posted July 24, 2004 12:10 AM              

I wonder how aquarius men think and feel when falling in love.

An aquarius guy and I are very attracted to each other but he seems or shy or just needing more time to make the first move.

Some tell me to ask him out and talk to him about us, others tell me to wait and just try to become friends first. But the phyisical attraction is so strong that I am not sure if he is just shy and nervous.

How can I read the signals on him? How do I know if he is waiting for me to make the first move? Or how do I know if he is just needing more time?

Itīs that I get upset often because I feel I have no much progress.

posted July 24, 2004 12:26 AM              

I am an Aquarian that married an Aquarian. We were friend for many (6, but who's counting?) years. Then one day out of the blue he decided that he loved me and wanted to get married. We went on 1 date and where married.

It takes time with Aquarians. The men are little "slow" with affairs of the heart. If you can stay friends it has a real good chance to turn into romance. Just don't go looking for him to remember things like your birthday! (This is still an issue in my house and we've been married for almost 10 years!)

I hope this helps a little!

posted July 24, 2004 06:42 PM              

Pressing an Aqua to do what you want isn't advisable. Ever. Remember: these are the born rebels of the Zodiac. Their need for independence is very strong and they have a will to match, even if they appear shy and unsure of themselves. All Aquas think for themselves, and resent it when other's don't respect that. Mutual friendship is highly attractive to any Aqua, especially one in which there's a free exchange of ideas and interests and without "strings attached" or other forms of emotional manipulation. In short, you simply can't "catch" "snag" or "corral" an Aqua. If you want to get on your Aqua's good side, engage him through his interests and let him discover that he's free to be himself when with you - and free to go on his way when he feels the need.

Since Aquas are notoriously nonconventional, conventional tactics and norms of dating don't usually sit well with them. Many prefer not to formally "date" a person, even when strongly attracted to them. Too conventional. Also Aquas need a lot time away from their partners - they can be very loyal and devout once in a relationship, but they will never lose their need to strike out on their own from time to time. Again, if this isn't something you think you can cope with, review your options.

posted July 26, 2004 09:54 PM            

From personal experience with this man, I cannot stress enough to allow them the freedom to be themselves and do what they want to do. I am a Sagittarius in every sense of the word (Sun, Asc & Mars in Sag), value my freedom highly and resent any form of restriction, but NOTHING compares to the amount of freedom (mental, emotional & physical) an Aquarius native needs from day to day. Aloofness is an almost daily occurence with this man.

Also, one moment you think you have them figured out (you don't) they will switch on you, even mid-sentence! I'm not sure if it's their need to be so different or what, but my Aqua will agree with a point being made on the news and will head off with a complete opposite viewpoint by the time the news story is over!

Aquarians are friends to everyone and like to keep their options open. I had to make the first move for my first kiss with my Aquarius guy after a really wonderful day spent together (that boggled my mind completely) going to the art museum to see an exhibit, having lunch and walking around the shops downtown and took me to a place I vaguely remember mentioning in passing (this guy has a much better memory than he lets on)... He wasn't very affectionate, but gentlemanly when we first started dating, so I knew he knew how to treat a woman. Funny thing was, I strongly wondered at this man's sexual orientation, as when I first met him, he almost struck me as being bi-sexual (I later found out nothing could be further from the truth! he's all man!) His manner of dress was sophisticated and tasteful, but almost in a way that could appeal to both sexes. After our first date, all I got was a friendly hug goodbye - and we had just sat and talked in the restaurant for 4 1/2 hours, closing it down; that left me wondering quite a bit about this man's interest and was a huge clue to what this man is like.

But, one thing is that once you are friends, they will go the extra mile for you. Just don't question their integrity or motives - that is a cause for them to become even more detached from you (ask me how I know...)

posted July 27, 2004 03:29 AM              

I can tell now that the clue with this aquarius guy is to become her best friend. I am in that process now, but what makes me feel so worried is that soon, this guy is moving to another job and probably I will not see him again.

He hasnīt make any move even I can notice he cares for me, and I am afraid that once we are apart, he will not miss me or need me and then, we will lose the chance to even become friends.

I am very upset these days, thinking about talking to him and tell him about my feelings (not very sentimental, of course); well, I am having desperate thoughts and I donīt want to screw it up.

But anyway, I have to wait and see what happens...if he really cares for me, somehow he should try to keep in touch with me...I hope.

posted July 27, 2004 10:11 AM              

They are sentimental sometimes, like on their birthday, remembering is important to Aquas. Be sure to keep in touch and send him cards on important holidays and once in a while just to say Hi. It's affectionate without being romantic, and Aquas seem to love that.

He will remember you that way,

That's all you can do really, since Aquas are fixed signs, they must make the ultimate decision. Aquas do not fool around btw.

posted May 16, 2014 11:54 AM            

aquarius men are really no good for my little aries sun, leo rising & libra moons equilibrium..

posted May 19, 2014 07:41 AM            

Was involved with a Pisces sun, libra moon, aqua mars AND venus.

Gosh, well, he THINKS about everything....hot and cold. Right now he is cold as we got too emotional when we messaged back in march, then he shut down....but he was the one being all emotional about everything he hasn't told me in the last 6 months since we have been apart.

I am Saggie, libra mars and venus and leo moon. My leo moon is the issue... once I feel secure its ok, but hot and cold?

He did this before and came back after TWO MONTHS...said how much he missed me. He defo needs his space

I think it is over for good this time though,

posted May 22, 2014 03:58 PM            

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Originally posted by Randall:
Aquarius Mars and Venus here. We are aloof. It doesn't mean we don't care.

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Hey Randall, yes you are right...I questioned if he cared (am leo moon so need some form of talking to me to tell me, as we physically in different countries, it is harder for me to tell as can't see him). As soon as mars went retrograde we started talking again and wishing and hoping and desire all became clear...