's always been really careful to keep the platonic line, and not mislead me, which I respect him for. But this? I don't know.

The other thing is, in the instant he kissed me- right before/as- I got this tremendous rush through my whole body, like a wave rising up, and I instantly felt that he wanted to kiss me. Something I've never, ever felt before. I feel like he had to have felt it too.

We've talked since, like normal, but not about the kiss. I've just written him a letter lightly addressing it.

Does anyone have any insights for me? This person means a great deal to me, and I could really use some help in hadling it, or at least dragging my venus out of the 12th house. And Neptune faaar away from my sun/mercury. Thanks so much!

posted June 26, 2004 08:58 AM         

Look under forecasts under free horoscopes. It's important to have both birthtimes and places.

I would say that the Leo wants an emotional reaction from you, and a relationship. Leos are not fly by nights in the relationship department and they have strong emotional attachments to those they make love to. They do get confused but he is obviously making a decision here.

It's good for you to examine what you want, why would it be too much self analysis to find out why you made love to someone? That's an excellent reason to try and look at your motivations, to see if you are ready for a relationship.

Once you know, communicate to the Leo, by giving expectations in a gentle way. Say these are goals, not demands. But if you don't communicate you will become more confused and he will become more emotional.