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Topic: New here...I need some help
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Dreamybecca
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From: Madrid, Spain
Registered: Jul 2004
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posted July 13, 2004 06:17 AM
 
Hello!
I just found this forum by chance and I am very happy about it. I have been always curious about these things but lately I have "developed" a bigger interest on astrology, so I am trying to read about it. In any case, I only know few things and I thought you may help me.
I have been friends with this Sagittarius boy for almost 3 years, but we don't know each other in person  The thing is that in the lastest year we have talked more and more and I just realised that I have other kind of feelings for him, not just friendship...
I am trying to compare his chart with mine, but as I said before, I only know few things about astrology, so I have only been able to "discover" few things.
Could you help me?
The data is the following:
MINE:
*Sun Aries 25°33'27 02 direct
*Moon Sagittarius 09°03'16 09 direct
*Mercury Pisces 28°59'16 01 direct
*Venus Pisces 21°33'13 01 direct
*Mars Aries 07°03'44 01 direct
*Jupiter Cancer 29°42'11 06 direct
*Saturn Virgo 07°33'04 07 retrograde
*Uranus Scorpio 19°57'35 08/9 retrograde
*(Uranus is technically near the end of house 8 and is interpreted in house 9.)
*Neptune Sagittarius 20°20'36 10 retrograde
*Pluto Libra 17°37'47 07/8 retrograde
(Pluto is technically near the end of house 7 and is interpreted in house 8.)
*True Node Virgo 16°49'34 07 retrograde House positions (Placidus)
Ascendant Pisces 00°44'08
2nd House Aries 17°54'50
3rd House Taurus 20°14'02
Imum Coeli Gemini 13°52'12
5th House Cancer 04°52'58
6th House Cancer 27°59'56
Descendant Virgo 00°44'08
8th House Libra 17°54'50
9th House Scorpio 20°14'02
Medium Coeli Sagittarius 13°52'12
11th House Capricorn 04°52'58
12th House Capricorn 27°59'56 HIS:
*Sun Sagittarius 04°52'55 01 direct
*Moon Gemini 21°25'55 07 direct
*Mercury Sagittarius 25°03'47 02 direct
*Venus Scorpio 21°25'28 12/1 direct
(Venus is technically near the end of house 12 and is interpreted in house 1.)
*Mars Leo 10°03'13 09 direct
*Jupiter Cancer 04°17'44 08 retrograde
*Saturn Virgo 00°21'33 09 direct
*Uranus Scorpio 13°30'12 12 direct
*Neptune Sagittarius 15°27'07 01 direct
*Pluto Libra 15°53'55 11 direct
*True Node Libra 14°02'20 11 retrograde Ascendant Scorpio 23°38'07
2nd House Sagittarius 24°44'33
3rd House Aquarius 03°39'58
Imum Coeli Pisces 12°25'09
5th House Aries 12°53'27
6th House Taurus 05°38'41
Descendant Taurus 23°38'07
8th House Gemini 24°44'33
9th House Leo 03°39'58
Medium Coeli Virgo 12°25'09
11th House Libra 12°53'27
12th House Scorpio 05°38'41 Anything you consider interesting, let me know. I am here to learn 
Thank you so much in advance!
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astro junkie
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posted July 13, 2004 06:39 AM
Hola ...Usted es de Espana? Bueno ... How did I know you were going to have a Venus in Pisces just from reading your intro.... I'm good... Well, I think you know the answer to your question about how you go with the boy. I'm not even sure how old you are, but I think you know you will not marry this dude... como gaucho... .gloria ------------------
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Randall
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posted July 13, 2004 07:46 AM
Welcome!  ------------------
"Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark IP: Logged |
sthenri
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posted July 13, 2004 09:08 AM
What is it you want from the relationship? Making your goals clearer to yourself will make you happy. Trust yourself to tell him how you feel eventually, he will accept you the way you are.With your Mars in Aries I can see why you are attracted to his Venus in Scorpio and Scorpio Ascendant. It's going to be hard to keep it from getting physical, how do you feel about that step? How would he take it? Since you have a tendency to jump in when you feel emotionally ready, make sure to take him through the steps. He may not feel as sure as you, clarify your feelings. Writing down how you feel will help, ask yourself how much better your life would be with him in it, and then tell him what you think, honestly. Don't try and win him, just be honest about your feelings as they unfold and go slow. Natasha
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Dreamybecca
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From: Madrid, Spain
Registered: Jul 2004
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posted July 13, 2004 11:41 AM
Oeps, I didn't know I will get answers so fast...thank you!
Yes, I am from Spain and I am 25. And yes, I wrote him about my feelings few days ago...He didn't expect it. I imagined that.
By the way, don't worry, nobody is thinking about getting married!, but that doesn't mean that I am not thinking about something serious...
In any case, according to your answers, I think you see things I cannot...you see, my knowledge on astrology is REALLY basic
What is what you see exactly? I mean, good and bad things...
Thank you for your patience (I tend to be a curious person)
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Dreamybecca
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From: Madrid, Spain
Registered: Jul 2004
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posted July 13, 2004 12:00 PM
I forgot to include this:Composite Horoscope midpoint method
PLANETARY POSITIONS
planet sign degree house
Sun Aquarius 15°13'11 01
Moon Virgo 15°14'35 08
Mercury Aquarius 12°01'32 01
Venus Capricorn 21°29'20 01
Mars Gemini 08°33'28 05
Jupiter Cancer 16°59'58 07
Saturn Virgo 03°57'18 08
Uranus Scorpio 16°43'53 10
Neptune Sagittarius 17°53'52 12
Pluto Libra 16°45'51 09
True Node Libra 00°25'57 09
HOUSE POSITIONS (Placidus)
Ascendant Capricorn 12°11'08
2nd House Aquarius 21°19'41
3rd House Pisces 26°57'00
Imum Coeli Aries 28°08'41
5th House Taurus 23°53'12
6th House Gemini 16°49'19
Descendant Cancer 12°11'08
8th House Leo 21°19'41
9th House Virgo 26°57'00
Medium Coeli Libra 28°08'41
11th House Scorpio 23°53'12
12th House Sagittarius 16°49'19
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NightCreature
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posted July 13, 2004 12:06 PM
sthenri you provided a great way for planning out a relationship Long term thinking. I like that Also puts all expectations into perspective IP: Logged |
sthenri
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From: Montreal, Canada
Registered: May 2003
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posted July 13, 2004 05:27 PM
Thanks Nightcreature:>The Mars in Aries points to an emotional decision, you really like his Sag placements because that's what you want, an emotional connection. But be sure to check twice on your own feelings because you tend to combine love with faith. They are not the same thing because no one is perfect. Think two or three times before saying I do.
Be aware you can prod him to commit, just don't offer assurances until you are sure of his sincerity. Some people take time, so be patient, and convey that patience to him. Good Luck,
Let us know how it turns out.
The composite is very close to a relationship "that works", you both know what you want and he ought to be able to communicate to you very easily. That's a plus. Natasha
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astro junkie
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posted July 13, 2004 05:35 PM
Have fun in the mean time!IP: Logged |
Dreamybecca
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From: Madrid, Spain
Registered: Jul 2004
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posted July 13, 2004 06:11 PM
Hey, thanks to you all for the explanations
We will see how this ends up...I will let you know 
Take care,
RebecaPs:A emotional connection...that is what I want
P.s: In general, what aspects do you take into account in a chart in order to know if a relationship can work or not? IP: Logged |
astro junkie
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posted July 13, 2004 07:14 PM
DreamyBecca -I'm a single Libra girl, I'm Demi Moore years old, and never married. I've had my share of fun with very interesting sexy guys (and girls)... and I'm not sure when I'm going to stop. Just keep thinking one day, one of these guys are going to fall madly in love with me, and live happily ever after. There is no doubt you and this guy have a lot of connections which makes it fun, and exciting. Just take care of your heart, sometimes we don't feel the pain until later, so it's not always an easy thing to do when you have the courage to explore life at the same time. When you say you want to know what to look for in astrology to know if a relationship will "work", what do you mean? As in emotional connections? The first thing to do is forget about astrology and decide if this guy is treating you well. ------------------
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LibraSparkle
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posted October 05, 2004 10:56 AM
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Dreamybecca
Knowflake Posts: 26
From: Madrid, Spain
Registered: Jul 2004
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posted October 10, 2004 11:24 AM
Thank you for the advice, Librasparkle & AJ, about how to look for the posts...Anyway, my computer is driving me crazy... I hope to fix all this mess soon...AJ, I know this boy & I seem to have things in common, that there is some kind of connection between both of us...I don't know how to explain it, but sometimes he makes me a bit confused. According to what he told me, "he likes me very much", and there are certain things that make me think he cares for me or he sees me as someone special. Sometimes he remembers things that I have told him (you know, little things such I like pasta or so, or not really important things that I have told him a while ago), which surprises me...you know, like he is paying attention to what I say, lol 
Sometimes it is like I feel (my intuition, which used to be pretty good, but maybe not so good lately...) he feels more than friendship for me, but at the same time, I know there is a girl at his office...and I know he likes her (I only know she is Cancer), so...
What is driving me a bit crazy is what I call "my intuition", because my logical side says one thing (run, baby, run!) but my intuition says that I should wait to see what happens, because I feel like there is something "hidden" in all this...this is me rambling, sorry...
AJ, you asked me: "When you say you want to know what to look for in astrology to know if a relationship will "work", what do you mean? As in emotional connections?" I meant when you compared two charts, which aspects say a relationship is lasting, which aspects indicate really bad stuff/really good stuff...hmmm, I don't think I am explain it well...sorry, I have had a long day "fighting" with the computer...
Take care,
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astro junkie
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posted October 10, 2004 11:53 AM
Always go with your intuition. ALWAYS.Things to look for in a Chart for "long lasting" relationship? I look at Saturn first, and then Jupiter because those are what will eventually make or break a relationship, no matter if you're constantly bickering, or whether you can't keep your hands off each other. Saturn for how much energy a person is willing to put into the long-run, and Jupiter for the believing.  IP: Logged |
Dreamybecca
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From: Madrid, Spain
Registered: Jul 2004
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posted October 10, 2004 06:45 PM
Thank you for the info, AJ!
About my intuition, well, it is a strange thing, because the things I "feel" are not based on logical stuff, so I don't know how I reach certain conclusions about certain things, but most of times, I am right!IP: Logged | |
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