posted August 26, 2004 12:19 AM         

This can work, if the Sag is very sentimental, and the Virgo makes an effort at social activites.

posted August 26, 2004 12:57 PM         

Also his Jupiter is trined his Venus/Mars conjunct, which would most likely may he a more cheerful, social sort of Virgo than average. All of this would of course harmonizes very well with his Sag ASC, perhaps giving him the outward, public persona of a fire person more than his earthy Sun would indicate. This would jive very well with your Sag Sun-Lib moon-Sag ASC personality, of course.

However, don't count his Sun out - it's squared to his Neptune in the 1st house: he may be prone to having, er, um, *slightly* grandiose ideas about himself and what he's capable of doing, which may or may not be rooted in reality and very likely be rooted in some ego defense or other ego-related insecurity. With all that fire influence, he may need someone from time to time to make him stop and do a reality check before lunging headfirst into some endeavor. Just so you know.

Also, no matter how much fire influence he has, he's still a Virgo. And Virgos don't like to be wrong, and they get very touchy about people pointing out their errors. So it's best to approach them about their errors of judgement cooly, calmly and rationally, without emotional defenses or sharp accusations. Just so you know (I wouldn't want him turn all that Aries moon energy on you).

Your composite chart is quite interesting: you have a stellium in the 11th house (house of social activities and friendship), which might be why you two feel so bosom buddyish together. It's comprised of the Sun, North Node and Uranus, so this will feel like it's very close to each of your sense of selves, as well as feel very exciting, unusual and "new," and perhaps a bit like fate or destiny. Your Mars and Venus are also conjunct in the composite, which is going to make things pretty intense on more intimate levels - just try not to burn each other out.

That's the good news; now the bad news (I'm the Prophet of Doom around here, by the way...but don't let that scare you ). Your composite has a configuration of three outer planets, Neptune, Pluto and Saturn, in which you have Neptune trined Saturn and each sextiled Plluto. Some astrologers might poo-poo this as not a big deal, but I wouldn't. I've seen this kind of thing before and it plays out like a little seesaw, with the two trined planets pulling back and forth, creating highs and lows. Because these are trines and sextiles, it may not be "felt" until the consequences begin to surface. And when they do surface, the two you may feel like, "hey, how did this happen??"

Because these are outer planets, their influences are harder to "own" so to speak, and may feel like the influences are coming out of nowhere. This can get very confusing. Because it's Neptune in the 12th house, and Saturn in the 8th, little seesaw action has the potential to be very intense and stressful on a deeper level that's not easily seen by either of you. Neptune rules our imagination, idealism and dreams, and 12th house our subconsciousness. Saturn rules our sense of order, realism, morality and responsibilty and the 8th house our sexuality, life, death and wealth. So in essence, the highs and lows you two may experience could be between high idealism and bitter realism, and may have deep effects on your psychological health, sexuality and wealth, for better or worse. And Pluto, which is the apex of this little seesaw, is the planet of regeneration, subconsciousness and transformation. All of these are powerful psychological factors. Therefore on the positive side, these highs and lows may lead you two to have a profoundly transforming relationship for both of you, but I don't think it'll come without a fair amount of stress and perhaps times of confusion and discouragement.

Now I say this based only on the composite of your chart. A composite is like the "personality" of your relationship, but it does not determine how well either or both of you will cope with any problems that creep along. That comes from your own levels of maturity, self-awareness and willingness to make the relationship work. Nor does the compositie indicate how willing either of you are to make a relationship work. That's a choice each of you must make.